Post by billyhorrible on Jan 22, 2015 1:37:33 GMT -5
girpipley - I was going to recommend the same site brennaz did, I think they're the most reputable group out there, but I don't have a lot of experience.
Also, based on your last PM, I think you should call Robert. I'm not saying this because I think anything is going to happen tonight. I'm saying this because there is no way he (or you) is going to regret a false alarm trip back. He's not doing great where he is now anyway, I would bet his mind isn't focusing the way it needs to. I think any negative news, even if it ends up being completely turned around tomorrow is a good time for you guys to be together. And I think he's going to be upset that you're having to deal with this on your own. And you shouldn't have to deal with this on your own. I'll PM you my info if you need any assistance in this matter.
Lots of hugs coming your way. Hopefully tomorrow morning will bring good news. Drink drink drink your water.
Post by ombradellarosa on Jan 22, 2015 3:20:19 GMT -5
I think billyhorrible gives good advice. I can't say it better. I think you'd both be happier if he's with you and I'd say it's good enough cause. That's really upsetting about the fluid, but we know Miles is a pro fluid replenisher by now! Go Miles go! You can do it!
Post by pghtruelove on Jan 22, 2015 4:23:33 GMT -5
Keep on staying positive! Miles did it once and hopefully can do it again! He seems like a really strong little man! Praying for you ever chance I get!!!
I'm so sorry to hear that you're having another setback. Miles has been able to replenish his sack before, hopefully he can do it again. I'd want my husband there too, I think given the latest news you shouldn't feel bad asking him to hop on the next plane, and he would want to be there with you.
Stay strong and my thoughts are with you. I'm rooting for Miles replenishing his fluids.
Fingers crossed you and the boys had a good night. Its going to sound creepy and set off stranger danger warnings but you and your babies were one of the first things I thought of this morning. If I was the praying type I'd be praying.
Post by tahitiandreamin on Jan 22, 2015 8:50:41 GMT -5
I am so sorry to hear your update. I'm praying that they make it a bit longer. The last that I spoke with told me that 23 weeks is often considered unofficial viability these day but there are babies that are born at 22 weeks that make it. I'm praying that your guys stay in even longer for you!
Post by ravenclaw314 on Jan 22, 2015 9:10:09 GMT -5
I recently posted a reply on TB, but I'll post here, too, to say I'm praying for you and your boys! I'm praying for strength, good health, calmness, relief... God will bring you all through this ((hugs))
Your strength amazes me, mama. I've been thinking about you and your boys and sending as much good juju as I can muster your way. Keep hoping everything turns out okay, because we all are too - and that just has to have some impact!
@girlpipey I was thinking about you this morning hoping and praying you all had a good night. Miles is trying his hardest to be a strong little guy, and you're doing your very best to stay strong and healthy for him. I'll make sure you all stay in my prayers.
Good morning, thank you all for your words and advice. I called R last night and he is going to speak with his boss today. He's only been with this company for a year, so we don't want to jeopardize anything there. It's a global satellite company, and this is the only time during the year that every employee is in the same spot. It's just a really shitty time for this trip.
I had my sono this morning, and spoke with the Dr. Miles sac is up to 2.1, which is still super low, but higher than yesterday, so progress.
She said the drop from 3.4 to 1.3 is their key to assume I am officially ruptured, not just a small leak at this point. I've had some fluid leaking since last night, but just when I stand up to go pee.
They are starting me on antibiotics every 6/8 (can't remember) hours, and said I can also try collagen powder/pills (can't hurt). R will pick some up and they can write it in my orders.
At this point, the biggest concern is infection. If I can make it to 22-23 weeks with out infection, they will start steroids, because both babies are already practicing breathing, which I guess is one of the things they would look for before starting steroids. (Someone correct me if I'm wrong, I just got a ton of information)
Someone from the NICU is going to come up in the next few days and explain some things to me. I'm overwhelmed by this, but I'm happy, because I'm telling myself it means my dr thinks I might hang in there a few more weeks.
I'm having some contractions, but nothing organized, and I've been able to stop them with water and laying on my side. My Dr. said they won't stop labor at any point from here on out (something about labor most likely starting because of an infection).
I'm tired, emotionally, so tired. I feel like we take two steps forward and one back, but as long as that doesn't flip, I'm hanging on to some hope.
They are sending a therapist and psychologist to me today, per my request. I think this should be mandatory for everyone on this floor.
Thank you all for keeping us in your thoughts. Ily.
Thanks for sharing @girlpipey. You're definitely in the right place and making smart decisions for you (therapy), and for your boys (antibiotics, water, etc). How many days have you been there now? Are you almost at the 7 they talk about? You're so close to 18 weeks and hopefully both boys can stay strong, keep breathing, keep growing until that 22 week spot. If you can try and focus on the little wins, maybe it'll make them all that much bigger at 24 weeks *fingers crossed*. Rest up mama.
Keep fighting, Miles! I can't imagine how scary this must be for all of you, but it sounds like you're in good hands and your doctors have a plan. I've been thinking about you and your family.
Thanks for sharing @girlpipey. You're definitely in the right place and making smart decisions for you (therapy), and for your boys (antibiotics, water, etc). How many days have you been there now? Are you almost at the 7 they talk about? You're so close to 18 weeks and hopefully both boys can stay strong, keep breathing, keep growing until that 22 week spot. If you can try and focus on the little wins, maybe it'll make them all that much bigger at 24 weeks *fingers crossed*. Rest up mama.
Thank you for your encouragement. I came in last Friday around 4, tomorrow is one week.
Thanks for sharing @girlpipey. You're definitely in the right place and making smart decisions for you (therapy), and for your boys (antibiotics, water, etc). How many days have you been there now? Are you almost at the 7 they talk about? You're so close to 18 weeks and hopefully both boys can stay strong, keep breathing, keep growing until that 22 week spot. If you can try and focus on the little wins, maybe it'll make them all that much bigger at 24 weeks *fingers crossed*. Rest up mama.
Thank you for your encouragement. I came in last Friday around 4, tomorrow is one week.
One more day to hopefully ease the environment you're having to be surrounded in. Good luck talking to someone today as well. Maybe if R comes home, he could benefit too?
Thank you for the update and the blog link, Ive been thinking about you guys. I'm so sorry that you are going through this and I am praying for you and your boys and agree with what others have said about focusing on the little wins and taking it one day at a time. I hope that Rs boss is understanding and sends him home to you with no issue. I think just having him there with you would be beneficial and maybe he could also benefit from the therapy as well if they offer that for him. I would also take the NICU consult as a positive sign that your doctors also have faith. You have so much support and prayers going towards you and your boys.
Post by sugarbean17 on Jan 22, 2015 10:35:53 GMT -5
I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. My heart goes out to you, your husband and your boys. I hope Miles is able to pull through all this. It sounds like you have a very tough little boy on your hands.
Post by Girlymama79 on Jan 22, 2015 10:36:15 GMT -5
I'm so happy there is some good news! I've been checking in all morning hoping there would be an update from you. Every bit of good news however small is good.
Good morning, thank you all for your words and advice. I called R last night and he is going to speak with his boss today. He's only been with this company for a year, so we don't want to jeopardize anything there. It's a global satellite company, and this is the only time during the year that every employee is in the same spot. It's just a really shitty time for this trip.
I had my sono this morning, and spoke with the Dr. Miles sac is up to 2.1, which is still super low, but higher than yesterday, so progress.
She said the drop from 3.4 to 1.3 is their key to assume I am officially ruptured, not just a small leak at this point. I've had some fluid leaking since last night, but just when I stand up to go pee.
They are starting me on antibiotics every 6/8 (can't remember) hours, and said I can also try collagen powder/pills (can't hurt). R will pick some up and they can write it in my orders.
At this point, the biggest concern is infection. If I can make it to 22-23 weeks with out infection, they will start steroids, because both babies are already practicing breathing, which I guess is one of the things they would look for before starting steroids. (Someone correct me if I'm wrong, I just got a ton of information)
Someone from the NICU is going to come up in the next few days and explain some things to me. I'm overwhelmed by this, but I'm happy, because I'm telling myself it means my dr thinks I might hang in there a few more weeks.
I'm having some contractions, but nothing organized, and I've been able to stop them with water and laying on my side. My Dr. said they won't stop labor at any point from here on out (something about labor most likely starting because of an infection).
I'm tired, emotionally, so tired. I feel like we take two steps forward and one back, but as long as that doesn't flip, I'm hanging on to some hope.
They are sending a therapist and psychologist to me today, per my request. I think this should be mandatory for everyone on this floor.
Thank you all for keeping us in your thoughts. Ily.
Thanks for the update...I think of you often throughout the day. I'm so sorry that things are constantly going back and forth but I'm so happy for the amount of fluid that is slowly being replenished. Miles is a fighter just like his mama.
Hopefully your husband being with you will not affect his job standing in any way. They've got to see that these are extenuating circumstances. Get as much info as you need from the therapist and psychologist and know that we are all here rooting for you!
Praying for you. Your fluid replenished before - it can do it again! Positive thoughts for you and babies!
This is exactly what I was thinking ... it went up before, it can do it again! Keep chin up and I'll be thinking of you. Also, could you post your blog link, it was deleted from TB i think.
Praying for you. Your fluid replenished before - it can do it again! Positive thoughts for you and babies!
This is exactly what I was thinking ... it went up before, it can do it again! Keep chin up and I'll be thinking of you. Also, could you post your blog link, it was deleted from TB i think.
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