BF Monday 4/20

[yalllow]

Why did she dye her hair? ^^^ I loved it red.

[bsouls]

My mom and I got into it yesterday and now I'm looking at extended stay hotels and temporary apartments, because she didn't know it'd take this long for us to find a house/ move into our new house. She has a ton of reasons not to go back to Texas (where her husband is and where he owns a condo & house). If I have to make a temporary move then I'm fucking done with this relationship. She was guilted into letting me stay in her condo in the first place, because my brother told her that she's selfish. I tried the baby in our room with us last night in the pack and play - we all slept like shit. My mom doesn't work, but she has a routine that she can't disrupt. She somehow thinks that she's been very nice to us all, even though she constantly has an attitude and makes passive aggressive comments all the time. Fuck her.

[kimberpoo]

bsouls that so sucks. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Good for you for standing up for yourself! it's always hardest when it's family.


No BF yet, so I'll just word this as a bitch to fit in Where oh were oh where was this article like, a year ago?!?! www.xojane.com/issues/childbirth-is-not-a-spectator-sport?utm_source=huffpost_women&utm_medium=pubexchange
it perfectly puts into words so many of my feels about child birth. each to his own, but I was really glad that our families were so respectful and stayed away until I was ready for visitors. I even had one person not visit because the nurse forgot to take down my 'no visiting' sign off the door. love that.

[mrssmith613]

First real period since February 2011 started yesterday...that's all

[kimberpoo]

ok after some thought, I've got a few:

Screw you target diapers. After a year of faithful service, you have begun and continue to explode everywhere. I'm going to chalk it up to being a bad box, but if this new box continues this trend lord help your customer service person when I attempt to return the opened package if they try to refuse. I contacted corporate to let them know about the issue. I hope it's just a bad couple of boxes.
My poor baby has a diaper rash that really hurts him. He's never had one before, at least not one that didn't go away after a few hours with buttcream/desitin on it. He cries every time I try to wipe his bottom, so DH is under orders to just rinse him in the tub or use a wet cloth to clean him if he poops. poor little guy.
also, LO is NAUGHTY when I try and get ready in the morning. morning is usually his happiest time but only if I'm playing with him. I take about 20 mins to do hair/mu, but LO screams and clings on to my leg the entire time. even today when he was surrounded by new toys he did that. IDK what it is, but now that DH is gone in the am by the time I'm getting ready I'm just going to ignore him and try to show him that he gets attention when he plays nice, not when he demands attention.

[angelsnight]

MH is cold all the time...I am hot all the time. I sweat my ass off every single day and we fight over the thermostat all the time. I tell him he can put on sweats or a blanket if he is cold, but I cannot cool down without a fan or the door open. It's a fight all the time.

On top of it I sweat more now due to postpartum crap I guess, and the fact that I am overweight. I shower, and literally an hour later I can smell myself. In the past I would have had to skip a shower for several days in order to smell. I hate this.

[bebeski]

Idk what happened 2 weeks ago but ever since then, LO screams nonstop through her bath. She used to love her bath wth happened?! Nothing!!

And super clingy baby over here...Arrrgh why must they test my patience all.day.long? And DH you are not helping saying I worry about her too much. Of course I do, I'm a mother now duh -wants to smack H upside his head-

[maganonymous]

bebeski my LO hates the bath now too. She used to sit in the tub and play with her toys until the bath water got cold, and now she starts screaming and trying to climb out as soon as I put her in the tub. Hoping it's just a phase or something.

My bitch is about these people at the movie theatre last night. DH and I got there early and were the 2nd group of people in the theatre to find our seats. People started filing in, but the theatre was far from full. This couple sat in the row behind us (even though there were several empty rows) and began complaining about how far I had my seat reclining back! And I wasn't even reclined that far! And then proceeded to kick and push at my chair! And talk the entire time!!! We ended up having to move because they were so rude. But for the other 2/3 of the movie, we had a great time lol

[zandeela]

I hate coming back to work after being gone a few days. Came back to a shit storm!!!

I had to buy a different style of diapers last time and I HATE them. I usually get Pampers cruisers but they were out and I was getting low so I got a box of the pampers baby dry, and the SUCK!! every morning LO was soaked (sleeper and bed sheet) they leaked so bad. With the cruisers she is not soaked, her diaper is full but her sleeper is not wet. I gave the rest of the baby drys away!!!

[bebeski]

Cruisers are the best! Just for the good way they smell
maganonymous - glad to hear another LO is the same way...hopefully just a fast phase!!

[Deleted]

My 3 year old would not nap. 5 hours till bedtime....

[nattybumppo]

Apr 20, 2015 13:41:15 GMT -5 @notyourmom said:

My 3 year old would not nap. 5 hours till bedtime....

Oh, I've had far too many days like that lately.  Thankfully she's sleeping right now, but I feel your pain.

[lakecountrygal]

DH is practically glued to his phone when he's home and then complains when DS is screaming. Put your damn phone down and interact with your son and maybe he would stop screaming.

Also I'm done with school in 2 weeks (yay!) however I'm super behind on turning in assignments because I don't have any time to do them since I'm playing with DS, cleaning the house and cooking food. I need some help and DS to not be so clingy to me.

[kimberpoo]

lakecountrygal my dh does the same thing sometimes. drives me nuts. I now call him out on it when he does it, and I think he's starting to realize he has a problem.

more bitches for today: went to carters on my lunch break. #1 - they need to make more cute boy stuff in toddler sizes. seriously!! lo isn't walking yet but I'm only buying 3t sized stuff since he's almost to big for the 24 mo. I still want my baby to look like a baby.
#2 - it took 20 damn minutes to check out and there was only one girl in front of me. Their cashiers are VERY poorly trained.

[Deleted]

It's 10:34 and my 3 year old is not asleep...

[babycaps]

kimberpoo, word for word on target diapers. I went out and bought a different brand for tomorrow. We use pPmers overnight.

[ntdane]

Apr 20, 2015 21:34:35 GMT -5 @notyourmom said:

It's 10:34 and my 3 year old is not asleep...

That sounds like mine tonight. He came out of his room a couple of times requesting more snuggles, but I'm not rewarding him when he needs to sleep and I have a lot to do before I go to bed (and he gets lots of snuggles when we put him to bed). Later I found him camped out in front of the babies' room on a pile of pillows. "Mom, I just needed to sleep where I could hear the sound machine so I get the best sleep." Right....get back to bed!

[ang32]

@notyourmom I just read everyone's bitches and had to giggle when I read that your 3 yr is still awake! It's like he knew what you wrote earlier and said, "I'm going to show her!!" ? Hoping your little guy gets to bed soon!
bsouls I'm sorry your mom is upsetting you. Hopefully things get a little better soon.
My bitch is my diet these past few days! Ugh. Why can't I just eat like a normal person!! Lol. Way too many graham crackers and similar foods and not enough water. I feel super bloated and icky. .