We are so low on money at work right now, it makes me ragey. I have a star employee that deserves to be rewarded. I put in for her to get a substantial performance bonus last year but it got rejected. They opened up a position in our office that would be a promotion for her. I coached her in how to do the interview and she got selected. Now they say they can't afford to promote her. This is how we lose talent.
ETA: Oh yeah and despite the fact we are understaffed by at least 5 people, we can't afford to hire anyone. Great.
WTF DH, last night all I needed was for you to sit with me and rub my back because I felt like shit, and your response was "you will be fine, if you don't feel better in an hour call your doctor. There is nothing I can do, I am not a doctor" NO but you can sit with me and make me feel better!!!
WTF to my DH...you have to be at work by 7, 7:30 at the latest. Why the hell are you getting up at 6:45 when MY alarm goes off?! Not only was he late, but I was late as well... I'm going to have to start showering at night because this is becoming routine with him.
Omg MY DH TOO! I want to punch him....why the eff are you not getting up until when you know that I get up to get ready?!?! Drives me absolutely insane!!!!!!
WTF to my neighbors feeding my dogs and making them jump on the fence. Apollo can't have any table scraps or any other dog food or he gets super sick. I'm tired of cleaning up puke because they think it's okay to feed them. We've also worked really hard teaching them to not jump up on the fence and you're reinforcing bad behavior!
WTF to my DH...you have to be at work by 7, 7:30 at the latest. Why the hell are you getting up at 6:45 when MY alarm goes off?! Not only was he late, but I was late as well... I'm going to have to start showering at night because this is becoming routine with him.
And another WTF to my DH... Why is it you can't just spend some time with me without your damn phone? Two nights in a row I've asked you to come cuddle and talk to me but you either can't step away from the computer or put the phone down...
Ugh. I feel your neighbor pain. My neighbors were feeding my dog all sorts of meaty scraps, including things with bones. He was getting sick and had a couple instances of pancreatitis. I finally caught them feeding him and told them he couldn't have people food and the guy said, "Oh, it's okay, it's steak! " Um, no, not okay.
WTF DH! My dad is in Spain and my brother who lives with him is gone to London for an interview. So their trips over lap by 30 hours so DH had to sort out the dogs. He went down last night to walk and let both dogs in for the night. Then this morning he was frantic about the house at 6am because he couldn't find the keys to go down and feed the dogs and let them out. So I'm up at 6am,pissed that DH is banging around the place while DS is still asleep. He eventually has to drive down to make sure the keys aren't in the door. Yep they were in the door. The part that really pisses me off is my mother passed away 4 years this June so if someone had of broken in they would have taken all her jewellery. Which belongs to me but I've left it in the house for the time being and take bits as I want them. Thankfully no harm came out of his mistake.
WTF I think I finally know the pain of lightning crotch. I was sweeping under my bed yesterday and it felt like someone was stabbing me every time I leaned over. Then today I got my lazy ass off the couch and took one of the dogs for a walk (yay me!) but afterwards got the same sharp stabbing pain.
Post by carolyngrace on Apr 22, 2015 8:43:40 GMT -5
Wtf DH for asking if I want to go overnight somewhere Friday for our anniversary. Of course I would... If we didn't already have plans Saturday morning! That I've talk to you about at least twice. Also, you ask me this on a Tuesday? Where are we going to find for Friday night that will have an opening?
Also WTF to the woman that just opened my car door, scaring the shit out of me, and then said she thought I was her grandpa picking her up. Ugh...
carolyngrace for some reason I read that as "opened my CAT door" and was utterly confused.
WTF old house. Not only are we replacing the plumbing today (fingers crossed it is finished before the thunderstorms hit this afternoon) but I discovered ants crawling all over my bathroom ceiling and almost threw up in my mouth. I think I might check into a hotel if this house doesn't sort itself out right quick!
I have another one, it corresponds to my post from yesterday about my MIL and the base for a car seat...
WTF MIL for telling me I was wrong she insisted that it was well over $100 for the base. I had to go look at my registry for something and happened to scroll past it...The base is 90 and its not even on sale which I have seen it go on sale since I put it on the registry. Id really like to call her out for saying she flat out lied about the price, but I know its not worth it... Just know that I was correct when I said that it wasn't over $100. Id like to just post "I love when I am right" but its not worth the fight... Am going to tell DH when I talk to him though.. HE will get a laugh out of that!
WTF to my neighbors feeding my dogs and making them jump on the fence. Apollo can't have any table scraps or any other dog food or he gets super sick. I'm tired of cleaning up puke because they think it's okay to feed them. We've also worked really hard teaching them to not jump up on the fence and you're reinforcing bad behavior!
WTF to my DH...you have to be at work by 7, 7:30 at the latest. Why the hell are you getting up at 6:45 when MY alarm goes off?! Not only was he late, but I was late as well... I'm going to have to start showering at night because this is becoming routine with him.
And another WTF to my DH... Why is it you can't just spend some time with me without your damn phone? Two nights in a row I've asked you to come cuddle and talk to me but you either can't step away from the computer or put the phone down...
NOT OKAY at all!! I would just tell him, dont feed my dogs!!
WTF DH, last night all I needed was for you to sit with me and rub my back because I felt like shit, and your response was "you will be fine, if you don't feel better in an hour call your doctor. There is nothing I can do, I am not a doctor" NO but you can sit with me and make me feel better!!!
I so often want DH to rub or scratch my back... probably more often then I should... but, 3/4 of the time his response is that he doesn't want to because he's tired, or wants to relax, etc etc etc... I'm all like wtf, how do you think I feel! I get irrationally annoyed and feel like it's the least he could do, while I'm waddling around carrying a baby that constantly jabs my every inside! Irrational, I know.... In his defense he does do it sometimes, and his is an amazing hubby. I just want it all.the.time.
WTF, DH? You can check facebook on your phone but you can't actually answer it? I feel what could either be labor contractions or the baby just moving like a crazy person, and I need to know I can contact you if those sensations continue.
WTF dude at work--I went to grab something from the printer and came back to a co-worker standing in my cube looking through stuff. If you see that I'm not here, how about coming back when I am and asking me for what you need. Don't just bust in here like you own the place.
WTF brain- I just thought OH i have a good WTF Wed. rant but it's Friday... no one will mind if I add it now, will they? It's Wednesday ... not Friday.
WTF coworker? I get that you're not happy with your job right now, and the structural changes that are happening. I do get that, I've been there, it can really suck - but I'm done listening to you bitch and then decide that you can't deal so you just go home in the middle of the day, when we're already short staffed. Thanks dude - I'm running on 4 hours maybe of sleep and our coworker is leaving in an hour because she has kids. Either figure out how to fix the problem or suck it up and vent to someone after work. We work for a software company - we have cushy ass jobs compared to some and it's better than no job!
WTF DH, last night all I needed was for you to sit with me and rub my back because I felt like shit, and your response was "you will be fine, if you don't feel better in an hour call your doctor. There is nothing I can do, I am not a doctor" NO but you can sit with me and make me feel better!!!
I'm sorry you didn't feel well- I am hoping today is better! My DH pulls this crap too. When I can finally get him to rub my back, he purposely does a terrible job hoping that I won't ask again. It's just annoying. Hopefully they'll both get their shit together in the next few weeks!
WTF to my neighbors feeding my dogs and making them jump on the fence. Apollo can't have any table scraps or any other dog food or he gets super sick. I'm tired of cleaning up puke because they think it's okay to feed them. We've also worked really hard teaching them to not jump up on the fence and you're reinforcing bad behavior!
WTF to my DH...you have to be at work by 7, 7:30 at the latest. Why the hell are you getting up at 6:45 when MY alarm goes off?! Not only was he late, but I was late as well... I'm going to have to start showering at night because this is becoming routine with him.
And another WTF to my DH... Why is it you can't just spend some time with me without your damn phone? Two nights in a row I've asked you to come cuddle and talk to me but you either can't step away from the computer or put the phone down...
My DH does both of these things as well!!! It makes me so mad! I feel like when he gets up late, I am doomed to have a bad day, because I know I'm going to be late too. My DH's issue with his phone is that he is always working. He gets calls/emails/texts at all hours and is so dedicated to his job that he always responds. It drives me nuts. What I wouldn't give for just one dinner sans cellphone. Hate that you're dealing with this crap too. Hope your DH changes his behavior!
WTF DH, last night all I needed was for you to sit with me and rub my back because I felt like shit, and your response was "you will be fine, if you don't feel better in an hour call your doctor. There is nothing I can do, I am not a doctor" NO but you can sit with me and make me feel better!!!
I'm sorry you didn't feel well- I am hoping today is better! My DH pulls this crap too. When I can finally get him to rub my back, he purposely does a terrible job hoping that I won't ask again. It's just annoying. Hopefully they'll both get their shit together in the next few weeks!
Thank you!! I am feeling better today! His idea of a back rub anyway is to rub his hand up and down my back for mmmm 30-45 seconds and then he taps me on the back and is like okay im done.
I'm sorry you didn't feel well- I am hoping today is better! My DH pulls this crap too. When I can finally get him to rub my back, he purposely does a terrible job hoping that I won't ask again. It's just annoying. Hopefully they'll both get their shit together in the next few weeks!
Thank you!! I am feeling better today! His idea of a back rub anyway is to rub his hand up and down my back for mmmm 30-45 seconds and then he taps me on the back and is like okay im done.
Mine too!! Or he digs in ridiculously hard and rubs as quickly as he can. I'm always like- "would you want me to run your back like that?!" And all I get in response is a blank stare. He is such a PITA sometimes!! I am somewhat comforted by the fact that I am not the only wife that has to deal with this
Thank you!! I am feeling better today! His idea of a back rub anyway is to rub his hand up and down my back for mmmm 30-45 seconds and then he taps me on the back and is like okay im done.
Mine too!! Or he digs in ridiculously hard and rubs as quickly as he can. I'm always like- "would you want me to run your back like that?!" And all I get in response is a blank stare. He is such a PITA sometimes!! I am somewhat comforted by the fact that I am not the only wife that has to deal with this
We are so low on money at work right now, it makes me ragey. I have a star employee that deserves to be rewarded. I put in for her to get a substantial performance bonus last year but it got rejected. They opened up a position in our office that would be a promotion for her. I coached her in how to do the interview and she got selected. Now they say they can't afford to promote her. This is how we lose talent.
ETA: Oh yeah and despite the fact we are understaffed by at least 5 people, we can't afford to hire anyone. Great.
We have been having the same issues at my company due to a loss of some major fortune 500 clients. Morale is beyond low with our hourly workforce because they are picking up a lot of slack due to layoffs and already don't make enough. It's frustrating!
WTF DH, last night all I needed was for you to sit with me and rub my back because I felt like shit, and your response was "you will be fine, if you don't feel better in an hour call your doctor. There is nothing I can do, I am not a doctor" NO but you can sit with me and make me feel better!!!
My SO always says 'urgh..' When I ask him to rub my back my response is 'I'm growing a human, that you helped make.. at least help me in my pain. You don't know what it's like'. I may ask for a back rub just now.
WTF people who incessantly complain and bitch! Please take yourself and your negativity somewhere else!
edited to add that I find it funny that I posted this in a thread dedicated to complaining & bitching! Just wanted to clarify that there is a time and a place for everything...but it was directed at people who ONLY complain and bitch and can only seem to construct "Woe is me" statements.
This is so me right now. My emotions are getting the better of me .
Post by bendherova on Apr 22, 2015 21:33:51 GMT -5
WTF DH's coworker who made the schedules for july 2015-june 2016 and then picked the best one for himself. And then said well guy #2 needs an easier start to his year bc his wife if having a baby. and then proceeds to assign DH the worst of the schedules.
Uhm. Bc DH doesn't need an easier start? Guy #2's baby will be 2 months old in July when this starts. ours may not even be an outside baby!! Fuck you dude.
I have tons of pent up frustration about this bc year after year after year this happens. DH has used ZERO DAYS of his 3w allowed of vacation this year bc of how his rotations fell this year. Third year in a row he hasn't used it all. (he'll take a week in May, and hopefully a couple days post birth, but that's not guaranteed)
WTF coworker who is trying to get pregnant but has never been yet telling me what I can and can't do while pregnant and with a new baby. Ummm I might not be a mom yet but I am pregnant, have read the books, and am actually under an OBs care. I'm pretty sure I don't need you telling me what I need to do and can't do....
WTF me? Your husband just said he wanted to get you diamond earrings for mother's day and you told him you didn't want them. Meh. Just not a huge person on jewelry I guess.
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