@Demanda88

[Widget123]

@demanda88 Please don't go!  Even though I wasn't as vocal about it as others, I was on the other side of the argument on the UO than you, but who really cares?  I appreciate differences of opinion around here.  You have been such an active member of our board for so long, it would really be sad (at least for me) to see you go before the "9th inning" 

[tatersalad]

Agreed. The whole point of unpopular opinion is to stir up some heated debate, which we rarely get since no one wants to take any heat around here. Yesterday we got some interesting discussion for a change, no need for GBCB.

[txngrl31]

Agreed!! I posted a response in UO. For some reason, I am thinking of T. Swift's " Shake it Off."

[Widget123]

Thank you! Based on the comments I saw earlier this morning, I was afraid that I was the only one that felt this way. If one of the most active posters on the board disappears after we get into a disagreement about anything that will further encourage posters to never express their opinions and what kind of board is that? Things got heated, maybe some people (plural) said some things they shouldn't have said, but it's a new day, let's move on.

[caseyathebat]

Here's what I don't like. You threw a temper tantrum becsuse people didn't agree with you and dirty deleted your posts and your avatar. This shows that you were being scared off. I may not be an active poster on here like I was the dump. But I call it like I see it. You act like a self entitled brat 80 percent of the time. If your going to stay work on your communication skills.

[Widget123]

May 1, 2015 9:17:55 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

Hi ladies- thanks for the shout out I was going to reply on the UO thread but I don't feel like giving that one any more posts. First of all, I definitely deleted all of my posts in the thread last night because I had every intention of deleting my user name and I wanted my post history gone along with it. I also knew that it was going to become a shit storm this morning. Mature? Probably not but I didn't really care last night. Secondly, I can see how some of my posts came across as being entitled or whatever because of how I worded them but, in my defense, the topic discussed yesterday was one that I have extremely strong feelings towards since I'm affected by food allergies personally. Also, I immediately became defensive right off the bat because one of my replies to a user who shall not be named, simply stated that the food allergy theory she was trying to pass as proven, was just one of many theories and her reply to me was that I clearly had no clue what I was talking about. That was the sole reason I threw in education or background into the discussion at all; because I do know what I'm talking about and wanted to back that up.

Just to set the record straight, I am not being scared off by anyone, including anyone who commented last night. I am definitely not scared of some anonymous person on a message board. The reason I had planned to leave was because there are a handful of people who I get really tired of. With that said, the ladies that I do really like overshadow them so I probably won't leave because I'll miss you all too much.

Maybe just take a few days off for you and everyone else who is still heated to clear your heads and then creep back into discussion next week?

[mrskblack11]

After being called out, you began dirty deleting, implying that others are "dumb as rocks" and that others have "stupid opinions", announcing you are pulling a Littlebee and then leaving, coming back to say you don't like the dynamic of the board......

The action of events screams entitled and bratty to me. Like someone didn't get their way, had a hissy fit and screamed for attention. Got some attention when a few said "don't leave" and decided to stay.

I can't take an adult seriously for acting that way.

[sully326]

May 1, 2015 10:12:57 GMT -5 mrskblack11 said:

After being called out, you began dirty deleting, implying that others are "dumb as rocks" and that others have "stupid opinions", announcing you are pulling a Littlebee and then leaving, coming back to say you don't like the dynamic of the board......

The action of events screams entitled and bratty to me. Like someone didn't get their way, had a hissy fit and screamed for attention. Got some attention when a few said "don't leave" and decided to stay.

I can't take an adult seriously for acting that way.

Preach, my dear!

[txngrl31]

@demanda, Girl....



Consider this a lesson learned kind of thing. If you don't like something, just ignore it. You acknowledged that you could have handled the situation better in a prior post. Belittling language will never go over well with others- in real life or over the internet.

I'm still confused about the whole "dynamic thing." Yes, there are people that lurk and then post every now and then, but who cares. I think this is an awesome group of women that act as a great support system.

[mrskblack11]

May 1, 2015 12:33:27 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

Here's my problem with the dynamic:

We have a group of regulars from TB who ban together and try to flame people as a group. It's bullshit and I'm sick of it. Sally literally never posts anything pregnancy related- who even knows if she's actually pregnant or just a catfish/troll at this point. But she has no problem popping on here on Thursdays to flame whoever she needs to flame. And she doesn't go about it in a funny or witty way, just an over the top bitter, bitchy way. You want a community? How about people who post when it's building eachother up and not just to be a bitch. I have seen plenty of things from the group of regulars that are flame-deserving and nobody actually does it because they run the board. And if you piss one of them off, all of them will go after you.

I'm being flamed because the way I worded things was belittling to others. Yet, nobody is actually willing to mention the fact that I was belittling towards Billy in particular, because she immediately jumped all over me and said I didn't know what I was talking about, asked if I couldn't understand what she was saying, etc. The same rules don't apply to everybody. Not to mention all the randoms who either never post or had nothing to do with yesterdays discussion, who jump on the UO bandwagon, to kiss pcrunks or sally's ass to get on their good side.

Most of the things that I've posted over the last few months aren't entitled or belittling to others in any way, yet because I was belittling towards Billy yesterday (because she completely deserved it as she was doing the exact same thing to me), people are acting like everything I post is rude and entitled. That's a load of complete and utter bullshit.

For someone who "doesn't care" what anonymous people on a message board think.......kind of sounds like you care a lot. 

[mrskblack11]

May 1, 2015 13:06:25 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

May 1, 2015 13:01:31 GMT -5 mrskblack11 said:

For someone who "doesn't care" what anonymous people on a message board think.......kind of sounds like you care a lot. 

Oh sorry, let me clarify. I just don't care what you in particular think, along with a handful of others.

[txngrl31]

May 1, 2015 12:33:27 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

Here's my problem with the dynamic:

We have a group of regulars from TB who ban together and try to flame people as a group. It's bullshit and I'm sick of it. Sally literally never posts anything pregnancy related- who even knows if she's actually pregnant or just a catfish/troll at this point. But she has no problem popping on here on Thursdays to flame whoever she needs to flame. And she doesn't go about it in a funny or witty way, just an over the top bitter, bitchy way. You want a community? How about people who post when it's building eachother up and not just to be a bitch. I have seen plenty of things from the group of regulars that are flame-deserving and nobody actually does it because they run the board. And if you piss one of them off, all of them will go after you.

I'm being flamed because the way I worded things was belittling to others. Yet, nobody is actually willing to mention the fact that I was belittling towards Billy in particular, because she immediately jumped all over me and said I didn't know what I was talking about, asked if I couldn't understand what she was saying, etc. The same rules don't apply to everybody. Not to mention all the randoms who either never post or had nothing to do with yesterdays discussion, who jump on the UO bandwagon, to kiss pcrunks or sally's ass to get on their good side.

Most of the things that I've posted over the last few months aren't entitled or belittling to others in any way, yet because I was belittling towards Billy yesterday (because she completely deserved it as she was doing the exact same thing to me), people are acting like everything I post is rude and entitled. That's a load of complete and utter bullshit.

I think there were a few other comments and other UO comments that you wrote prior to yesterday's that were along the same lines. I know that I kind of got the same vibe last week during the gun debate, but I just laughed it off, rolled my eyes and agreed to disagree. No biggie! We are too blessed to be stressed....and adults for that matter. Maybe yesterday's post was the straw that broke the camels back for some?

Regarding others on here that like to only show up to flame, like I said, who cares. I know I don't care. I personally ignore those kind of posts. If they want to flame, let them. If it's that big of a deal (which it shouldn't be, as an adult), then maybe an internet board is not for you. I've never noticed any butt kissing on here- people will always naturally fall on one side or the other and rally.

[ThePalindromicOne]

May 1, 2015 13:50:57 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

May 1, 2015 13:10:30 GMT -5 @pcrunk said:

Okay @demanda88. Slow your fucking roll. Let's not start throwing around the C word. I would copy and paste the post where you called Billy adorable in a insanely snotfaced way but you DDed that. So, while you didn't come out and say "BILLY YOUR DUMB AS A BOX OF ROCKS!!!" Your incredibly demeaning and holier than thou tone most certainly implied it when you said that you were not.



And apparently, since my ass is so worthy of all the kisses, sending you booty kissers some love back. LOLOLOLOLOLZ.


ETA: mrskblack11 let me kiss your ass and say PREACH IT GURL. I CARE WHAT YOU SAY.

Uhm, no. My implication was towards anyone that I have come across as belittling towards, not Billy in particular. But I wouldn't expect a girl who has $70,000 in student loans and nothing to show for it to be able to connect those dots.

QFP

[tiffbot]

@demanda88, come on. OUs are one thing, personal attacks are another.

[mathistm]

Wow @demanda88. I think maybe it's time you take your boat loads of cash and high pedigree out of here. Maybe you can find littlebee and even megron and see what kind of shit the 3 of you can get into. You've really shown your ass today and there's no defending that you aren't in fact a complete and total asshole.

[erbear]

May 1, 2015 13:58:38 GMT -5 mathistm said:

Wow @demanda88. I think maybe it's time you take your boat loads of cash and high pedigree out of here. Maybe you can find littlebee and even megron and see what kind of shit the 3 of you can get into. You've really shown your ass today and there's no defending that you aren't in fact a complete and total asshole.

Right. I liked you and enjoyed your posts and just felt you needed your big girl panties on but man, what an asshole thing to say to @pcrunk and sidneyvicious for that matter.

[periwinkledaydreams]

May 1, 2015 13:50:57 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

May 1, 2015 13:10:30 GMT -5 @pcrunk said:

Okay @demanda88. Slow your fucking roll. Let's not start throwing around the C word. I would copy and paste the post where you called Billy adorable in a insanely snotfaced way but you DDed that. So, while you didn't come out and say "BILLY YOUR DUMB AS A BOX OF ROCKS!!!" Your incredibly demeaning and holier than thou tone most certainly implied it when you said that you were not.



And apparently, since my ass is so worthy of all the kisses, sending you booty kissers some love back. LOLOLOLOLOLZ.


ETA: mrskblack11 let me kiss your ass and say PREACH IT GURL. I CARE WHAT YOU SAY.

Uhm, no. My implication was towards anyone that I have come across as belittling towards, not Billy in particular. But I wouldn't expect a girl who has $70,000 in student loans and nothing to show for it to be able to connect those dots.

This right here. Can you just stop being an asshole? I've never had a "conversation" with you but I've read enough to see that this is exactly what you do. You belittle people. You say mean spirited things in such a way that it doesn't even come across as a veiled attempt at making a point, it flat out comes across as you trying to make someone else feel like shit. What's your point??? You said you were going away cause you didn't like it here so why are just coming back and saying asshole things. You are doing yourself no favors. That shit just got under my skin. WTF girl.

[mrskblack11]

May 1, 2015 13:55:59 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

May 1, 2015 13:54:17 GMT -5 @badwolf321 said:

Ok. No. This is what people are talking about @demanda88. This is belittling. You both clearly have different opinions. Who cares? But this. This right here is absolutely uncalled for and completely below the belt. Grow up. Seriously. How dare you.

Duh. It was meant to be belittling.

BYE BAES!

[veggiemo]

May 1, 2015 13:50:57 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

May 1, 2015 13:10:30 GMT -5 @pcrunk said:

Okay @demanda88. Slow your fucking roll. Let's not start throwing around the C word. I would copy and paste the post where you called Billy adorable in a insanely snotfaced way but you DDed that. So, while you didn't come out and say "BILLY YOUR DUMB AS A BOX OF ROCKS!!!" Your incredibly demeaning and holier than thou tone most certainly implied it when you said that you were not.



And apparently, since my ass is so worthy of all the kisses, sending you booty kissers some love back. LOLOLOLOLOLZ.


ETA: mrskblack11 let me kiss your ass and say PREACH IT GURL. I CARE WHAT YOU SAY.

Uhm, no. My implication was towards anyone that I have come across as belittling towards, not Billy in particular. But I wouldn't expect a girl who has $70,000 in student loans and nothing to show for it to be able to connect those dots.

[txngrl31]

May 1, 2015 13:50:57 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

May 1, 2015 13:10:30 GMT -5 @pcrunk said:

Okay @demanda88. Slow your fucking roll. Let's not start throwing around the C word. I would copy and paste the post where you called Billy adorable in a insanely snotfaced way but you DDed that. So, while you didn't come out and say "BILLY YOUR DUMB AS A BOX OF ROCKS!!!" Your incredibly demeaning and holier than thou tone most certainly implied it when you said that you were not.



And apparently, since my ass is so worthy of all the kisses, sending you booty kissers some love back. LOLOLOLOLOLZ.


ETA: mrskblack11 let me kiss your ass and say PREACH IT GURL. I CARE WHAT YOU SAY.

Uhm, no. My implication was towards anyone that I have come across as belittling towards, not Billy in particular. But I wouldn't expect a girl who has $70,000 in student loans and nothing to show for it to be able to connect those dots.

THAT RIGHT THERE. Wow- completely uncalled for and unnecessary. You obviously never had to pay for your own education or know what it's like to not have mommy and daddy pay your way. I'm chalking all this up to immaturity and being ill mannered. 

@pcrunk, I'm right there with you on the student loan debt! I guess we both wasted our time, money and efforts in college. MAJOR EYE roll on this ignorance.

[hbanana18]

May 1, 2015 13:50:57 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

May 1, 2015 13:10:30 GMT -5 @pcrunk said:

Okay @demanda88. Slow your fucking roll. Let's not start throwing around the C word. I would copy and paste the post where you called Billy adorable in a insanely snotfaced way but you DDed that. So, while you didn't come out and say "BILLY YOUR DUMB AS A BOX OF ROCKS!!!" Your incredibly demeaning and holier than thou tone most certainly implied it when you said that you were not.



And apparently, since my ass is so worthy of all the kisses, sending you booty kissers some love back. LOLOLOLOLOLZ.


ETA: mrskblack11 let me kiss your ass and say PREACH IT GURL. I CARE WHAT YOU SAY.

Uhm, no. My implication was towards anyone that I have come across as belittling towards, not Billy in particular. But I wouldn't expect a girl who has $70,000 in student loans and nothing to show for it to be able to connect those dots.

And you can fuck right off with that shit. Apparently, you can have money and an education you feel you need to constantly brag about, but still have ZERO class.

Tell us again about how your ILs don't like you?

[hbanana18]

May 1, 2015 13:55:59 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

May 1, 2015 13:54:17 GMT -5 @badwolf321 said:

Ok. No. This is what people are talking about @demanda88. This is belittling. You both clearly have different opinions. Who cares? But this. This right here is absolutely uncalled for and completely below the belt. Grow up. Seriously. How dare you.

Duh. It was meant to be belittling.

BYE BAES!

[Widget123]

May 1, 2015 14:03:34 GMT -5 @jemomma said:

@demanda88 - I could understand some of your frustration this morning, however I just no longer understand anything you are trying to accomplish here. I agreed with some of your opinions yesterday on the UO thread, but I can't stand by the name calling and tearing down of others in this community. I think in the past you have contributed a lot of good on this board and I seriously suggest you take a step back and look at how you are acting towards others right now. It is a difficult thing to take criticism and admit when we have made a mistake, but as an adult, you should be able to do this in a classy manner and not resort to name calling. Good luck in whatever you decide to do - whether it is stay on this board or leave.

@demanda88 I did you a solid and stood by you despite the shit that went down yesterday, most of which I do not agree with.  But enough is enough.  Please heed my advice I gave you 4 hours ago to take a break from this board and come back with a clear head; nothing you have said since then has been productive.  And if you come back, try to be a bigger person and bring with you apologies for at least some of the ladies on this board.  If you don't come back, good luck to you and baby Parker.

[ombradellarosa]

The implication that someone is stupid because they have student loan debt is beyond mystifying. How can you say "nothing to show for it"? An education is valuable regardless of what someone does with it. And seriously, you went right into SS territory when you implied that someone might not be pregnant. It's like you're trying to check off bingo cards. I've never said anything, but you do often come off as very entitled and bratty and never understanding why so many people don't like you. At a certain point, you have to recognise that the problem is not with all of the people who don't like you.

Stop coming back and fighting against the people who are rightfully flaming you. Just leave like you keep saying you're going to.

[islandgirl14]

May 1, 2015 14:37:10 GMT -5 @pcrunk said:

Dis BISH really would have fit in better at the old place. I can't even deal with how fugly she is on the inside. Sweet Jesus.


So anyway, FOOD? I'm currently getting a sonic slushie. Maybe some tots.

I'm still thinking about the warm airplane cookies mentioned from yesterday.

I had a double chunk chocolate brownie from Starbucks (warmed up I might add), and it was the most amazing thing ever....

[emilyzemily]

Right i'm coming out of lurkdom right here right now.

@demanda88 yes I am one of the regs from the dump who did disappear off the radar over here, mostly because I couldn't get used to the layout of this board BUT I lurk all the time because a lot of my faves from the dump are here and I like to see how they are doing and yes I occasionally come out of the woodwork when my faves are being trolled by some jumped up self righteous d bag. Your posts have consistently wreaked of holier than thou attitude and actually there are a number of times I have completely eye rolled you. I'm so glad that you've shown your true colours, and I think you should fuck off with littlestbee and megron. Who does a GBCPB, DD, troll and then comes back? LOL!! Its laughable. Your immaturity and lack of people skills when you don't get your own way is very much apparent.

To all my favourites on here, you know who you are and I think you're all awesome and i'm glad to see updates from you all

[periwinkledaydreams]

Can we talk about how in the hell Sonic manages to make the most orgasmic ice this side of the local hospital's crushed ice machine?! Like, tiny little ice balls? I dream of these things. Now I need sonic. Hmmm...

[ombradellarosa]

Ah, we're on food now? Excellent. I don't have to be too jealous of the Sonic slushie because yesterday I had not only shaved ice but an ICEE.

And I've just remembered we bought bacon! So I'm going to make myself a delicious breakfast burrito. I don't care that it's lunchtime.

[mrskblack11]

May 1, 2015 14:43:55 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

May 1, 2015 13:50:57 GMT -5 @demanda88 said:

Uhm, no. My implication was towards anyone that I have come across as belittling towards, not Billy in particular. But I wouldn't expect a girl who has $70,000 in student loans and nothing to show for it (i.e. no college degree and sits at home all day) to be able to connect those dots.

I thought you were leaving? Just can't let it go? 

[islandgirl14]

May 1, 2015 14:46:46 GMT -5 @badwolf321 said:

May 1, 2015 14:41:54 GMT -5 @littlechivette said:

I'm enjoying a s'mores frappe from Starbucks. I needed more caffeine in order to keep up with the shit show today has turned out to be.

WHY DID I NOT KNOW ABOUT THESE?!?!? And you get panera? You're killing me here.

I think they are new! I also believe they are served with a "cookie straw"...