GTKY: Random Questions

[URMySunshine77]

It's been so quiet around here! I thought a GTKY would be nice since we have some new members.

1. Are you an introvert or extrovert?

2. In high school, which stereotype did you fall under (or closest to)? (nerd, sports, band geek, artist, choir, class clown, etc.)

3. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

4. What kind of parenting do you lean towards now or in the future? (helicopter, attachment, traditionalist, etc.)

5. Name one personal attribute you are proud of.

[wannabmama]

@urmysunshine yay for trying to rev up our board!

I need some fun distraction.

1. I've read all the descriptions of both and...I'm not sure. I'm either an extroverted introvert or an introverted extrovert, ha. I think based solely on one attribute I'm probably more extrovert than introvert...I generally get my energy from other people and being around other people.

2. I was a nerdy party girl. Like, I would have people over, drink beer, and do homework while people were playing drinking games in my basement...and be on honor roll.

3. I think it would be Costa Rica or St. John, though I'd love to live near Charlottesville, VA (or anywhere similar) on a huge horse farm too.

4. I don't know :/ I'm all over the place (and don't know much about the types tbh).

5. Hmmm, that's hard. There are so many ways to read the question! I guess I'm proud that I strive to be kind, even when that kindness is tested.

[URMySunshine77]

I could have used a friend like you in high school, wannabmama. I was too straight laced.

1. I am definitely an introvert. I've grown less socially awkward over the years, and it isn't painful to go to parties anymore, but I would still rather be at home watching a movie.

2. I was really conservative and awkward in high school--not yet comfortable in my own skin. I participated in art and choir. My group of friends would have been considered funny art and theater types who were friends with everyone.

3. If I could live anywhere in the world and the economy was better in this location, it would probably be Buenos Aires, Argentina.

4. I am a mix of parenting styles. I try to be attachment parenting, but I did use sleep training, so I am open to different methods. I never judge parents for their different styles (unless the style is hands off)!

5. I'd have to say that I'm proud of my honesty.

[wirt2cute]

URMySunshine77, This is great. We have had so many ladies cross-over these past few weeks. Hopefully more of us will real soon.

1. Are you an introvert or extrovert? I am definitely an extrovert. I talk to everybody, even people I don't know. I can be in Walmart or just about any store and strike up a conversation.

2. In high school, which stereotype did you fall under (or closest to)? (nerd, sports, band geek, artist, choir, class clown, etc.) I was a cheerleader in high school. However, I was a chubby cheerleader.

3. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? I would love to live somewhere close to a beach, like Hawaii

4. What kind of parenting do you lean towards now or in the future? (helicopter, attachment, traditionalist, etc.) I actually had to look up all the different meanings for each parenting style and I believe that I am an Authoritative/ natural parent. I believe that I have always been a very nurturing parent who makes sure my children are shown so much love. Sometimes I have found myself babying my children way to much. But at the same time I totally relate to the authoritative parent, "authoritative parenting style establish rules and guidelines that their children are expected to follow. However, this parenting style is much more democratic. Authoritative parents are responsive to their children and willing to listen to questions." This is definitely how I parent.

5. Name one personal attribute you are proud of. That is a really tough question,but I guess I would say I am a very hard worker. When my divorce was final I had to do everything by myself so making sure that I worked hard to take care of us was very important in my life.

[happyktmom]

It has been SO quiet here lately. I'm in my 2WW and going BATTY! Thank you for this URMySunshine77!

1. Are you an introvert or extrovert? Definitely an extrovert! Totally Type A personality.

2. In high school, which stereotype did you fall under (or closest to)? (nerd, sports, band geek, artist, choir, class clown, etc.) I was a little of everybody - I'd jump from grunge to art nerd to marching band color guard girl in a heartbeat! I had pink hair at one point

3. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? I think I'm happy living here part time in VA near DC, yet near farms, etc. I need more beach though, so Belize!

4. What kind of parenting do you lean towards now or in the future? (helicopter, attachment, traditionalist, etc.) UGH! I practice minimalist parenting. I UGH because I get frowned upon by most parents because I let my child learn consequences and I choose to not exhaust myself running around after her saying no every 32 seconds. She's a really well behaved and articulate 3 year old because of it. I should've put a BRAGGING warning

5. Name one personal attribute you are proud of.- my blue eyes.

[zombiesquad]

Great post, URMySunshine77!

1. Are you an introvert or extrovert?
A little bit of both. I'm very social and like to be around people for the most part, but also prefer to keep to myself in certain situations.

2. In high school, which stereotype did you fall under (or closest to)? (nerd, sports, band geek, artist, choir, class clown, etc.)
I was the dance team/high school musical type with a little bit if sports mixed in. I befriended at least someone from all the stereotypes.

3. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
Key West. It's so laid back down there.

4. What kind of parenting do you lean towards now or in the future? (helicopter, attachment, traditionalist, etc.)
I didn't look any of these up but I know I'm not attachment and I try not to be a helicopter parent. I try not to react too much if DD falls or anything. If I don't make a big deal she won't freak out. I'm pretty laid back but believe in being stern and discipline.

5. Name one personal attribute you are proud of.
I try to find something good in everyone I meet.

[agpjt413]

Fun!! Thanks for this GTKY, URMySunshine77!! These responses have been so fun to read!!

1. Are you an introvert or extrovert? I'm a little bit of both (depending on who I'm around), but definitely more of an extrovert.

2. In high school, which stereotype did you fall under (or closest to)? (nerd, sports, band geek, artist, choir, class clown, etc.) I was the anchor in all of my honor classes (there's gotta be a high AND low in order to have an average, right?!) and class clown. I was also really honest which bit me in the butt a few times but I didn't care. There were times when ppl wanted to ditch certain classes but I'd go...so they were pissed at me but they got over it rather quickly.

3. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? This is tough but I'd say anywhere that's a god mix of urban and rural life. I've had the privilege to travel to several different countries over the years since my folks were airline employees. Without that perk, I probably wouldn't have gone anywhere.

4. What kind of parenting do you lean towards now or in the future? (helicopter, attachment, traditionalist, etc.) I honestly don't know!!!

5. Name one personal attribute you are proud of. My flexibility (double entendre intended!) - I've been called a Jane of all trades on more than one occasion and I definitely think it's a blessing that I'm great at absolutely nothing, but kinda good at many things

[wannabmama]

URMySunshine77 I probably needed more straight laced friends

happyktmom every time you talk about VA it makes me happy, I miss it a lot sometimes. You're parenting style sounds like what I think mine will be...it sounds like how my parents were and I turned out ok (I think anyway, ha).

zombiesquad I try to find the good in people too...some people make it hard, ha.

agpjt413 I like the Jane of all trades approach to life!

[luvmyponies]

Thanks URMySunshine77 for posting this!

1. Are you an introvert or extrovert? I'm in the middle... but definitely lean toward introvert. I like being around people and have no trouble striking up a conversation with just about anyone... but I need my alone time and my space.

2. In high school, which stereotype did you fall under (or closest to)? (nerd, sports, band geek, artist, choir, class clown, etc.) - I was voted "best artist" senior year, but I didn't really fall into the artist stereotype. I dated a football player and all through high school and definitely had some fun.

3. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? Even though I despise winter, my favorite season is fall and I love Vermont. I'd love a place with tons of land for my horses. Maybe we'd winter somewhere down south

4. What kind of parenting do you lean towards now or in the future? (helicopter, attachment, traditionalist, etc.) I don't really know what the term is for the kind of parenting I lean toward... all I know is I've met far too many parents who do EVERYTHING for their children... I have no idea how these kids are going to leave home and fend for themselves someday.

5. Name one personal attribute you are proud of. My work ethic. It doesn't matter what the job is... big or small, I get it done.

[jess9802]

1. Are you an introvert or extrovert? Introvert.

2. In high school, which stereotype did you fall under (or closest to)? (nerd, sports, band geek, artist, choir, class clown, etc.)
Nerd. Definitely nerd.


3. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
San Francisco, but honestly, I love the PNW and never want to live anywhere else.


4. What kind of parenting do you lean towards now or in the future? (helicopter, attachment, traditionalist, etc.)
We're fairly traditional parents. 

 
5. Name one personal attribute you are proud of. Empathy.

[KirstenAlecia]

1. Are you an introvert or extrovert? Extrovert for sure.

2. In high school, which stereotype did you fall under (or closest to)? (nerd, sports, band geek, artist, choir, class clown, etc.)I was a cheerleader......and pretty much the stereotype in the way that I was social and lots of friends and most people knew me. I wasn't prom queen stereotype......but social butterfly for sure.

3. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?Italy......never been but Ive seen lots of photos and it looks like a place I could love!

4. What kind of parenting do you lean towards now or in the future? (helicopter, attachment, traditionalist, etc.)Im pretty strict.....not sure if thats a style

5. Name one personal attribute you are proud of. I know my friends value my loyalty and willingness to be and do anything in my power, in any way i can when someone I care about is in need. That is something I have been told and its something Im proud of.

[scorpioscuba]

1. Are you an introvert or extrovert? introvert - my husband is an extrovert and the only reason I have friends! I am bad and making conversation with strangers unless others strike up a conversation first. Many people have said they thought I was a b*tch until they got to know me. I'm just more shy with those I don't know.

2. In high school, which stereotype did you fall under (or closest to)? (nerd, sports, band geek, artist, choir, class clown, etc.) I don't think I really fell into any stereotype honestly. I didn't do sports or other extracurriculars. I was just hoping for it to be over as fast as possible!

3. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? On an island somewhere! I love the ocean and need it to be sane. We travel as much as we can and it is usually somewhere with great beaches and ocean views!

4. What kind of parenting do you lean towards now or in the future? (helicopter, attachment, traditionalist, etc.) We did do more attachment parenting than I expected when my son was born and still a baby. Less so now as he has gotten older. I am consistent and I make sure to follow through on the rules, but there aren't a lot of them. It's tough at times but worth it in the end.

5. Name one personal attribute you are proud of. My ability to adapt and power through in the face of adversity. My husband and I have had some tough times and when others would just quit and let life happen to them, my reaction is to take control, analyze the situation and do whatever I can for us to survive. I've done that for us more times than I'd hoped but we are so much stronger now as a result and I'm proud of how far we've come as a result.

jess9802, I LOVE the PNW! I get to travel there a lot for work and have some family & friends there. If I couldn't live on an island somewhere, PNW is my runner up!!

[vh2014]

1. Are you an introvert or extrovert? An extrovert in general... but a little introverted at home. I'm a total couch potato a lot.

2. In high school, which stereotype did you fall under (or closest to)? (nerd, sports, band geek, artist, choir, class clown, etc.) probably a cross between a nerd and a cheerleader.. but I wasn't a cheerleader, I was a dancer.

3. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? A tropical island... with no creepy crawlies.

4. What kind of parenting do you lean towards now or in the future? (helicopter, attachment, traditionalist, etc.) I manage my kids (or so DD told me)

5. Name one personal attribute you are proud of. I'm the eternal optimist. The glass isn't just half full, it's more full than it was an hour ago or someone was able to take a drink and drink half of it.

[badwolf]

1. Are you an introvert or extrovert?

Total introvert but I can push myself to be an extrovert.  I have to have recovery time afterward though, LOL.


2. In high school, which stereotype did you fall under (or closest to)? (nerd, sports, band geek, artist, choir, class clown, etc.)

Cross between a band geek and a nerd.  Completely and totally at the bottom of the high school food chain.


3. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

Either Scotland or Vieques Island, Puerto Rico


4. What kind of parenting do you lean towards now or in the future? (helicopter, attachment, traditionalist, etc.)

I think I was an authoritative parent with DS.  I was a single parent at the time.  Now that I'm married and don't have to be both parents I have no idea what type I'll be.  DH's parents were very permissive but he turned out pretty good, LOL.


5. Name one personal attribute you are proud of.
My ability to be quiet and really listen and observe.  People tend to underestimate those who are quiet and you can learn a lot about people or situations.