cookiesandwine do you really use the 5 cloves of garlic? It seems like a lot.. It looks really good though and I'm adding this to the list for the week
cookiesandwine do you really use the 5 cloves of garlic? It seems like a lot.. It looks really good though and I'm adding this to the list for the week
I've never made it before. I buy the chopped garlic in a jar and usually just throw it in until a dish smells right anyway.
So wait... you can watch Henry, Cece, and her kid but she won't be able to do the same in return (just watching Henry and her two kids)? Or am I reading it wrong laurski81?
I was just thinking the same thing! It would be nice even once a week to swap with her so she knows the crazy that you've had the last few weeks, plus you could swap days so you each get a partial break at least.
Sorry, I should have been more specific. She will continue to watch Henry for me but I just meant for at least the first few weeks after she has the baby I will not drop Henry off to her. I just know how crazy it was for me and I wouldn't want her to have to deal with Henry and a new baby. I'm just more considerate then she is.
xanthepants this is actually a great idea. One of our neighbors works with my H and his daughter will be a senior in high school next year. She's infant CPR certified and has done some other childcare classes. Maybe I can see if she is available Fridays in the summer even just for a few hours. I know that we were going to use her for date nights but for some Friday relief if possible would be awesome.
Or you could look into a Mother's Day out Program. We don't have any here but I know bigger cities might have them. I like the idea of an older neighbor. Even if it's for a couple hours for her to take him to the park.
Post by xanthepants on May 4, 2015 14:37:53 GMT -5
laurski81, I know my niece did something similar in that she took a couple of 4 and 5 year boys to their swim lessons while mom was home with her infant a couple times a week during the summer. It was a welcome break for everyone and didn't break the bank since it wasn't the going daycare rate necessarily. Heck even someone to give him lunch and take him to the park a couple times a week might be enough to keep you sane!
xanthepants this is actually a great idea. One of our neighbors works with my H and his daughter will be a senior in high school next year. She's infant CPR certified and has done some other childcare classes. Maybe I can see if she is available Fridays in the summer even just for a few hours. I know that we were going to use her for date nights but for some Friday relief if possible would be awesome.
YES!!! Do it! That would be perfect for you lady! Even just a little time for a nap, long shower, cleaning, errands, etc. I hope it works out laurski81!
Also, I am sorry for complaining so much. I feel like between my pregnancy and now with my "spirited" children it is all that I have done. Thank you all for listening to me and giving your advice. It is so nice to have a place to do that since I honestly don't have anyone IRL to talk to. I love my kids and when Henry wants to, he can be a really sweet boy. He isn't the devil all the time. But shit...as we all know...being a Mom can just be so fucking hard. Thank you all again
A very big win...my sister came early to get her kid and this...
EDIT: Whine - I think I've gained more weight since I stopped being pregnant (then when I was pregnant) because of all the booze that has made it's way back into my life.
jodielyn10 i'm sure he is super confused because we moved into a house literally 5 houses down from our house. we are just renting 2 rooms out until we start looking for a new house. poor kid. im sure he will be asking for awhile.
laurski81, enjoy the momentary quiet! Also, totally do the HS student helper if you can! I did that for one of my moms coworkers who worked PT when I was in HS. In the summer she had me over twice a week for maybe 4 hrs. each time and during that time she did things like grocery shopping, get a hair cut, gardening, or other sometimes other random things around the house. Her son was 6mo when I started, and I did it the following summer I think 1 day a week. I also occasionally babysat for them. It was pretty easy for me - and sometimes she was even home, but it wasn't too awkward, it was more about playing with him and keeping him out of her way so she could do stuff!
Win: H came to visit me this afternoon after working on the house for awhile today and leaving J with my mom...
He took me on a wheelchair ride and I got to sit outside for a half hour and enjoy the most gorgeous weather today!!!! I have only been outside one other time for like 3 minutes in the 3 weeks I've been here, so it was AMAZING to get some sunshine and fresh air!
Post by cookiesandwine on May 4, 2015 17:45:50 GMT -5
You guys, I was making my egg roll in a bowl and discovered I didn't have soy sauce. So I improvised and used this scheshwan marinade, went to put that in the fridge and found my soy sauce. Except I think I used too much of the other stuff and I might cry if I ruined it. #veryrationalnotpregnanthormones
Let us know how it works out cookiesandwine, I hope it's not ruined!
PS - I've never put my soy sauce in the fridge. I feel like we've discussed this topic on the board before....
It was, ok. H liked it and Sadie hated it; neither was a surprise. The marinate stuff made it way too saucey for me but I'll definitely try it again with just the soy sauce!
jodielyn10 i'm sure he is super confused because we moved into a house literally 5 houses down from our house. we are just renting 2 rooms out until we start looking for a new house. poor kid. im sure he will be asking for awhile.
Whine: I picked up Elise at daycare and poor thing has a fever no other symptoms besides a little tired and Whiney but I hate when they are sick for no reason!
Let us know how it works out cookiesandwine, I hope it's not ruined!
PS - I've never put my soy sauce in the fridge. I feel like we've discussed this topic on the board before....
It was, ok. H liked it and Sadie hated it; neither was a surprise. The marinate stuff made it way too saucey for me but I'll definitely try it again with just the soy sauce!
You gotta be careful with the sauce! The first time I made it, I used regular soy sauce instead of low-sodium and it was way too salty, but H ended up mixing the cooked rice in to make it like fried rice and it helped tone down the sauce.
cbear the first time I made it I used 5 cloves like the recipe said and it was really garlicky. Second time I used 3 and it was good. I also added some onions.
It's tasty and easy, but no substitute for yummy, greasy, crunchy egg rolls
Post by mommymadness on May 4, 2015 21:14:52 GMT -5
Benjamin got his suitcase out and started heading out the door today at supper. He said he was going home! We have been at my parents too long! Poor kid. It breaks my heart a little when he says he wants to go home!
laurski81 - I'm sorry things have been so rough lately. Seriously, you are super mom in my eyes taking care of a newborn, Henry and often your niece too. And seriously, if you need a break, just let me know. I'm home Mondays and Fridays so I can always take Henry to the park for a couple hours to give you some down time.
And Kayleigh is a giant A-hole here too. Saturday we took her to Day Out with Thomas. She was grumpy and whined the entire time. She didn't want to go on the train, whined about all the activities, threw a fit because she wanted a turtle for a balloon animal but when the guy asked her what she wanted, she wouldn't tell him so he made her a butterfly. We left after only a little bit because I was tired of it all. Then of course, we get back to the car and she starts on about how she wants to ride Thomas, take a picture with Percy, go on the rides...Grrr!!! A.) You rode on Thomas and sat there with a giant scowl on your face. B) All you did was complain and throw fits when I tried to get you to do those other things. I'm never planning a special day for a 3 year old again.
roo1582 thanks girl and it sounds like we have the same kid. I'm sorry she gave you such a hard time on what was supposed to be a special day. I know that feeling all too well.
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