Grandparent Rant
May 5, 2015 8:08:59 GMT -5
Post by Bluedaisy on May 5, 2015 8:08:59 GMT -5
First off, let me say that I know I am incredibly lucky to have 3 out of 4 grandparents still alive (especially since one grandmother is 94 and the grandfather I lost died peacefully in his sleep in his own bed at 93).
However sometimes my grandmother drives me insane. Talking to her yesterday she tells me "I know it really doesn't matter that you are having a boy but I really wish it was a little girl. Boys are ok but little girls are just so special..."
Also she lives about an hour and a half from me and is retired. She is very active and healthy and OFTEN comes to my town because it is bigger so she is here to shop, etc. She NEVER comes to visit me, even when she's in town and always complain that I don't drive to visit her enough.
Last night she says "I really hope I'll get to see this baby, but I guess by the time he's even fun to play with you'll be back at work and I'll only get to see him in the summer." I just about lost my shit. Seriously...if you're going to say my son isn't as good as a girl and then that??
Sorry just needed to rant. Normally I am all for respecting elders but I needed to rant about this so I don't call my mom and whine about it. I don't want to start drama.
Anyone else have grandparents who sometimes don't think before they speak?
However sometimes my grandmother drives me insane. Talking to her yesterday she tells me "I know it really doesn't matter that you are having a boy but I really wish it was a little girl. Boys are ok but little girls are just so special..."
Also she lives about an hour and a half from me and is retired. She is very active and healthy and OFTEN comes to my town because it is bigger so she is here to shop, etc. She NEVER comes to visit me, even when she's in town and always complain that I don't drive to visit her enough.
Last night she says "I really hope I'll get to see this baby, but I guess by the time he's even fun to play with you'll be back at work and I'll only get to see him in the summer." I just about lost my shit. Seriously...if you're going to say my son isn't as good as a girl and then that??
Sorry just needed to rant. Normally I am all for respecting elders but I needed to rant about this so I don't call my mom and whine about it. I don't want to start drama.
Anyone else have grandparents who sometimes don't think before they speak?