I need to vent about DH
May 7, 2015 7:33:15 GMT -5
Post by summergirl1211 on May 7, 2015 7:33:15 GMT -5
Wow. Honestly he sounds like a total child. Acting out and doing the opposite of what you asked to get attention. I Mean did he tell the girls nana nana boo boo too? I wouldn't be able to handle raising my kids in that environment.
I really feel like he is seeking attention. We haven't had sex in awhile because he's been sick and things tend to get like this when we're having a dry spell. I've also been working a lot (I sub for extra money) and I think it bothers him. I'm saving for our family trip to Disney and new furniture for our new house.
I thought about packing up and leaving for awhile but money is tight and I don't want to blow what I've saved. I kicked him out (for a night) in December. DD#1 flipped out. She knew something was wrong and I don't want to do that to her again.
Part of me is super tempted to change our vacation to just me and the girls and go to Disney without him.
I'm so frustrated that I want to scream but I'm also used to this behavior from him and it just makes me sad. I'm sort of numb at this point.
I agree that something needs to happen to really get his attention. Can you ask him to go stay with his parents for awhile? Or do you have any family or friends you can stay with for a week or two? Freaking out because you haven't had sex in awhile isn't justification (in my mind) for acting like a total ass.
I hate to say it, but based on how your FIL acted with the text, it doesn't surprise me your H is behaving this way. I'm so sorry girl. I hope you can figure something out before you lose your mind. And you can obviously come here to vent any time. Hugs.