I still don't know what I want my first post-delivery meal to be. If this time is anything like last time I won't have an appetite for like, 4 days anyway...BUT, I'm hoping that's not the case!
I still don't know what I want my first post-delivery meal to be. If this time is anything like last time I won't have an appetite for like, 4 days anyway...BUT, I'm hoping that's not the case!
There's a sausage pizza with egg served at a local fancier pizza restaurant here. I want one. And Wine.
I still don't know what I want my first post-delivery meal to be. If this time is anything like last time I won't have an appetite for like, 4 days anyway...BUT, I'm hoping that's not the case!
I had a milk shake, chili cheese dog and cheese fries but about 12 hours later.
They found asbestos in our floors when we moved to The new apt and we paid over 10k in Fines to abatement contractors and nyc/state.
Now we get a summons that they didn't do 3 things properly during the cleanup and have to go To a hearing at the environmental hearing office a day or so before I'm set to be induced (june 16). Fines add up to 9,000.
How the hell is this our Responsibility if we had a contract with asbestos cleanup professionals?
DH is flipping out. I may have a Glass of wine tonight. And a cheeseburger.
I'm so sorry!!! I'm in an asbestos situation too. We bought our house 3 years ago and at that time the home inspector did not see or notify us of asbestos. Fast forward to two weeks ago and our energy bill has been high so we paid for an energy audit where they come in and inspect your home and they found asbestos insulating all our air ducts to our home. I guess since it hasn't been disturbed it's ok but we have to pay 5k-10k to redo all our air ducts and remove it from our home.
I'm such a bitch. Seriously. And these pregnancy hormones lately are making it worse.
I've been trying to get in DHs pants for over a week now and he keeps avoiding it...I keep telling him, "You know you're not gonna get laid for like, 2 months, you need to just give it up"....Well, earlier he was finally like, "What if you go into labor? You're probably all kinds of dilated like you were with Evan. No. I don't want to risk it"...I'm so aggravated. Just wait until he comes to.me wanting it...I'm just straight up gonna say no.
Im kinda wishing I was still at the hospital. I have a huge family and everyone n their mom is coming to meet the baby today. My in laws (mother, father, sisters and brother in law) are here now and apparently are ordering pizza so they're not leaving any time soon. My grandma, uncle, aunt and million cousins informed me they are coming now also. I wanna freakin cry.
Im kinda wishing I was still at the hospital. I have a huge family and everyone n their mom is coming to meet the baby today. My in laws (mother, father, sisters and brother in law) are here now and apparently are ordering pizza so they're not leaving any time soon. My grandma, uncle, aunt and million cousins informed me they are coming now also. I wanna freakin cry.
Oh man, I'm sorry. That doesn't sound like fun. Maybe on a positive note, since they're all coming at once you won't have to worry about them piling up at your house again....I'd make sure to say something like, "I can't wait to have a few days home with just us yo bond with the baby and get into a routine"....Say that crap numerous times and maybe they'll get the hint! Good luck!
Im kinda wishing I was still at the hospital. I have a huge family and everyone n their mom is coming to meet the baby today. My in laws (mother, father, sisters and brother in law) are here now and apparently are ordering pizza so they're not leaving any time soon. My grandma, uncle, aunt and million cousins informed me they are coming now also. I wanna freakin cry.
Oh man, I'm sorry. That doesn't sound like fun. Maybe on a positive note, since they're all coming at once you won't have to worry about them piling up at your house again....I'd make sure to say something like, "I can't wait to have a few days home with just us yo bond with the baby and get into a routine"....Say that crap numerous times and maybe they'll get the hint! Good luck!
I wouldn't mind if they didn't bring a million kids. I don't like other ppls kids specially because they don't behave.
I'm hoping they leave soon. I haven't even had time to eat.
Im kinda wishing I was still at the hospital. I have a huge family and everyone n their mom is coming to meet the baby today. My in laws (mother, father, sisters and brother in law) are here now and apparently are ordering pizza so they're not leaving any time soon. My grandma, uncle, aunt and million cousins informed me they are coming now also. I wanna freakin cry.
Oh man, I know how this is.... DH's family was extremely overwhelming when my first was born and I'm not looking forward to going through it again!! Sending hugs and patience.... people aren't very considerate of how hard it is bringing home a new baby.
Second trip to the hospital this week because of weird symptoms of pre e. They are monitoring for another 15 and then I should go home. Ugh. This baby can come now.
Im kinda wishing I was still at the hospital. I have a huge family and everyone n their mom is coming to meet the baby today. My in laws (mother, father, sisters and brother in law) are here now and apparently are ordering pizza so they're not leaving any time soon. My grandma, uncle, aunt and million cousins informed me they are coming now also. I wanna freakin cry.
Maybe if you cry they'll leave? In anticipation of a similar scenario when our LO arrives, that is what I have been planning all along... Good luck lady! I wish people had more common sense!
Second trip to the hospital this week because of weird symptoms of pre e. They are monitoring for another 15 and then I should go home. Ugh. This baby can come now.
Post by sugarkissed on Jun 7, 2015 22:40:24 GMT -5
Picked up our new car today!! DH posted a photo to Facebook (of the car) and captioned it "Welcoming our brand new addition!". Cue the phone calls and text messages from confused friends and family. He thinks that he's hilarious.
He also just brought me home a chocolate cake. Today is a good day, even if I'm sure I'll be pregnant forever.
Second trip to the hospital this week because of weird symptoms of pre e. They are monitoring for another 15 and then I should go home. Ugh. This baby can come now.
Hope all is ok.
Came home because all was fine. We pull in the driveway and I get painful contractions. Of course. Trying to relax and hope they are just strong BH
Post by wegrowsheep on Jun 7, 2015 23:22:25 GMT -5
DD (6) went to dr Friday morning to have throat culture done for strep. DS#2 born Friday night. Got home last night, mom watched kids while we were gone. Today, we all stayed home and tried to keep DS#1 and DD apart, keep DD in her room (and DS#1 out), keep LO away from both of them, and keep me away from them as well. DD still has a low fever. Supposedly trying to make appt tomorrow for DS#2, and get culture results for DD (antibiotics would be nice), and DS#1 is NOT liking the new addition, his 4-year long reign of the youngest child position has ended.
And of course, DH tell me he's planning on going to work tomorrow, "unless you think you'll need me here." No hon, I'm freakin' Superwoman. Me and my gigantic boobs will tend the new baby, the grouchy kid, and the sick like a pro.
DD (6) went to dr Friday morning to have throat culture done for strep. DS#2 born Friday night. Got home last night, mom watched kids while we were gone. Today, we all stayed home and tried to keep DS#1 and DD apart, keep DD in her room (and DS#1 out), keep LO away from both of them, and keep me away from them as well. DD still has a low fever. Supposedly trying to make appt tomorrow for DS#2, and get culture results for DD (antibiotics would be nice), and DS#1 is NOT liking the new addition, his 4-year long reign of the youngest child position has ended.
And of course, DH tell me he's planning on going to work tomorrow, "unless you think you'll need me here." No hon, I'm freakin' Superwoman. Me and my gigantic boobs will tend the new baby, the grouchy kid, and the sick like a pro.
They're all gone now. I just had a break down n my husband kept asking why I was crying n I told em to just leave me alone so of course he kept picking at me n telling me I'm an idiot for crying and that I had no reason to cry which of course made me cry more. My mom came earlier and left my 8 year old sister here then my in laws came (5 of them) and they ordered pizza, then my aunt and uncle brought my grandma and 3 kids. Well pizza got here and all those kids ate all the pizza and my stupid husband didn't think about my son and daughter eating (which they didn't). I didn't even get to eat. Then they left and left a mess in both my daughters and sons rooms. Then my two cousins got here and brought their 2 little sisters who spilled ice cream everywhere in my daughters room and they finally left. So now I am thinking about what to make myself to eat and my daughter and son say they are hungry and that's when I broke down. All these fucking ppl made shit worse on me instead of making it a little easier. So now I'm freakin cooking and crying and my stupid husband is calling me an idiot for crying "out of nowhere and having no reason to cry." I am fucking exhausted. I just want to grab my baby n run away.
Oh redlipz your husband is... Not being kind. I would be SO upset if I were you. All those people coming over and nobody thinking of your children enough to feed them. I'd be ripshit.
redlipz all the creepy internet hugs. I'm so sorry! I hope your husband realizes what a jerk he's being. wegrowsheep good luck tomorrow, I hope everything settles down soon!
I kinda told him to stfu before I stabbed him... Sorry not sorry. I was furious. If you can't ask what you can do to help then don't say anything at all.
They're all gone now. I just had a break down n my husband kept asking why I was crying n I told em to just leave me alone so of course he kept picking at me n telling me I'm an idiot for crying and that I had no reason to cry which of course made me cry more. My mom came earlier and left my 8 year old sister here then my in laws came (5 of them) and they ordered pizza, then my aunt and uncle brought my grandma and 3 kids. Well pizza got here and all those kids ate all the pizza and my stupid husband didn't think about my son and daughter eating (which they didn't). I didn't even get to eat. Then they left and left a mess in both my daughters and sons rooms. Then my two cousins got here and brought their 2 little sisters who spilled ice cream everywhere in my daughters room and they finally left. So now I am thinking about what to make myself to eat and my daughter and son say they are hungry and that's when I broke down. All these fucking ppl made shit worse on me instead of making it a little easier. So now I'm freakin cooking and crying and my stupid husband is calling me an idiot for crying "out of nowhere and having no reason to cry." I am fucking exhausted. I just want to grab my baby n run away.
Super long rant. Sorry ):
I'm so sorry Hun. If it had been my H we would have been seeing more tears. Especially for calling me an idiot. Not ok!
Post by tinavonsparkle on Jun 8, 2015 4:52:22 GMT -5
Oh redlipz, that's horrible and the very last thing you need - both the rediculous amount of people destroying your home and then just leaving and your lack of support/sympathy /help from your DH. Batton down the hatches and don't let anyone else in. Close all the doors and don't look at the mess (it can wait) and just concentrate on you and the kids. DVD snoozy snuggle day all round, keep everyone in their pjs and order a take out x
redlipz the more I think about your day the more irritated I become. How ridiculously insensitive of all those people! I seriously cannot imagine that happening. No way I would want all those people there. I give you props for patience.
Post by silv3rlining on Jun 8, 2015 6:42:20 GMT -5
redlipz not cool at all...I'm anti visitors without prior approval anyway. I like to keep it quiet the first few weeks (for my own sanity, I mean leaky books, trying to establish breastfeeding, a semi clean house, little sleep, and just dealing with emotions/healing). We'll unfortunately have visitors this time, but it's circumstantial. DHs grandfather (95 years old who lives 16ish hours away by car) is visiting his (DHs) cousin about an hour away from us (for a graduation) and we want him to be able to meet his great granddaughter.
And my ILs are staying with us to watch DS for when I'm in the hospital.
wegrowsheep I really hope YH realizes he's staying home... my DH plans to work next Monday. ..The day his parents leave and I was/am not happy about it. However I understand why he is bc of the way his leave is charged. He will start his paternity leave on the 16th. I'm hoping my mom can manage to get off work and come down on the 15th. In case LO has a Dr's appt or something.
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