@pcrunk I am addicted to1010 too! It's almost as bad as when 2048 came out...
wegrowsheep I am so sorry- that whole situation sounds awful (and I can totally picture my DH being that oblivious). I'm glad he is staying home with you- hopefully the doctor will give your DD some antibiotics!
redlipz I just feel awful for you, and especially awful that your DH wasn't sensitive enough to know why you were crying. You have every right to just unload on him. Sending you creepy internet hugs and hoping that today is better
Oh, redlipz, you poor thing! I got pissed off for you just reading that! Seriously, I would've flipped on DH & everyone that was there would be getting a text/phone call about how rude it was that they left your house like that knowing you just had a baby. Shit, blame the hormones!! But, I'm really sorry you're dealing with all that and DH isn't being more supportive. I'd definitely be saying something to him if nothing else!
kemdupuis I beat his high score my first time. It was only 1800 something. Then later that day (Saturday) he got over 24000 and I've been basically making my eyes bleed ever since.
This sounds exactly like DH and I when 2048 came out. Neither one of us could stop until I finally got to 2048. DH was pissed, haha. He hasn't gotten 1010 on his phone yet, but I suspect it's only a matter of time
lalamomma I wouldn't have mind if they would've shown up without kids, but the kids just totally made me want to throw myself off a bridge.
silv3rlining I'm glad that they brought my grandma to meet the baby but holy shit! All at once sucked! I'm not shy, I will and totally did just bust out my boob and don't hesitate to feed when I need to. But like I said, why the hell did you bring all the damn kids!!!? Grrr.
I just wish they wouldn't have all shown up at once, I can only tolerate so many ppl at once. My mom came to pick up my sister when I was mid breakdown and cooking. She asked what was wrong and I just walked into my sons room crying with baby in hand. It was a mess, she ended up crying also cus she didn't know how to help and I wouldn't let her help me anyway so she just told me she loved me and she left. I hate taking help from anyone and avoid it as much as I can. I'm just glad it's over and baby and I had a mostly smooth night.
Post by mrsmonogrammed on Jun 8, 2015 10:30:13 GMT -5
FFMC: I mentioned sex to DH as a way to start labor (I'm not particularly interested in it, but figured I could throw the poor guy a bone (ha) since its been awhile and will be a long time after she's here) and when he said "but your dr said you were dialated, does that mean I could like touch the baby?!" Aaaaaaaand I *maybe* let him think that he could. Needless to say he freaked and we haven't had sex. Sorry not sorry DH;)
FFMC: I mentioned sex to DH as a way to start labor (I'm not particularly interested in it, but figured I could throw the poor guy a bone (ha) since its been awhile and will be a long time after she's here) and when he said "but your dr said you were dialated, does that mean I could like touch the baby?!" Aaaaaaaand I *maybe* let him think that he could. Needless to say he freaked and we haven't had sex. Sorry not sorry DH;)
Bahaha my DH is this gullible too. He also told me he was scared that the rocking motion while we DTD would cause shaken baby syndrome...
They're all gone now. I just had a break down n my husband kept asking why I was crying n I told em to just leave me alone so of course he kept picking at me n telling me I'm an idiot for crying and that I had no reason to cry which of course made me cry more. My mom came earlier and left my 8 year old sister here then my in laws came (5 of them) and they ordered pizza, then my aunt and uncle brought my grandma and 3 kids. Well pizza got here and all those kids ate all the pizza and my stupid husband didn't think about my son and daughter eating (which they didn't). I didn't even get to eat. Then they left and left a mess in both my daughters and sons rooms. Then my two cousins got here and brought their 2 little sisters who spilled ice cream everywhere in my daughters room and they finally left. So now I am thinking about what to make myself to eat and my daughter and son say they are hungry and that's when I broke down. All these fucking ppl made shit worse on me instead of making it a little easier. So now I'm freakin cooking and crying and my stupid husband is calling me an idiot for crying "out of nowhere and having no reason to cry." I am fucking exhausted. I just want to grab my baby n run away.
Super long rant. Sorry ):
Omg that sounds like a freaking nightmare! How rude that they didn't even think of your children!!! I would have been all sorts of bitch on them!! And hell no to your husband calling you am idiot for crying !! You just had a damn baby and your hormones are still trying to become normal!! God I am so sorry you had to deal with all that!! I would have gone off on everyone!! And they should have cleaned up their damn mess !! Just so fucking rude! I am so mad for you right now!! Creepy internet hugs for you. You are so much nicer then I would have been!
FFMC: I mentioned sex to DH as a way to start labor (I'm not particularly interested in it, but figured I could throw the poor guy a bone (ha) since its been awhile and will be a long time after she's here) and when he said "but your dr said you were dialated, does that mean I could like touch the baby?!" Aaaaaaaand I *maybe* let him think that he could. Needless to say he freaked and we haven't had sex. Sorry not sorry DH;)
I also mentioned doin it to start things along. He said "oh really?" and then never brought it up again, or made a move or anything. I'm not sad. At least I offered!
I had a really shitty day yesterday. Like crying in pain, hyper emotional kind of day. Today has been better. Pain is manageable and found out our bank paid us back several thousand dollars because they had been making some rather large errors in charges... That we didn't know they weren't allowed/supposed to charge. Which basically cut our credit card debt to almost nothing. Needless to say I feel like I won the lotto
I'm amazed by all these Hs with sex drives affected by the bump. Fiancé can't keep his damn hands off of me. But it's not doing any thing for labor. Eye rolls.
Yep.DH tends to find me even sexier while pregnant. I'm over six at this point. But it was like 4x/week the past 2-3 weeks
I'm amazed by all these Hs with sex drives affected by the bump. Fiancé can't keep his damn hands off of me. But it's not doing any thing for labor. Eye rolls.
Yep.DH tends to find me even sexier while pregnant. I'm over six at this point. But it was like 4x/week the past 2-3 weeks
+1 on DH liking pregnant me. he's gotten more in the last 2-3w than in all of the first trimester. Oddly, I'm into it too.
Post by tinavonsparkle on Jun 9, 2015 16:55:55 GMT -5
I've been feeling a tad frisky of late and reading the chat stew I thought I would test the waters. I asked if SO wanted to bone tonight. He said "I'm not ready for the baby to come yet" so yeaaaah, excellent! Don't mind my sex drive. You just let me know when your ready and in the meantime I will just crack on incubating!
@lamamama that is totally amazing!! Sounds like awesome timing too. Go and buy a lottery ticket today: amazing luck!
I've had a good day today in general. We actually got our deposit back from the house we had rented (that we should have gotten at the end of April) and even though she didn't do it properly I'm so relieved to just be done with it! Plus I got to meet the OB who covers for mine when she isn't on call! Better now than him coming in to catch the baby and never having seen him before lol.
Looks like night 3 of no sleep...gah! Stupid Anxiety!! Hopefully the Dr can help me out tomorrow or I'm just gonna be one big emotional, exhausted, hot mess on Friday :-(
Looks like night 3 of no sleep...gah! Stupid Anxiety!! Hopefully the Dr can help me out tomorrow or I'm just gonna be one big emotional, exhausted, hot mess on Friday :-(
I really hope you get something to help with your anxiety today. You need all the rest and energy so your ready for Friday. Somebody mentioned on the Tue randoms thread that no two births are the same. Keep telling yourself this. You've had your bad luck already and you are a strong, capable woman and you have got this. Keep your eye on the prize. Big deep breaths. My heart goes out to you x
Post by baileybaileybne on Jun 10, 2015 3:50:52 GMT -5
A friend from work has been my pregnancy buddy: she was due about 11 days before me. Which is today. And she had an induction due to high BP so she had her LO today! I was so convinced it was a boy, but I was wrong. A little girl. So our girls will be little buddies!
I'm so happy for her and so jealous she got to meet her LO today. Very exciting to think I might meet mine soon (or at worst in a few more weeks). Trying not to wish away the time but it's hard to be patient!
Anyone have any ideas for a first Father's day gift for H? I don't want to do anything too expensive or overboard (I was originally considering concert tickets, but we just can't afford it, nor do I think that we'll really want to go since it's in a few weeks). For mother's day, he wrote me a really sweet note and bought me flowers. I already bought him a card, but wanted something else to go along with it, I'm just drawing a blank.
Some smaller gifts I've gotten DH ... The Art of Shaving trial kit (he loves it, says it makes shaving feel much nicer), fancy golf balls and custom Tees, photo travel coffee mug and Starbucks gift card...I was planning to buy DH a custom bottle of scotch but he is wanting a laptop so I think that will be his gift from me, and the kids will be something DD can help make.
Post by mrsmonogrammed on Jun 10, 2015 5:59:49 GMT -5
budders it's my H's first father day AND our 1st wedding anniversary so I didn't want to go too crazy! I got him this frame from etsy (super fast shipping, like it was on its way to my house the day I bought it!)
And I'm getting him a dunkin donuts gift card so "Charlotte" can pay for his coffee in the morning when he goes back to work;)
budders, I ordered my DH a really cute t-shirt and onesie set. His t-shirt says "papa bear" and the onesie says "baby bear". I don't even know if our LO willbe here for Father's Day, but I felt like I wanted to do something. Bought it on Zulilly, but I am sure etsy/Amazon has something similar
lalamomma,and mrsmonogrammed, appreciate your father's day ideas! I really don't feel like shopping at all and my dad will be here too, so they both need gifts... still pondering whether it's ok to take a pass on this year due to being overwhelmed with life and having a baby in a week? Maybe I'll do some amazonning...
I'm sure DH has given no thought to shopping for his dad either. Not my problem.
Post by pghtruelove on Jun 10, 2015 21:31:34 GMT -5
SO is a huge baseball fan so I just got a cheap baseball and goig to put her handprint on it with the year and I plan on doing a new one every year for him.
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