Well Hell

[cinqueterre2011]

So my first appt and u/s was supposed to be on Friday but my midwife wants me to have my u/s tomorrow and then meet with her on Friday. Now I'm freaking out bc I'm not sure if mh will be able to go and with all the losses we have had I can't do this alone and now my PGAL brain is going crazy

[BookishMomma]

Ugh, I'm sorry they switched it up on you. I would be really upset if MH couldn't come with me. He was not there when we discovered my MMC and I told him I would never go to another U/S without him. Is there any way you can find another time that works for both of you?

[MrsEmuTavi]

((Hugs!!!)) Do you have a close friend who can go with you? If I could I would go with you! Deep breaths, it will be what it will be no matter what. I would be calling my few close friends and/or family members and seeing if one of them was free as back up for H. (I might have to do this if my OBGYN wants me to get the ultrasound next Thursday)

[xcrissx]

I'm sorry! That really sucks. My DH would be super upset too.

[iris1264]

I'm so sorry they moved things on you! Like pp's said, is there a friend or family member you could get to go with you? I don't like to be alone for ultrasounds either.

[snakefisherbub]

*hugs* I hope you'll be able to find someone to go with you. I can imagine not wanting to do that alone.

[London]

Is there a reason the appointment got moved? Like is rescheduling to a time when you both can be there not an option? Hugs, this sounds stressful.

[cinqueterre2011]

The problem is nobody knows yet. We don't want to upset anyone if it is bad news and if I don't go in tomorrow they can't get me in for 2 weeks. My midwife wants me in before she sees me Friday bc apparently her u/s machine sucks and she feels she's doing me a favor sending me to the better one. I get it but fuck me this is stressful. Mh is going to try to find a way to come and If not I will have to suck it up. I appreciate all of you and thanks for letting me vent.

[MrsEmuTavi]

Anytime cinqueterre2011! That's why we are here!

[rubylovebug]

Sending so many thoughts to you, I'm sorry for the change & hoping your husband is able to make it. I'll be thinking of you!

[whosurmomma]

That sucks!! Try and have a close friend or family member go with you (if you feel that close to them). Maybe he can just come for the IS and then go back to work?

[andtheheartbreakers]

Sorry they're changing things around on you! That really sucks - but the bright side is that you'll get to see your little tadpole tomorrow! Keeping my FX that your husband can switch things around to be there with you!!!

[SubtleGrandeur]

Ugh, how shitty!! I would hate to go to my first one alone. FX that all goes well!