feeling under appreciated, anyone else?
May 28, 2015 11:34:43 GMT -5
Post by daydreamernyc on May 28, 2015 11:34:43 GMT -5
now I don't expect DH to come home and rub my feet, but wondering if any of you ladies have some small expectations on perhaps you SO treating you a little different?
I've had my breaking point today. I woke up in the middle of the night feeling like crap so I left to go to the living room. I'm achy, my eyes burn, I have the chills and a low fever(100). DH wakes up in the morning, I say I'm sick and he says "poor you" and goes about getting ready for work.
I remain on the couch and he comes over and asks me to get our DD dressed (really?, you can't do it, is what I thought). Then I get up, go to her room, he already started and then asks me, "why do I have to drop her off at daycare?" I just stand there dumbfounded. Mind you daycare is a 1/2 mile walk since we live in the city and is on his way to the subway he takes to get to work.
I just feel like some level of sympathy might be nice.
Another story.... 2 weeks ago we are walking home after picking DD up from daycare. She turns and wants me to carry her. I turn and hand DH my laptop bag that was easily 20-25lbs so I can carry our 30 lb toddler. He says, "no, why do I have to carry your bag?" And takes a step back from the bag. I was just speechless, thinking to myself because I'm 8 months pregnant and you are not! I ended up carrying her and my bag.
I'm all about equality, we both work and both share things equally but when is it ok to not be equal?
ps. My DH is otherwise a great contributor, does the dishes, cleans bathrooms, etc. it's not like he's lazy and does no work.
I've had my breaking point today. I woke up in the middle of the night feeling like crap so I left to go to the living room. I'm achy, my eyes burn, I have the chills and a low fever(100). DH wakes up in the morning, I say I'm sick and he says "poor you" and goes about getting ready for work.
I remain on the couch and he comes over and asks me to get our DD dressed (really?, you can't do it, is what I thought). Then I get up, go to her room, he already started and then asks me, "why do I have to drop her off at daycare?" I just stand there dumbfounded. Mind you daycare is a 1/2 mile walk since we live in the city and is on his way to the subway he takes to get to work.
I just feel like some level of sympathy might be nice.
Another story.... 2 weeks ago we are walking home after picking DD up from daycare. She turns and wants me to carry her. I turn and hand DH my laptop bag that was easily 20-25lbs so I can carry our 30 lb toddler. He says, "no, why do I have to carry your bag?" And takes a step back from the bag. I was just speechless, thinking to myself because I'm 8 months pregnant and you are not! I ended up carrying her and my bag.
I'm all about equality, we both work and both share things equally but when is it ok to not be equal?
ps. My DH is otherwise a great contributor, does the dishes, cleans bathrooms, etc. it's not like he's lazy and does no work.