Post by bantyrooster on May 28, 2015 22:01:13 GMT -5
So very long story short we have been having problems with Ellison getting fed at daycare. It is never her normal teachers, but the afternoon teachers or the teachers in the next room when she "visits". We have spoke with the teachers directly 2 times and involved the director another 2, for a total of 4 times in 2 months. She gets 3 oz every 2 hours. Not hard. Well they only give her 3 ounces every 2-4 hours and always have an excuse like she was sleeping, I don't know, we had a fire drill. So not only is milk getting wasted she wakes up more to eat. It isn't that she isn't taking it they just don't even offer.
Well fast forward to this week. Tuesday again she didn't get fed for 4 hours. So h and I went over her sheet to figure out why. Well she ate at 930 and at 1130 they didn't feed her they just put her down to sleep so of course her nap was only 40 mins then. Well H started cursing and I was like wtf dude. Well Tuesday we sent 5 bottles with 3 oz each. 2 of them came home full. Her sheet said she got fed 4 times. You do the math, either she got fed someone else's bm or didn't get fed for over 4 hours twice in one day meaning she only got 6 oz in 9 hours.
After a sit down meeting and number phone meetings they are dening she got someone else's milk. So I said okay then someone wrote on her sheet wrong and she didn't get fed? Which they are also denying. Wtf people, feed my fing baby!
So then h goes to pick her up later Wednesday and she is in the swing crying and two other baby's are on the floor crying while the teachers are in the other room. Her eyes look like she has cried all day (she also has a cold though) and the twat teacher involved in the feeding issue basically pushes h out of the door.
So we found a daycare, after calling 9, who take part time infants. I really like it but it has two negatives. 1. It is $285 more a month for the same hours and 2. Ellison would have to have a set schedule until after she was 19 m. This shouldn't be a huge problem but I am not 100% positive I will get he same two days every week. Our back up to this is 1. I work a weekend day and eat the cost and take them or have a 1:1 day or a mom day 2. Add a daycare day on (if there is availability) for $60 extra 3. H stays home the day I work or 4. Phone a friend.
Why am I not jumping at the fact of leaving? I am scared of the $$ and set days but can't keep her somewhere they don't feed her or treat her bad for complaining. We love her normal teachers but hey can't be there the whole time she is. Help! With my new position I make $10-$20 more an hour but we were hoping to rebuild our emergency fund and off set H's decrease when he went salary. Also h gets a midyear raise next week we just don't know what it is.
Well fast forward to this week. Tuesday again she didn't get fed for 4 hours. So h and I went over her sheet to figure out why. Well she ate at 930 and at 1130 they didn't feed her they just put her down to sleep so of course her nap was only 40 mins then. Well H started cursing and I was like wtf dude. Well Tuesday we sent 5 bottles with 3 oz each. 2 of them came home full. Her sheet said she got fed 4 times. You do the math, either she got fed someone else's bm or didn't get fed for over 4 hours twice in one day meaning she only got 6 oz in 9 hours.
After a sit down meeting and number phone meetings they are dening she got someone else's milk. So I said okay then someone wrote on her sheet wrong and she didn't get fed? Which they are also denying. Wtf people, feed my fing baby!
So then h goes to pick her up later Wednesday and she is in the swing crying and two other baby's are on the floor crying while the teachers are in the other room. Her eyes look like she has cried all day (she also has a cold though) and the twat teacher involved in the feeding issue basically pushes h out of the door.
So we found a daycare, after calling 9, who take part time infants. I really like it but it has two negatives. 1. It is $285 more a month for the same hours and 2. Ellison would have to have a set schedule until after she was 19 m. This shouldn't be a huge problem but I am not 100% positive I will get he same two days every week. Our back up to this is 1. I work a weekend day and eat the cost and take them or have a 1:1 day or a mom day 2. Add a daycare day on (if there is availability) for $60 extra 3. H stays home the day I work or 4. Phone a friend.
Why am I not jumping at the fact of leaving? I am scared of the $$ and set days but can't keep her somewhere they don't feed her or treat her bad for complaining. We love her normal teachers but hey can't be there the whole time she is. Help! With my new position I make $10-$20 more an hour but we were hoping to rebuild our emergency fund and off set H's decrease when he went salary. Also h gets a midyear raise next week we just don't know what it is.
