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May 29, 2015 9:45:29 GMT -5
Post by ironbaby on May 29, 2015 9:45:29 GMT -5
May 29, 2015 9:33:05 GMT -5 @kellbell said:
I've had sex with dh many times when originally I wasn't in the mood. I don't walk around 24/7 jacked up and juiced up. I do however give him time to get me in the mood unless I'm sick or very tired. If he rubs on me the right way I'm in the mood and it's a go. There have been times when my dh has not been in the mood and it is up to me to fire him up. There is give and take and I do not find it odd at all to want to please your spouse as ironbaby, stated. The words honor/duty make it sound a bit odd but I agree just as my dh would part of having a healthy relationship means sometimes I do what he wants even if it isn't what I want (again without extreme circumstances).I agree that the words honor/duty are very off putting and don't belong in this conversation.
This is a much better explanation. I do it because I want him to be happy, and he does it because he wants me to be happy.