...omg ughhhh.... I was eating lunch and I don't know if it's the stupid weather aggravating my allergies or that my sandwich didn't agree with me but now my head is killing me and I just feel like crawling under the table and taking a nap until the headache goes away.
...omg ughhhh.... I was eating lunch and I don't know if it's the stupid weather aggravating my allergies or that my sandwich didn't agree with me but now my head is killing me and I just feel like crawling under the table and taking a nap until the headache goes away.
Hope you feel better soon!
Thanks! I'm hoping if I can snag two minutes of peace and quiet and rest my head for a bit I'll be okay to work. Fortunately it doesn't seem like a migraine...
The only excuse that they know. That Tim Tebow got crap for announcing that he was a Christian yet the people that come out and say that they are gay or trans get praised. It's the most ridiculous argument ever.
The only excuse that they know. That Tim Tebow got crap for announcing that he was a Christian yet the people that come out and say that they are gay or trans get praised. It's the most ridiculous argument ever.
yes. so instead of changing crap to praise for everyone who deserves it we should just tear everyone down who is a positive role model to level the playing field. that's some fine logic there lol
I found out Saturday that my best friend got married in June (three years ago). I was her Maid of Honor at her wedding, in October (two and a half years ago).
I had no idea she was married before her "wedding."
NOT happy. She kept trying to laugh it off, but I am actually upset.
I actually experienced the opposite. DH's cousin "got married" and then had an actual legal marriage 9 months later. They were in the middle of buying a house and it was a financial thing I guess. I'm still super confused by it. I only found out by accident because my BIL and SIL were their witness. Everyone else still believes they attended their real wedding, but it was completely a party with no real marriage. Weird.
I know. I grew up in a very Duggar-like household and school and church so those are the kinds of people that I have on my newsfeed. Gross.
(* my parents were not extremists, but the church members and the leaders of my school were)
I'm sorry.
I don't think I could put up with that in my newsfeed, but then again, I often do. I just gloss over it and ignore it all. Some of it is mind-boggling, though.
Pssh. My DH does this too, so he can't really fault me for doing it.
The thing that bugs me is that once my car turns on the low fuel light it won't tell me the mileage per gallon or distance to empty any more.
When I still have one bar and the gas light is on it will tell me... then after a while the bar starts blinking and it doesn't tell me anymore.
DH gets on me for letting the gas go that low, he says I am destroying the fuel pump and it will need to be replaced. I know he has a point... sometimes it is hard to stop for gas though. His tank is always at least half full.
This is my DH too. I'll be sitting at 1/2 tank and he'll be like "Don't you think you should get gas soon?" :/
I found out Saturday that my best friend got married in June (three years ago). I was her Maid of Honor at her wedding, in October (two and a half years ago).
I had no idea she was married before her "wedding."
NOT happy. She kept trying to laugh it off, but I am actually upset.
I actually experienced the opposite. DH's cousin "got married" and then had an actual legal marriage 9 months later. They were in the middle of buying a house and it was a financial thing I guess. I'm still super confused by it. I only found out by accident because my BIL and SIL were their witness. Everyone else still believes they attended their real wedding, but it was completely a party with no real marriage. Weird.
Bizarre...
I definitely would not spend the money on the party if I weren't getting a legal marriage out of the deal (except in cases where a legal marriage cannot be obtained because laws are stupid).
I actually experienced the opposite. DH's cousin "got married" and then had an actual legal marriage 9 months later. They were in the middle of buying a house and it was a financial thing I guess. I'm still super confused by it. I only found out by accident because my BIL and SIL were their witness. Everyone else still believes they attended their real wedding, but it was completely a party with no real marriage. Weird.
Bizarre...
I definitely would not spend the money on the party if I weren't getting a legal marriage out of the deal (except in cases where a legal marriage cannot be obtained because laws are stupid).
Yeah, I just don't get it. Why would you lie to everyone anyway? That's the part that makes me the most mad. The lies.
Apparently my stress is so bad I am developing an ulcer. I've known that since my son was born I have times when I get completely overwhelmed and start to lose control of my emotions but I didn't realize how bad it was until I went through this process of telling my doctors over and over that I wasn't stressed and that stress couldn't possibly be the cause of my bouts of nausea.
I went through all of these tests to prove it was something physical but there's nothing. And now that there's nothing physical to blame it on I'm starting to think more about how I'm feeling all day, especially when I can feel my stomach gearing up, and I'm realizing just how much time a day I spend feeling run down.
And now I just want to go home and hide. Ugh.
*hugs* At least now that you recognize it maybe you can start to self soothe and relax a bit before it gets to the point of being overwhelming.
ETA: Not that it's an easy process, dealing with stress responses, but it is doable and I wish you all the luck and strength as you work through it.
Apparently my stress is so bad I am developing an ulcer. I've known that since my son was born I have times when I get completely overwhelmed and start to lose control of my emotions but I didn't realize how bad it was until I went through this process of telling my doctors over and over that I wasn't stressed and that stress couldn't possibly be the cause of my bouts of nausea.
I went through all of these tests to prove it was something physical but there's nothing. And now that there's nothing physical to blame it on I'm starting to think more about how I'm feeling all day, especially when I can feel my stomach gearing up, and I'm realizing just how much time a day I spend feeling run down.
And now I just want to go home and hide. Ugh.
Love to you! I vented last night in chat to a few of the girls and it really helped me so much. I had a complete breakdown last night and I just needed to get shit out. If you ever need to vent, I am here to listen.
I haven't read anything yet on here....7 pages currently to catch up on but I finally have a few minutes to get on here today since I had to do payroll this morning.
So it's day 2 with little to no voice. At least I mostly don't have to talk or answer phones but when I do it sucks. And I am having bouts of coughing as well. I want this to go away!!!!!
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Apparently my stress is so bad I am developing an ulcer. I've known that since my son was born I have times when I get completely overwhelmed and start to lose control of my emotions but I didn't realize how bad it was until I went through this process of telling my doctors over and over that I wasn't stressed and that stress couldn't possibly be the cause of my bouts of nausea.
I went through all of these tests to prove it was something physical but there's nothing. And now that there's nothing physical to blame it on I'm starting to think more about how I'm feeling all day, especially when I can feel my stomach gearing up, and I'm realizing just how much time a day I spend feeling run down.
And now I just want to go home and hide. Ugh.
Oh, friend.
Yes, please go see a counselor. No one should be so stressed that they feel run down all the time or develop an ulcer. I hope you can find someone that helps you work it out. All the hugs!
Apparently my stress is so bad I am developing an ulcer. I've known that since my son was born I have times when I get completely overwhelmed and start to lose control of my emotions but I didn't realize how bad it was until I went through this process of telling my doctors over and over that I wasn't stressed and that stress couldn't possibly be the cause of my bouts of nausea.
I went through all of these tests to prove it was something physical but there's nothing. And now that there's nothing physical to blame it on I'm starting to think more about how I'm feeling all day, especially when I can feel my stomach gearing up, and I'm realizing just how much time a day I spend feeling run down.
And now I just want to go home and hide. Ugh.
((Hugs)) from a near-stranger (and fellow Starbuck lover, both the original and Kara).
When stress builds gradually, it's easy to believe you're "not stressed", because you don't feel markedly different than you felt a month ago. And a month ago, you didn't feel markedly different than you felt a month before that. And so on... But really, if you were able to compare Six-Months-Ago You to Today-You, you'd be able to see a distinctly increased level of stress.
Can you tell I'm speaking from experience? All of that to say, I'm so sorry you're going through this. I can so relate to the desire to just run and hide. (I usually want to crawl into bed and sleep.) However, I can also promise that going to see a counselor will make a world of difference. Sometimes, just being able to speak about the stress to someone who won't judge you, won't take on the stress for themselves, and won't try to "fix" you is exactly what you need.
I'll be thinking of you. I've been there, and it's just no fun. Here are a few more ((hugs)) because I'm a hugger and I can't help myself.
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