BF Monday?

[mrssmith613]

I usually don't start this but I have got a few already this morning...

- We have a new neighbor. Well, like 4 feet of our lawn butts up to his on the south side of our driveway. The old neighbors used to mow our part of that section so it would look more neat and uniform. The new neighbor won't do it. Sure it's our lawn and our responsibility but it's literally 2 swipes up and down, ain't gonna kill Ya to spend 2 extra minutes to mow it and make it look nice.

- I switched jobs in February and before accepting it, they said they work with school schedules. Okay, so i get here and they will not. Actually it seems like if you request a day off they purposely schedule you that day. I'm trying to get back to my old position because they were amazing at scheduling and I'm sorry but I've worked my ass off to get into an RN program while working full time 12 hr shifts to just say screw it because they wanna be assholes. Other coworkers complain about the people that are in school. Not my fault you chose to not advance your education don't hate on me for wanting to be successful.

That's all I got at the moment but it is only 9am.

[lakecountrygal]

DH wants to paint the foundation but won't get out of bed and then bitches at me because things don't get done. I don't want to hear it when you lay your lazy ass in bed and I've been up for 4 hours already!

[babycaps]

mrssmith613, move to Chicago!! I have a job for you and we support anyone who wants to go back to school and their schedules

I don't have a bitch today. Pretty much only bc my boss is out today and tomorrow. So I'll actually get things done

I could bitch about the weather. It's june 1st and the high today is 54F! WTF?

[kimberpoo]

huge bitch today:
background: so I haven't spoken to my (biological) sister in about 3 years. lots of reasons...in a nutshell I believe she has some mental health disorders that prevent her from acting in socially acceptable ways (histrionic/narcissistic, or something similar. I don't think she has a Dx). I'm not trying to be mean, she actually gets counseling and has been on/off meds. unfortunately, she's only been getting worse. She doesn't realize she has a problem; essentially, she believes she is the best thing on earth and everyone is out to get her. she has these fantasies about things that have happened that haven't. she believes that an old bf raped her (he didn't, I was even on the phone with her at the same time she later said it happened) and when anyone tries to say anything except agree with her, she flips out. she's still, 7 years later, sending hate mail to old friends who didn't believe her and trying to ruin the old bf's life. as that is growing stale, she's now focusing her anger at me and saying that the reason she has low self esteem is because I teased her when we were kids (like when we were 7 and 9 years old). we never had any issues besides really mild sibling rivalry....I was super nice to her through high school and even tried to hang out with her in collage. trying to include her in activities ended when she started acting violent to get attention. she kicked my friend in the throat as a 'joke', dumped a drink on my husbands head at a bar then accused him of hitting her, and tried to get a random guy to fight me at a bar (all separate occasions). it came to a head when she borrowed some of my nicest clothes for a photo shoot and after she left I got a text that was 'meant for someone else' that stated "my sister is such a bitch but at least I got her clothes". I told her she could apologize or she could give the clothes back, her choice. she refused both and it came to the point where we had to go to my moms house and open her car trunk to get my stuff back. I decided she was so toxic we just couldn't be around each other until she got some help. I still invite her to holidays (we do joint with my DH's family as my family is so small) but we aren't speaking.
a few months back out of nowhere she posts some nasty message directed at me on my mom's FB wall, essentially stating that she 'can't keep quiet anymore, everyone needs to know what a horrible person' I am. She got really nasty. I just posted that her comments were inappropriate and if she wanted to talk she needed to call or private message me. my poor mom deleted the post. occasionally she will message DH or comment on one of his posts about what a horrible person his wife is. DH usually doesn't respond, or will tell her to keep it to herself.
Now she is coming into town from PA (I live in IN, where we grew up. she's been in PA for a few years now which helps keep things under control) for my SIL's wedding. my mom tells me yesterday that bio sister wants to take my LO to the zoo while she is in town. Just LO, sis, my mom, and some guy sis brought from PA that none of us have ever met.


UMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM NO. just no. wtf? do you really think I'm going to let you just have my 13 month old when we haven't spoken in 3 years to take somewhere and I'm not invited, especially when every time someone mentions my name you respond with how much you hate me? are you nuts? plus with a total stranger?
It drives me extra nuts because I'm sure she believes she is entitled to visit with LO. I'm not the sort to keep the kids away from family members, even if we aren't getting along, but she doesn't need to be alone with him. she can see him at the wedding.

I'm sure the crazy saga will continue. sorry for the rant!!!! I'll keep you girls updated.

[ellabee]

Wow kimberpoo, just wow. She sounds like a real piece of work. I'm sorry that you have to deal with that.

[kimberpoo]

@ellabee Thanks. I don't know what happened...she was the sweetest kid through grade school. I miss the person she used to be.

[zandeela]

kimberpoo, that is a tough situation. almost sounds bipolar. my ex was that way plus schizophrenia and was on/off meds. they never helped because he did not realize he had a problem and thought the meds were changing him. I could not convince him that they were changing him into a NORMAL person, not the freak show he turned out to be.

I would not trust her with my LO alone. you just never know what she would do. You would want to think that she would not do anything to LO, but with any type of mental disorder, you just never know for sure what and when they will snap. Good luck and I hate putting it into such a dark place, but after dealing with my ex that is where my mind goes. that and too much investigation discovery TV!!

[angelsnight]

Puppy had the runs this morning and "ran" all over the carpet. Thank God for stainmaster pet edition!

And because I don't want to make a new post, I'm going to boast too. I had bought a travel booster chair but hadn't used it yet and had it in my car. The restaurant we went to for lunch didn't have highchairs. Best 11 bucks I ever spent. My lunch would have totally sucked if I had to eat with LO on my lap trying to grab everything.

[zandeela]

I hate people who make an appointment then just show up when the god well please. Then they get pissed when either we cant see them or cant do what they want done. WHY do you think it is OK to show up 1 hour late to a Dr appointment without even calling. I'm sorry, but you knew an hour ago that you were not going to make it, have the decency to call and let us know so we can move on with our day.
I cant stand stupid people!!

[kimberpoo]

zandeela yes 100%! I hate to say anything like that to my mom, because my sister is still her kid, but yes. I truly believe she could hurt LO and not even realize what she is doing is wrong. thanks for the support!

[babycaps]

Wow ladies!!! kimberpoo, I'm so sorry!!!

Toy agree zandeela

I need a travel booster!!!

I have a bitch today.
I got my period. 3 days early. Which now means I will get my period again right over 4th of July wknd. When DH and I have our very first baby-free weekend.
It's fine, it's not about the sex! We have that covered any other time.
But my PPP are HORRIBLE!!!!!!!!
I want to swim!!!!

[g33kyg1rly]

Late BFM post:

Yesterday a relative of mine posted an anti-vax graphic on FB. I had suspected her of being anti-vax for a while, but this confirmed it. The best part, she is a L&D Nurse. How can you be a RN working in a HOSPITAL around babies and not believe in vaccination? I can't even.

Her post was also shared by her daughter, who has a kid the same age as my LO. I just might have responded to her post with an image refuting that particular inaccuracy. (Believe me, it was a LOT tamer than what I wanted to post!) Hopefully it doesn't start any family drama, but I just couldn't stay silent.

[fishbulb]

Jun 2, 2015 20:04:12 GMT -5 g33kyg1rly said:

Late BFM post:

Yesterday a relative of mine posted an anti-vax graphic on FB. I had suspected her of being anti-vax for a while, but this confirmed it. The best part, she is a L&D Nurse. How can you be a RN working in a HOSPITAL around babies and not believe in vaccination? I can't even.

Her post was also shared by her daughter, who has a kid the same age as my LO. I just might have responded to her post with an image refuting that particular inaccuracy. (Believe me, it was a LOT tamer than what I wanted to post!) Hopefully it doesn't start any family drama, but I just couldn't stay silent.

Good for you, g33kyg1rly. Keep fighting the good fight!