So not interested. We've done it once since DD (16 weeks tomorrow) arrived. That was about 5-6 weeks ago? In my defense, my baby was breech and I had a 2nd degree tear and episiotomy and shit felt all wrong down there forever.
Anyway the one time was fine. I'd bought lube that we didn't need, but meh. I'm just not interested at all. DH asks if I want it sometimes (so not sexy), but nope. I guess need to suck it up and do it.
I actually never feel 'in the mood' anymore which is a bummer but I thoroughly enjoy myself when H seduces me. Which happens about every other day...
I'm never in the mood either. My OH is about as seductive as a paper bag. Actually it used to be cute because he is all awkward and he tries but ends up acting like a teenage boy. Now it just annoys me.
Same here. He needs to work on his moves, but we're both so exhausted the opportunities haven't been that many. Plus the dryness and the general pain don't make it any better. I figured a c-section would let me skip the sore vagina, but no.
Minipill and condoms. DNW another until this one is at least 2.
To actually answer this thread instead of just contributing Dr. Horrible gifs.
Back to normal, at least once a week which was our normal beforehand. Had a c-section, so no tearing or healing to deal with. I have an IUD, which for the most part has been good, though I had tsunami-level bleeding for my first real post-IUD period. There was also an incident with some strange side pain, but I think that's basically resolved itself. Not 100% regretting the IUD, but if it gives me any more trouble I'm not going to put up with it for much longer. DH will either have to deal with my low sex drive from the Pill or we're going to commit to being one and done and get him snipped.
Who's having it and who's not? Does it suck? Is it great? Did anyone warn you about PP breastfeeding drying effects? Birth control? Do you regret your choice of BC? Are you trying again, yet? Do you love your BC and recommend it? What say ye, F15ers?
I feel horrible for my DH because I really don't want to do it very often, but when I do, I end up enjoying it. I haven't seen any drying up. Hell, I'm pretty sure I could feed a village of kids. I have an over supply issue.
I have Mirena and love it. I forget to take pills, so this is perfect for me.
I'll confess... We've had PIV sex ONCE since DD came (14 weeks). Yep. We're that lame couple. It felt ok, a little rough but not too much. Using condoms, which DH hates, but I'm not in the mood to start hormonal BC just yet. And since we're not even doing it regularily yet, I don't really see the need.
Seriously? How are some of you guys finding time for every other day or even twice a week?
I don't know. The kids go to bed between 7 and 7:30. We sit and watch tv until 9 then go to bed and usually have sex. Our morning sex has dropped off because we're never sure when the kids will get up.
Who's having it and who's not? Does it suck? Is it great? Did anyone warn you about PP breastfeeding drying effects? Birth control? Do you regret your choice of BC? Are you trying again, yet? Do you love your BC and recommend it? What say ye, F15ers?
I feel horrible for my DH because I really don't want to do it very often, but when I do, I end up enjoying it. I haven't seen any drying up. Hell, I'm pretty sure I could feed a village of kids. I have an over supply issue.
I have Mirena and love it. I forget to take pills, so this is perfect for me.
I'm dying over here! lol
I believe in this case the drying effects was referring to less natural lube and not the drying up of milk. So I had a very strong WTF reaction to you being able to feed a village of kids! Lol
Post by allonsy221b on Jun 15, 2015 14:33:05 GMT -5
I have no explanation for this because I've had two ç sections but I feel like it shrunk or got tighter or something. We're using condoms but not doing it very often.
My h actually started a job at a company that makes toys and they gifted him a few things. I'm a little intimidated lol
A lot of reasons, pick one: Not interested, exhausted, DH & I are on different schedules, DS is high needs and not sleeping thru the night, he's sleeping in my bed and DH in the guest room downstairs, my body is broken everywhere (hand therapy twice a week, chiro twice a week and a back massage once a week. I'm rocking 2 wrists braces and a knee brace, I'm sure I look oh so sexy, right?)
I have no explanation for this because I've had two ç sections but I feel like it shrunk or got tighter or something. We're using condoms but not doing it very often.
My h actually started a job at a company that makes toys and they gifted him a few things. I'm a little intimidated lol
it can feel like that when it's been a significant amount if time.
Tell us more about your H's job. Does he make toys? Come up with concepts? Is he a tester? I'm so interested in this.
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