I'm late to the game, but with all this talk about sex and BJs and orgasms, I feel compelled to share.
FFFC: I've never had an orgasm. Never. Not by myself, not with H, not with anyone, not any kind, not any time. Zilch.
Have you tried using a vibrator?
Yes, I should have elaborated. I have 5 different vibrators, (one is the rabbit), I've used showerheads, I've read erotic fiction while using a vibrator, I've...let's see what else is there? Role play, relaxing, not relaxing, focus on it, don't focus on it, read books on how to orgasm, had H read books on how to give an orgasm, talked to the doctor, talked to a therapist....
Since it seems to be BJ Friday, I will also add that I've never even come close to completion with a BJ. I knew I loved this crowd. Thanks for making me feel more normal and less of a prude, ladies!
Yes, I should have elaborated. I have 5 different vibrators, (one is the rabbit), I've used showerheads, I've read erotic fiction while using a vibrator, I've...let's see what else is there? Role play, relaxing, not relaxing, focus on it, don't focus on it, read books on how to orgasm, had H read books on how to give an orgasm, talked to the doctor, talked to a therapist....
Basically, it's not for lack of trying.
Oh man. It's super hard for me and only happens every once in a while.
1. I ate a bag of Doritos in 1.5 days. DH helped but not really.
2. I also have never given a BJ and never plan to.
3. I love sex. We have it 3-4 times a week. We've had to take a break because of some spotting. I'm so ready! It's been 6 days!!
4. DS has the stoplight clock. He will not come out until that thing turns green. So no 430 or 530 am wake up calls for me!
What is the name of the clock?? Brand? We are going to be transitioning dd into a toddler bed soon to get her used to it before little human comes, and I'd like to introduce that concept to her too.. she's very stubborn. I think if she has something like that to look to, it'll help
Post by hurricaine on Jan 23, 2015 21:35:36 GMT -5
With all this sex talk running around: I'm so incredibly ready to go at all times right now, but I so don't want to put any energy in. Between just weird pregnancy horniness, and restless legs (the only cure I've ever found for this is sex), I can't sleep without an orgasm and I can barely stay awake for sex. DH is having a grand old time, but I'm just like "let's just find the fastest way to do this so I can sleep." Not exactly sexy.
I'm putting off calling my oncologist to tell her I'm pregnant. I get a check-up every six months to check for growths on my ovary, including an ultrasound and it's basically useless when pregnant or early breastfeeding because ovaries kind of move and swell from the hormones and distinguishing a growth becomes impossible. I could say that I'm waiting until the first trimester is over so that if something happens, I won't have to get another appointment, but the real reason is that I'm just super paranoid about another tumour and don't want to have to go another year without a proper ultrasound to check things out. I recognize the stupidity in this - even if I did go, they wouldn't be able to see anything.
Since it seems to be BJ Friday, I will also add that I've never even come close to completion with a BJ. I knew I loved this crowd. Thanks for making me feel more normal and less of a prude, ladies!
I feel like I've been asexual the past 6 months or so. I've done it mostly out of feeling guilty for dh, but I just haven't wanted it at all. Dh has been a saint about it, but I know he takes it personally. I still think he's hot, I wish I wanted it, but it just ain't happenin'.
Also, ds has strep. I can't decide if my throat hurts from throwing up today or if I caught it. Freaking myself out a little bit.
OK, my FFFC - I am an open atheist, and I'm not ashamed of that.
My parents are atheists as well, and raised my siblings and I to be open minded to everything. They sent us to church with relatives (individually) when we were about ten, and made us stick with it for a year, through mass and Sunday school, bible study, etc. We then started having open discussions about everything, and they explained their positions. We traveled a lot, and met many different people. In the end, they absolutely supported our beliefs in either direction, and we ended up a mixed bag. (A practicing Catholic, two Christians that do not go to church, and two atheists). We all get along in that department. This is exactly how I plan to raise my children.
I think what your parents did is beautiful.
So beautiful. We plan on doing something similar, though DH would rather just shy away from it all together.
I'm also in the no sex during first tri boat, but it's not really bothering me. Also, I wish I hadn't given a bj to completion in years.
My FFFC, I do not want to go to work on Monday. I know it's still Friday and I should just suck it up, but I've wanted to call in and just take a me day for like two weeks now. Inevitably I know I'll go in on Monday, but I won't like it.
Mine is that all I want to do is move west and live off the land in the middle of nowhere. I hate the rat race, I hate billable hours, I hate the northeast intensity (sorry to anyone here living in the NE, but everyone I've met here has been sooooo intense! Work work work work work work work work work. This coming from someone who worked in DC for a few years), and I hate the "keep up with the Jones's" mentality where we live. Ugh.
Give me a plot of land outside of Bozeman and I'm there like, NOW.
Go further west Bozeman is meh. Sandpoint, ID is where I would be if I could
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Post by sunshinelady15 on Jan 24, 2015 17:09:02 GMT -5
I know it's already Saturday, but as the time gets closer, I am not looking forward to being kicked by baby . My daughter was like on a fucking jungle gym every night. It was uncomfortable and creepy at the same time. I am scared for baby to start moving in there, but can't wait to know that he/she is ok by feeling the movement. I am crazy I know :/
Post by sunshinelady15 on Jan 24, 2015 17:19:07 GMT -5
Just read through the posts. I must have super slut written on my chest. I LOVE giving my H Bj's. When his toes crack I am like "yes! I am one bad bitch!" He says the first time I did it he knew he would marry me, LOL. I must say I put effort into them trying to make each one better than the last.
That is all the action we are having now because I won't let him poke me especially after my bleeding scare. I would rather work my jaw until I can't anymore than experience that bleeding again. Scariest shit ever.
A day late to the party, but I am in the rare to never bj club and never to completion. We also haven't had sex since the bfp. A few times I wanted to, but dh did something to piss me off so I just helped myself. Maybe one day we will get back into it.
I got a birthday cake oreo blizzard today... I did not really like it, the sprinkles ruined it for me.
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