Trying to stay positive.
Jun 23, 2015 8:41:06 GMT -5
Post by 20thirteen on Jun 23, 2015 8:41:06 GMT -5
So, I've been waiting for paperwork from DHS to tell me what is going on with DD's child care. I finally called them Friday and they told me that I now officially make too much to be on assistance. My pitiful .30 raise knocked me off eligibility. It's taken me a few days to compose myself. DD's party ended up tiny, which in the end was ok because I don't do parties well, and I wouldn't have had enough food for everyone anyway. I cried to my BF who told me that, with his new job, he's going to start helping me out with daycare. "Because I've been her dad her whole life, and I want to help. Because it's the right thing to do." That kind of threw me because this whole time, I've been insisting on doing things without help, to prove that I could do it. Now I kind of feel like I'm failing, but I know I'm not. The feeling is messing me up though. When I approached the director at the daycare, I tried to hide my panic and tears, but I'm pretty sure she saw it. I asked how much it is a month and she wouldn't give me a number, just told me that she would talk to the other director and see what they could do about getting me a discount. My assistance ends July 1, so a week and a half to figure this out. I don't want to have to pull DD from that daycare because she loves it, everyone loves her, and it's close to home. The director knows that. I'm grateful that she's going to try to help me, too.
Maybe this is just a sign to get my butt back in gear and go to school and get a better job. One that, if the minimum wage does rise to $15/hr, I wouldn't feel like I've been set back (I make more than $15/hr but less than $17/hr). Problem with that is school is costly.
Anyone know of any scholarships or anything for working moms? Also, anyone have any daycare advice? If I have to pull her, I'm not sure how the transition will be...
Maybe this is just a sign to get my butt back in gear and go to school and get a better job. One that, if the minimum wage does rise to $15/hr, I wouldn't feel like I've been set back (I make more than $15/hr but less than $17/hr). Problem with that is school is costly.
Anyone know of any scholarships or anything for working moms? Also, anyone have any daycare advice? If I have to pull her, I'm not sure how the transition will be...