Post by origamimommy on Jun 26, 2015 20:37:40 GMT -5
Guys. I miss you all so much. So much has been happening in my life.
This is kind of awkward, but I want to tell you.
I'm asking my husband for a separation. I'm pretty sure I want w divorce but I'm terrified to admit we've failed. I just can't anymore. I'm sad. So sad. And sad for Tyler.
But on the other hand, since I've decided this, I've felt a weight off of my shoulders. I feel lighter and happier. But I also feel like a failure. I'm a fucking disaster.
Post by xanthepants on Jun 26, 2015 20:44:24 GMT -5
Holy moly @origqmimommy. That was not what I was expecting to hear from you. I've been a little MIA and haven't had a chance to read your blog entry yet. I'm sorry. Oh I wish I was there to give you big hugs. Do you feel 100% done or is the separation something he could potential come back from if he cleans up his act? I can understand being sad thru this but it takes a lot of strength to choose something better for Tyler and eventually it will be. It may not feel like it now, but it will be someday.
Post by somethingcleverer on Jun 26, 2015 20:46:54 GMT -5
I'm so sorry origamimommy. I was afraid that was the big decision you had to make on your blog. I don't think doing what's right for you is failing. I wish I had the right words to say but I'm not as eloquent as the rest of the ladies here. So I'll just say that we are here for you whenever you need us. Sending you lots of positive vibes and big hugs.
Guys. I miss you all so much. So much has been happening in my life.
This is kind of awkward, but I want to tell you.
I'm asking my husband for a separation. I'm pretty sure I want w divorce but I'm terrified to admit we've failed. I just can't anymore. I'm sad. So sad. And sad for Tyler.
But on the other hand, since I've decided this, I've felt a weight off of my shoulders. I feel lighter and happier. But I also feel like a failure. I'm a fucking disaster.
origamimommy I'm so sorry. Its obviously not a decision that has come easily for you. You have to do whats best not only for you but Tyler too. Big hugs! Your not a failure by any means.
Post by Riverdong11 on Jun 26, 2015 20:54:48 GMT -5
origamimommy I've been thinking about you since I read your blog entry. I'm so sorry you're going through this, but I think you are such a strong woman for addressing the situation and doing what's best for you and Tyler. Lots of hugs and wine for you.
Post by origamimommy on Jun 26, 2015 20:58:05 GMT -5
Thanks ladies! Bella, I think I'm done. Divorce is a scary word and I never, ever thought it would affect US. We were better than that, we were in it for the long hair. Divorce?? No way!
But one person cannot carry a marriage. I'm exhausted. I just can't.
Thanks ladies! Bella, I think I'm done. Divorce is a scary word and I never, ever thought it would affect US. We were better than that, we were in it for the long hair. Divorce?? No way!
But one person cannot carry a marriage. I'm exhausted. I just can't.
I'm so sorry you are going through this but you are 100% correct - marriage is a partnership between 2 people, you can't do it all alone. Thoughts & prayers with you as you go through this.
Thanks ladies! Bella, I think I'm done. Divorce is a scary word and I never, ever thought it would affect US. We were better than that, we were in it for the long hair. Divorce?? No way!
But one person cannot carry a marriage. I'm exhausted. I just can't.
Hugs. I am sorry you are going through this. Marriage is hard and it takes work even if both people want to be in the marriage. It is impossible for you to carry the weight of the relationship alone. It takes a strong woman to figure out what is right for her and her children. You are a strong woman and you deserve to be happy. I am sending lots of T&P your way.
origamimommy I am so sorry. I am 100% here for you and if you need to talk at all, please PM me here or fb. Seriously, I am pretty sure I know exactly how you're feeling. All the love.
Why is everyone in Indiana today?? Can you visit a girl as you drive through my town next time? Please and thank you.
I thought of you! Tim and I have been talking about doing a Indianapolis children's museum trip and possibly staying over night. If we do I totally think we need an Indiana meet up with you and britbratjf and any laide close enough to join in.
Lots of hugs origamimommy and of course we're all here for you. Please don't think you've failed in anyway. Doing what is best for you and for Tyler means setting you both up in a way that you can be successful, even if it's a hard and scary path to get there. You are the opposite of failure and so strong for being able to see what you need to do.
Post by britbratjf on Jun 26, 2015 21:25:17 GMT -5
heatherbee we are both north of Indianapolis. Like in the suburbs. somethingcleverer you should! It's an awesome museum. We have a membership so let me know & we can totally meet up!
Post by mommymadness on Jun 26, 2015 21:32:36 GMT -5
You are such a strong woman origamimommy, hang in there! You are young so I feel like if you know things aren't working out for you and h, it is better to leave now than prolong it and be unhappy! Your future holds so much for you still!!
Oh origamimommy I'm so shocked to hear this. You a strong woman and a great mother. You will come out stronger from this. I thought you and H were doing well for awhile. I'm sorry that the partnership can't work. Divorce is scary but sometimes it's for the best. You can't be miserable or always stressed and worried. I don't know you, but feel like I "know" you and I just want the very best for you and Tyler. Thinking of you. Hugs.
Since it's still Friday.... It's 11pm and Henry and I are watching a tinkerbell movie. I feel like I just can't win with his bedtime anymore and I just don't feel like fighting tonight. It will ruin my last Friday of maternity leave and the slight buzz I have going.
Post by bantyrooster on Jun 26, 2015 22:05:42 GMT -5
I hate fireworks. With a passion. Doing them 2-3 days, okay but a week I am over. It scares the kids and dog. Plus my kid screams all night. 9-1 are my sleeping hours and the stupid fireworks ruin it.
Big old hugs to you origamimommy. Always here for you. I've been thinking of you lately. You are strong, smart, and a fierce mother. We all got your back!
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