caddoqueen & origamimommy, I'm so sorry for both of you. That is an extremely hard decision and one I know was not come to lightly. I pray that you're both able to find the peace and happiness you deserve.
I thought your blog might be about something like this and I'm sad for you. I hate to day it but I know exactly how you feel origamimommy. My last marriage sounds a lot like yours. He never wanted to change anything and it was always me doing everything I could to keep it together.
Hugs lady, you will make it through this even if it doesn't seem like it right now. You are one strong lady.
Post by junkytrunk on Jun 28, 2015 10:45:49 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for all our ladies having marriage troubles. We are here for you. I wish we could all get together and have a big sleepover. With ice cream and pedicures.
I'm so sorry for all our ladies having marriage troubles. We are here for you. I wish we could all get together and have a big sleepover. With ice cream and pedicures.
origamimommy - You are not a failure. You are just doing what is best for you and Tyler. You are a strong woman for knowing that soemthing isn't working and taking the necessary actions to make the situation better for the both of you. Please know that we are all here for you if you need. Same for you caddoqueen. Sending big hugs to the both of you.
I'm so sorry for all our ladies having marriage troubles. We are here for you. I wish we could all get together and have a big sleepover. With ice cream and pedicures.
Just seeing this today...origamimommy I'm so sorry this is where you are but as someone who has come through the other side let me assure you, you aren't a failure and your feelings are 100% valid. I know it feels wrong to feel relief and like a failure at the same time. When you said "I do" you meant it, and you meant it forever. But you can't make someone else mean it forever. You can't hold a marriage together on your own and at long last giving up that burden IS a relief and you're right to feel lighter because it is a load too heavy for one person to carry. At the same time, it is a death that you will mourn. It's the death of a relationship that you thought would last forever; that you believed in. Mourning that death and feeling relieved to be free if it at the same time - that is ok. I'm here for you. Hugs.
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