How to Get Comfortable Nurisng in Public
Jun 27, 2015 0:11:06 GMT -5
Post by billyhorrible on Jun 27, 2015 0:11:06 GMT -5
There are a million hard things about breastfeeding, and I vividly remember that with my first getting him to latch was tear-inducing. And LBB had a fantastic latch. But trying to balance tiny newborn and giant boob, and get into the right position was hard enough. Even worse when you felt like everyone was watching you, or the baby was crying and therefore everyone would be watching you. But I think it's really important to get out of the house - for your mental health.
So here are my favorite tips to help you get comfortable nursing in public. Like with real estate, the main emphasis is location, location, location. The first time I ever nursed in public was on a small trail by my house while we were out on a walk. It was such a great experience because no one was around!
1) Nordstrom. I know, this sounds silly, but I passed this on to my SIL when she was a new mother and she said it saved her sanity. Nordstrom has some of the nicest "mother's lounges" - comfy couches/chairs in a private space. So start out with a trip to the mall/Nordstroms. You'll have a "safe space" to go when baby gets hungry, in that you don't need to worry about disturbing people or an audience.
2) Mommy Movies. Check with your local theaters to see if they do this, of the 4 movie chains in my area, only one does, but it's worth it. They're movies especially geared toward moms with infants. Not the movies themselves (DH and I saw Girl with a Dragon Tattoo this way) but the atmosphere. Not completely dark, changing tables in the aisle, and everyone there is a nursing mom. So no one even bats an eye if a baby starts crying, and chances are the woman 3 seats down from you will be whipping out her own breast at some point too. Plus the low lighting helps you not feel like the spotlight is on you.
3) Invest in a beautiful nursing cover. I am by no means saying that you HAVE to wear a cover and I will throw my support 100% behind any mom who doesn't want to wear one. That being said, for me, personally, I'm more comfortable wearing one, especially in the beginning so no one could really see me struggling to get "into position." When we went to the concert last week, there were at least 5 or 6 of us present on the grass just hanging out with covers on - felt like being part of a secret group.
You also may find your own little "special" places - like there was a supermarket by our old place that had a "man lounge" - giant oversized leather chairs and televisions. I loved shopping there because it was such a comfortable place to nurse. And while I never went to a LaLecheLeague meeting, it's a great space for getting comfortable with nursing in public, because that certainly goes on there and is a very supportive environment.
So here are my favorite tips to help you get comfortable nursing in public. Like with real estate, the main emphasis is location, location, location. The first time I ever nursed in public was on a small trail by my house while we were out on a walk. It was such a great experience because no one was around!
1) Nordstrom. I know, this sounds silly, but I passed this on to my SIL when she was a new mother and she said it saved her sanity. Nordstrom has some of the nicest "mother's lounges" - comfy couches/chairs in a private space. So start out with a trip to the mall/Nordstroms. You'll have a "safe space" to go when baby gets hungry, in that you don't need to worry about disturbing people or an audience.
2) Mommy Movies. Check with your local theaters to see if they do this, of the 4 movie chains in my area, only one does, but it's worth it. They're movies especially geared toward moms with infants. Not the movies themselves (DH and I saw Girl with a Dragon Tattoo this way) but the atmosphere. Not completely dark, changing tables in the aisle, and everyone there is a nursing mom. So no one even bats an eye if a baby starts crying, and chances are the woman 3 seats down from you will be whipping out her own breast at some point too. Plus the low lighting helps you not feel like the spotlight is on you.
3) Invest in a beautiful nursing cover. I am by no means saying that you HAVE to wear a cover and I will throw my support 100% behind any mom who doesn't want to wear one. That being said, for me, personally, I'm more comfortable wearing one, especially in the beginning so no one could really see me struggling to get "into position." When we went to the concert last week, there were at least 5 or 6 of us present on the grass just hanging out with covers on - felt like being part of a secret group.
You also may find your own little "special" places - like there was a supermarket by our old place that had a "man lounge" - giant oversized leather chairs and televisions. I loved shopping there because it was such a comfortable place to nurse. And while I never went to a LaLecheLeague meeting, it's a great space for getting comfortable with nursing in public, because that certainly goes on there and is a very supportive environment.