Post by ak0725 on Jul 16, 2015 18:14:39 GMT -5
As I've mentioned before, I currently work offshore overseas off the coast of Africa. My "working time" is 4 weeks at a time and then I go home, however once you factor in the travelling it comes out to roughly 5 weeks gone and 3 weeks home.
Recently, I was talking with a former coworker of mine who left our company to get into a completely different line of work. He told me they are currently hiring and is adamant that switching jobs was the best move he's ever made. He still travels, but only for 2-3 days at a time, but much more frequently. According to him he's still gone slightly more than 50% of the year.
Here's the part I need help with... I truly enjoy my job, I'm good at it, I know the ins and outs, I have a good crew of people I work with each time I come offshore, and most importantly to me, our upper management are almost all nearing retirement age (as in within the next 5-7 years) and I am positioned nicely to be considered for a promotion at that point. However, with the LO at home now, it's causing alot of stress and tension between my wife and I that I'm gone for so long each time. I have had "out of town" jobs our entire relationship all the way back to when we first began dating, and her and I are used to dealing with me being gone, but throwing the little guy into the equation has shifted things significantly.
The new job pays fairly comparable, but slightly higher, and would ultimately be the same about of time gone. But in much shorter spurts, which I would think would lessen her burden, only having to deal with it all for short stretches rather than such long ones. But I would be starting all over again from the very bottom, in an industry that's heavily seniority based, both for time off and promotions. The former coworker of mine says the work itself is straight forward and enjoyable and according to him their insurance benefits are better, and they "have a hell of a pension plan"
I guess what I'm saying is, what do yo u think you would do? Or can you offer any brilliant questions that I'm overlooking.
Thanks in advance!!
Recently, I was talking with a former coworker of mine who left our company to get into a completely different line of work. He told me they are currently hiring and is adamant that switching jobs was the best move he's ever made. He still travels, but only for 2-3 days at a time, but much more frequently. According to him he's still gone slightly more than 50% of the year.
Here's the part I need help with... I truly enjoy my job, I'm good at it, I know the ins and outs, I have a good crew of people I work with each time I come offshore, and most importantly to me, our upper management are almost all nearing retirement age (as in within the next 5-7 years) and I am positioned nicely to be considered for a promotion at that point. However, with the LO at home now, it's causing alot of stress and tension between my wife and I that I'm gone for so long each time. I have had "out of town" jobs our entire relationship all the way back to when we first began dating, and her and I are used to dealing with me being gone, but throwing the little guy into the equation has shifted things significantly.
The new job pays fairly comparable, but slightly higher, and would ultimately be the same about of time gone. But in much shorter spurts, which I would think would lessen her burden, only having to deal with it all for short stretches rather than such long ones. But I would be starting all over again from the very bottom, in an industry that's heavily seniority based, both for time off and promotions. The former coworker of mine says the work itself is straight forward and enjoyable and according to him their insurance benefits are better, and they "have a hell of a pension plan"
I guess what I'm saying is, what do yo u think you would do? Or can you offer any brilliant questions that I'm overlooking.
Thanks in advance!!