Update (loss)

[Stringy]

Third HCG came back at 19.  So this isn't gonna happen. I didn't let myself get attached to this from the start, but I'm still pretty upset.  It was also awesome being witty's cycle, BFP, beta-limbo buddy, but at least one of us stayed in it.  I'll just get it next time. Or something less cliche. lots of frosties to work with.

[jgy]

Oh my heart just sank. I'm so, SO sorry Stringy. Be kind to yourself and please lean on us for anything we can provide to you. Hugs.

[wittyandwaiting]

I am so sorry for you my friend. Please take good care of you and vent or have all the feels you need to have.

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In my own experience, I struggled with how to feel because it was early and I felt like I hadn't put in enough time for it to feel like a loss. But it did and it sucked, and I let myself feel all the feels and it helped.

If there is anything I can do to help or support or be #teamstringy please let me know. (((Hugs)))

[bexincanada]

So sorry to hear this Stringy, take good care of yourself and lean wherever you need to lean. *hugs*

[JustJudy]

I'm sorry Sending you much love. This is of course your journey, but feel free to mourn and be disappointed. May next try bring better results.

[healz413]

I'm so sorry to hear it Stringy. Sending lots of love.

[kona]

So sorry Stringy healing thought your way.

[jazibel]

I'm so sorry to hear this Stringy, I hope you are able to take the time you need to heal. Huge HuGs!!!

[shemarie82]

So sorry to hear this Stringy. Take care of yourself.

[officerofthelaw]

Really sorry about the loss. Take care of yourself.

[kh826]

I'm so very sorry to see this, Stringy.
I will be thinking of you and sending lots of support your way.
Big hugs!

[crazyaunt84]

Sending you hugs and tequila. I'm so very sorry, Stringy.

[honigbiene]

Stringy, I am so fucking sorry

[esquette]

Damn. I'm sorry. I know we were all pulling for you this cycle. We are with you all the way!

[cetcar]

So very sorry to hear this. I hope you are finding all the support you need but please rely on this little community all that you need.

[karlamo]

Strings, I'm so sorry. This is not how it's suppose to go after you've already struggled for so long to get here. If you want to talk more you can pm me. I remember when our first cycle failed after doing 12 IUI's. It's devastating and leaves you wondering what the hell is going on and why.

I'm glad you have frosties because that's a good sign. Our clinic's embroyologist is very strict with their frozen standards. If you look at their stats, their FET success rates pretty much match their fresh rates. You and wife take care of each other.

[Deleted]

Adding my thoughts to the others. So sorry Strings.