Feeling a bit down
Jan 25, 2015 22:10:23 GMT -5
Post by mrsdee1982 on Jan 25, 2015 22:10:23 GMT -5
OK, I hope to God that this post does not make me come off as a special snowflake, but here we go.
I am 21w3d. I have not felt the baby move. I have felt nothing. Not a flip, flop, bubble, thump, stretch, flutter. Nothing. Nadda.
At my last OB appt, I was 20w4d, my OB came into the room and the first thing she said was "Oh, you must be feeling her move all the time now" and when I told her no, she just kind of said "Oh, well you will be soon!"
I know it can be up to 26 weeks before I feel anything and that's considered "normal", but right now I feel like I am literally the last one of us left that has not felt anything.
The first question everyone asks me now is "What do her little kicks feel like?" or "Does she kick a lot?". When I say "I don't know yet, haven't felt anything", they look at me like something must be wrong. I tell them the 26 week thing, and I just get a sympathetic look back.
This is our third pregnancy. We've lost the previous 2. Not feeling anything at this point, makes me think that the OB is going to tell me "Oh, we made a mistake. There's no baby in there."
It's just making me feel like less of a pregnant woman (if that makes sense). I kind of feel like I've stalled out in the bonding with her. I am just feeling really down about it right now. Come on baby girl. Let momma feel you. Let me know that you're in there. Kick me in the bladder. Jab me in the kidney. Swing from my ribs like they are monkey bars. Just something. Anything. Please...
I am 21w3d. I have not felt the baby move. I have felt nothing. Not a flip, flop, bubble, thump, stretch, flutter. Nothing. Nadda.
At my last OB appt, I was 20w4d, my OB came into the room and the first thing she said was "Oh, you must be feeling her move all the time now" and when I told her no, she just kind of said "Oh, well you will be soon!"
I know it can be up to 26 weeks before I feel anything and that's considered "normal", but right now I feel like I am literally the last one of us left that has not felt anything.
The first question everyone asks me now is "What do her little kicks feel like?" or "Does she kick a lot?". When I say "I don't know yet, haven't felt anything", they look at me like something must be wrong. I tell them the 26 week thing, and I just get a sympathetic look back.
This is our third pregnancy. We've lost the previous 2. Not feeling anything at this point, makes me think that the OB is going to tell me "Oh, we made a mistake. There's no baby in there."
It's just making me feel like less of a pregnant woman (if that makes sense). I kind of feel like I've stalled out in the bonding with her. I am just feeling really down about it right now. Come on baby girl. Let momma feel you. Let me know that you're in there. Kick me in the bladder. Jab me in the kidney. Swing from my ribs like they are monkey bars. Just something. Anything. Please...