Bachelor parties

[mommymadness]

Aug 6, 2015 7:28:24 GMT -5 jodielyn10 said:

I think regardless of what you decide - whether you want him avoid the strippers or you're going to let it go - you need to talk to him about it. The idea of "testing" him to see if he does the right thing is a horrible decision imo and just asking for a huge fight. I personally don't appreciate the idea of a husband handing down rules for what his wife can and can't do, so in the same regard I don't believe a wife should tell her husband what he can and can't do either. In instances where you're uncomfortable with something, you need to talk to him about it and come to an agreement that you can both live with.

I agree the testing would just lead to a fight. I also don't like being that person who tells her spouse they cannot do something. We are all grown ups and can make decisions for ourselves! ( In hs I remember one is my friends used to have a boyfriend in which she would have to ask his permission to go out with her friends! It was f'ing ridiculous!) anyways I so plan on talking to him! I still don't know what I want to "think" on my part. Part of me really wants to see him go and have fun, where ever they go. The other part just wants him to choose respecting my views on the place and just ditch that part. In the long run he will ultimately decide so we shall see how our talk goes!