Post by mommymadness on Aug 5, 2015 14:49:30 GMT -5
I value you ladies and your opinions so I need help with what I should do or more so, go about this.
My husband hardly ever goes out with the guys. He is kind of a home body, but still loves hanging out. He is the first of all his friends to have kids, so it doesn't help. This weekend he is planning on going to his cousins/friends bachelor party. They are going paintballing and drinking at a house. What my husband has neglected to bring up is going to the strippers. His friends always end up there and I feel like both he and I know it is going to happen. Now I know strippers are no big deal to a lot of people but to me they are. I feel like we are married and he shouldn't be watching other naked women dance. They are so repulsive and do disgusting things here. Like getting guys to try and throw change into their vags! It makes me sick to think about.
He has gone in the past during a bachelor party, with the same guys, and failed to mention it to me. I was so mad and more than once he has promised not to go to them again because he knows how I feel.
He is really looking forward to getting out and I want him to go have a good time but really feel uncomfortable with the strippers. I've subtly asked if he will just be going for a bit and driving home or what his plan is and he got kind of defensive saying how he would like to stay for the whole thing. Now the strippers have not been mentioned by him but I know that if he is staying, he will not say no to his friends, despite how I feel. So I guess what I am asking for help with is: do I just tell him I will be so mad if he goes to he strippers, say nothing and hope he makes the right choice( as he has promised in the past and knows how I feel), or do I really need to get over it because I am being overly prude?
Sorry that got long!!! UHg I have already been tossing at night and having weird dreams thinking about this!! Lol
My husband hardly ever goes out with the guys. He is kind of a home body, but still loves hanging out. He is the first of all his friends to have kids, so it doesn't help. This weekend he is planning on going to his cousins/friends bachelor party. They are going paintballing and drinking at a house. What my husband has neglected to bring up is going to the strippers. His friends always end up there and I feel like both he and I know it is going to happen. Now I know strippers are no big deal to a lot of people but to me they are. I feel like we are married and he shouldn't be watching other naked women dance. They are so repulsive and do disgusting things here. Like getting guys to try and throw change into their vags! It makes me sick to think about.
He has gone in the past during a bachelor party, with the same guys, and failed to mention it to me. I was so mad and more than once he has promised not to go to them again because he knows how I feel.
He is really looking forward to getting out and I want him to go have a good time but really feel uncomfortable with the strippers. I've subtly asked if he will just be going for a bit and driving home or what his plan is and he got kind of defensive saying how he would like to stay for the whole thing. Now the strippers have not been mentioned by him but I know that if he is staying, he will not say no to his friends, despite how I feel. So I guess what I am asking for help with is: do I just tell him I will be so mad if he goes to he strippers, say nothing and hope he makes the right choice( as he has promised in the past and knows how I feel), or do I really need to get over it because I am being overly prude?
![???](http://storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/huh.png)
Sorry that got long!!! UHg I have already been tossing at night and having weird dreams thinking about this!! Lol