I don't even know how to do this. Yesterday I was celebrating the end of 1st tri, and today I have no baby. We went in for our appt today and the doctor found no heartbeat. Apparently the baby died about 3 weeks ago and my body didn't notice. So I look pregnant, and I feel pregnant, but my baby stopped growing 3 weeks ago. I have to go in Monday for a D&C.
Right now I can't even think straight, but I know at some point I'm going to need some guidance, and I'm going to need help coping with this terrible loss. I know it has happened to many people before, but it doesn't make this any less heartbreaking for me right now. I'm not ready to deal with it yet, but when I am, I know I'm going to need this community to help me figure out how to move forward.
Wishing you all the best, and I hope you'll take me back when I'm ready.
I am so sorry for your loss. It is probably one of the worst experiences I have ever gone through. Knowing that lots of other women have gone through it makes it no easier.
Post by easilyunamused on Aug 5, 2015 17:52:01 GMT -5
Oh, my heart breaks for you. I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself, and comeback when you are ready. We will be here for you. ((Hugs))
Oh goodness girl, I am so so sorry to hear that you are going through this, My heart is breaking for you right now. So so many hugs are coming your way. Cope however you need to and know we will all be here supporting you. ((hugs))
Me: 31 Wife: 30. Legally married 2008, thanks CA! TTC #1 since 11/14 using donor sperm. IUIs Jan-Aug 2015 BFN Sept & OCT 2015 added Femara. BFN Saw RE December 2015. IUI with Clomid & Trigger Jan 2016 BFN IUI #13 with Follistim April 2016 BFFN IVF #1 July 2016. 14R, 10F, 6 Day 5 embryos. 4 PGS normal embabies!
Post by kawaiikitsune on Aug 5, 2015 18:04:16 GMT -5
My heat is breaking for you right now. I am so, so sorry for your loss. Take time to heal and be kind to yourself. We will be here when you are ready. All the hugs to you.
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