TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Post by kayladawn91 on Aug 27, 2015 7:12:28 GMT -5
@led I love the elephant with balloons. It's so powerful and beautiful. I also really like the second option.
I just want to say a quick thank you to you ladies for your kind words and support yesterday. It was probably the toughest day I've had since my loss and I'm really glad to have this place for support when it seems like no one in real life understands. You ladies really are the best.
After having a good cry on H last night, I'm feeling a little better today. Since I didn't hear anything from my boss yesterday about the teaching job, I applied for a couple of jobs in other districts last night (not full time teaching, but still good opportunities with more money) and plan to treat myself to a manicure and some shopping today.
Post by LadyNymeria on Aug 27, 2015 7:58:41 GMT -5
This morning isn't starting off very well. As I was waiting to get my blood drawn for my hCG check a lady walked in for her glucose test. Then the phlebotomist (sp?) asked me if I was there for a pregnancy test. No...the sp.ab. on my lab order means we're tracking it down. She felt really bad and told me about her own m/c but this was not how I wanted to start my day.
This morning isn't starting off very well. As I was waiting to get my blood drawn for my hCG check a lady walked in for her glucose test. Then the phlebotomist (sp?) asked me if I was there for a pregnancy test. No...the sp.ab. on my lab order means we're tracking it down. She felt really bad and told me about her own m/c but this was not how I wanted to start my day.
I'm sorry. That sucks. I wish people would read notes before asking questions like that. It's hard enough just being there. *hugs*
Post by kayladawn91 on Aug 27, 2015 9:22:38 GMT -5
LadyNymeria I'm so sorry. Going to the doctor post-loss is hard, but comments like that which can be avoided with common sense make it even worse. Hugs!
Fuck. I had been doing ok the past few days too. Fucking crying now.
I'm so sorry! People just don't think before they ask questions sometimes and it's hurtful. You'd think in that line of work you'd be a little more cautious of what you ask someone.
LadyNymeria, So many hugs. Don't feel like crying is an indication that you're not doing okay, though. Part of being okay is being able to cry when you need to.
**I hope that makes sense. Obviously none of this is okay, it all really sucks, learning to cope isn't a straight line but it all still moves us forward.
LadyNymeria, So many hugs. Don't feel like crying is an indication that you're not doing okay, though. Part of being okay is being able to cry when you need to.
**I hope that makes sense. Obviously none of this is okay, it all really sucks, learning to cope isn't a straight line but it all still moves us forward.
Thank you . I'm generally not a very emotional person (when it comes to real life anyway, I cry my eyes out over TV shows I love when something sad happens!) so I'm not used to crying so much.
Thanks everyone, we're not super close to this couple moving near-by. I'm more worried about the times the H's mom is in town. I used to work with her and we are super close.
This morning isn't starting off very well. As I was waiting to get my blood drawn for my hCG check a lady walked in for her glucose test. Then the phlebotomist (sp?) asked me if I was there for a pregnancy test. No...the sp.ab. on my lab order means we're tracking it down. She felt really bad and told me about her own m/c but this was not how I wanted to start my day.
I'm so sorry I always worry that someone will ask when I go in for my hcg. The last phlebotomist I had was probably 7 months pregnant and I expected her to say something but she didn't. I assumed they know that hcg can be tested for MANY reasons and not to ask- but some people are oblivious I guess.
Hope your hcg drops dramatically Nymeria. I know how shitty it is to wait and wait and wait for it to drop.
LadyNymeria, So many hugs. Don't feel like crying is an indication that you're not doing okay, though. Part of being okay is being able to cry when you need to.
**I hope that makes sense. Obviously none of this is okay, it all really sucks, learning to cope isn't a straight line but it all still moves us forward.
I avoid FB for this very reason. Does she know about your losses? Maybe she didn't know a good way to tell you. Did she post or did someone post for her? I know it won't help the hurt any, just hoping maybe she's living in ignorant bliss.
I avoid FB for this very reason. Does she know about your losses? Maybe she didn't know a good way to tell you. Did she post or did someone post for her? I know it won't help the hurt any, just hoping maybe she's living in ignorant bliss.
She knows about my first because we legit told our family on the same day that we were pregnant.
No idea if she knows about the second.
My mom called yesterday and left a voicemail that said she wanted to chat. I have no idea when my sister went into labor (because I know she delivered today) so I have no clue if mom was going to tell me or not.
Post by hydrangea1019 on Aug 27, 2015 17:46:31 GMT -5
I'm so sorry Bliss I would hope if your mom knew and was going to tell you she would have at least left a message saying to call her and that it's a bit urgent. Sending you lots of hugs and love!
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
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