Three days this week I have had pains in my lower abdomen on the right side (which I thought might be O pains, but my temps showed that I haven't O'd yet).
I have PCOS, but have never ha a cyst burst that I know of. Are those pains likely cysts bursting? For those that have had minor cysts burst, what does it feel like?
I don't know what is considered minor, but when my cyst ruptured I was in such horrible pain that I could barely walk.
Saw RE 1/11/17 HSG x 2 - 2nd revealed both tubes open and arcuate uterus Cycle #1-2 Femara 5mg + TI = Cancelled - poor response Cycle #3 - Femara 7.5mg and Dex 0.5mg - another poor response - waiting to see when I O
I have a question about RE appointments. Assuming we don't get pregnant this cycle, we'll have reached the 1 year mark and can go to an RE.
I've heard people mention CD3 bloodwork... is it a good idea to set up our first appointment on my next cycle's CD3 so this bloodwork can be taken then? Or will the first appointment just be a consultation and discussion of medical history and future plans?
Any other tips or recommendations for the first RE appointment?
I have a question about RE appointments. Assuming we don't get pregnant this cycle, we'll have reached the 1 year mark and can go to an RE.
I've heard people mention CD3 bloodwork... is it a good idea to set up our first appointment on my next cycle's CD3 so this bloodwork can be taken then? Or will the first appointment just be a consultation and discussion of medical history and future plans?
Any other tips or recommendations for the first RE appointment?
There are several threads about questions to ask at first appointments, so searching for those might be helpful. As for the scheduling, just ask when you call to make the appointment. Every doctor is different with when they want to do things. I saw the RE for RPL, but he had me do all the testing before my consult appointment so he would know where to start.
Every office is different, just call and ask what their procedure is.
ETA: Also, there's usually a wait to get in, so it would be near impossible to schedule your appointment on CD3 with any amount of certainty.
I have a question about RE appointments. Assuming we don't get pregnant this cycle, we'll have reached the 1 year mark and can go to an RE.
I've heard people mention CD3 bloodwork... is it a good idea to set up our first appointment on my next cycle's CD3 so this bloodwork can be taken then? Or will the first appointment just be a consultation and discussion of medical history and future plans?
Any other tips or recommendations for the first RE appointment?
If it lines up, sure. Chances are it will not. It will likely be a couple months if not more before you get in, making that iffy. And many offices only do those appointments at certain times on certain days, so you aren't going to get a whole lot of option on dates and times. Take what they give you.
Mine would have done mine that day if it was timed correctly, but it wasn't so I left with orders for all the tests. DH did his that day since his could be done at any time.
I have a question about RE appointments. Assuming we don't get pregnant this cycle, we'll have reached the 1 year mark and can go to an RE.
I've heard people mention CD3 bloodwork... is it a good idea to set up our first appointment on my next cycle's CD3 so this bloodwork can be taken then? Or will the first appointment just be a consultation and discussion of medical history and future plans?
Any other tips or recommendations for the first RE appointment?
There are several threads about questions to ask at first appointments, so searching for those might be helpful. As for the scheduling, just ask when you call to make the appointment. Every doctor is different with when they want to do things. I saw the RE for RPL, but he had me do all the testing before my consult appointment so he would know where to start.
Every office is different, just call and ask what their procedure is.
ETA: Also, there's usually a wait to get in, so it would be near impossible to schedule your appointment on CD3 with any amount of certainty.
Thanks, @led. I think I'm overthinking this because CD3 of my next cycle falls exactly around our one year of trying mark, so I was feeling concerned about scheduling the RE appointment in time. But you're right that there is often a wait to get in, so I probably shouldn't be too concerned about that.
I'll look for some of those old threads. I remember reading them a while ago but now that my first appointment is (most likely) coming up next month, I need to refresh my memory.
There are several threads about questions to ask at first appointments, so searching for those might be helpful. As for the scheduling, just ask when you call to make the appointment. Every doctor is different with when they want to do things. I saw the RE for RPL, but he had me do all the testing before my consult appointment so he would know where to start.
Every office is different, just call and ask what their procedure is.
ETA: Also, there's usually a wait to get in, so it would be near impossible to schedule your appointment on CD3 with any amount of certainty.
Thanks, @led. I think I'm overthinking this because CD3 of my next cycle falls exactly around our one year of trying mark, so I was feeling concerned about scheduling the RE appointment in time. But you're right that there is often a wait to get in, so I probably shouldn't be too concerned about that.
I'll look for some of those old threads. I remember reading them a while ago but now that my first appointment is (most likely) coming up next month, I need to refresh my memory.
I went in on CD14. It was a long consultation. The appointment is about so much more than CD3 bloodwork so don't get hung on that.
Take the appointment they give you. If the timing works out - great. If not, you'll get your testing done at the next available time. No big deal.
There are several threads about questions to ask at first appointments, so searching for those might be helpful. As for the scheduling, just ask when you call to make the appointment. Every doctor is different with when they want to do things. I saw the RE for RPL, but he had me do all the testing before my consult appointment so he would know where to start.
Every office is different, just call and ask what their procedure is.
ETA: Also, there's usually a wait to get in, so it would be near impossible to schedule your appointment on CD3 with any amount of certainty.
Thanks, @led. I think I'm overthinking this because CD3 of my next cycle falls exactly around our one year of trying mark, so I was feeling concerned about scheduling the RE appointment in time. But you're right that there is often a wait to get in, so I probably shouldn't be too concerned about that.
I'll look for some of those old threads. I remember reading them a while ago but now that my first appointment is (most likely) coming up next month, I need to refresh my memory.
It is extremely unlikely you will get in next month if you don't already have an appointment. Seriously. It's pretty common to wait at least a month, often more.
There are quite a few RE offices in my area, so I was making the (most likely incorrect) assumption that we wouldn't have to wait too long for an appointment. I guess all I can do is call when we hit the one year mark and take an appointment whenever one is available.
I don't have PCOS, but I have a long history of cysts so I wonder if the same rule would apply.
Interestingly enough, I have not had a large cyst since last October. I think my body was still adjusting to being off the pill. I just find it fascinating that on the pill, I constantly had cysts. Off the pill, none in almost a year.
So glad you haven't had cysts in awhile! That is weird, you'd think the pill would counteract cyst growth.I would think though, if you are predisposed to cysts, your RE would probably steer clear of Clomid in favor of Femara.
I was originally put on for severe cramps, but after the found that first cyst they recommended I stay on the pill as a preventative measure. It is completely baffling to me that I had atleast one, sometimes two larger sized cysts every year for 15 years, but now nothing since the beginning of October. Just the unexplainable pelvic pain.
Thanks for the advice, it will be good to keep in mind.
I have a question about RE appointments. Assuming we don't get pregnant this cycle, we'll have reached the 1 year mark and can go to an RE.
I've heard people mention CD3 bloodwork... is it a good idea to set up our first appointment on my next cycle's CD3 so this bloodwork can be taken then? Or will the first appointment just be a consultation and discussion of medical history and future plans?
Any other tips or recommendations for the first RE appointment?
If it works out to be on CD3 great, but it isn't necessary. There are a few tests that he can do that day regardless of the day and it is really easy (unless you live far away from their office) to pop in for blood work and an ultrasound when you need to.
My RE talked to us for about 20 minutes about our history, some chit chat to make us comfortable and looked at the tests my OBGYN did. The blood work was not on CD3 and I told him that I agreed with the diagnosis of PCOS from my OBGYN but that I felt the test results were suspect. He agreed and on that day he did an ultrasound (internal) and did the blood work he could do that day. I came back on CD3 for the rest of the blood work a 2 hour glucose test and another ultrasound before starting treatment.
OPK Question: I have the Clear Blue digital OPK. I unfortunately forgot to set the memory "m" button until about 11am on CD1, so I'm doing second urine of the day. Today is day 17 according to my digital read out, but it's really CD 18!! and the read out is just stuck on the 2nd of 3 squares since day 13. What gives? Is it because i'm not ovulating? On FF, I'm actually near the end of my fertile window. Given CM, it looks like I am probably ovulating as well. DH and I are just having fun, trying as much as we can. I'm regretting using the OPK now as well! BAH. Any others have OPKs NOT move up? Thanks ladies
OPK Question: I have the Clear Blue digital OPK. I unfortunately forgot to set the memory "m" button until about 11am on CD1, so I'm doing second urine of the day. Today is day 17 according to my digital read out, but it's really CD 18!! and the read out is just stuck on the 2nd of 3 squares since day 13. What gives? Is it because i'm not ovulating? On FF, I'm actually near the end of my fertile window. Given CM, it looks like I am probably ovulating as well. DH and I are just having fun, trying as much as we can. I'm regretting using the OPK now as well! BAH. Any others have OPKs NOT move up? Thanks ladies
I can't speak for the CBE OPKs, but FF only guesses when your fertile period might be based on previous cycles you've entered. If you don't have any previous cycles, it's just giving you a generic window. Either way, don't put much stock in it. Rely on actual information, the things you're inputting, and give it time to get to know you.
@led, Thank you for your response ! I've been using FF for 8 years! Last month was the first time in about 4-5 years in which I had a 45 day cycle instead of 30-33 day!
OPK Question: I have the Clear Blue digital OPK. I unfortunately forgot to set the memory "m" button until about 11am on CD1, so I'm doing second urine of the day. Today is day 17 according to my digital read out, but it's really CD 18!! and the read out is just stuck on the 2nd of 3 squares since day 13. What gives? Is it because i'm not ovulating? On FF, I'm actually near the end of my fertile window. Given CM, it looks like I am probably ovulating as well. DH and I are just having fun, trying as much as we can. I'm regretting using the OPK now as well! BAH. Any others have OPKs NOT move up? Thanks ladies
Hi babycaps, it sounds like you're using the CB Fertility Monitor, not the digital OPK. And yes, I have had this situation. Monitor looks for a surge in estrogen and then a surge in LH. The square will go up to the 2nd square when you get a surge in estrogen and then will go to 3 squares (peak) when you have an LH surge. Also, the monitor instructions say to use first morning urine, so unfortunately you didn't follow that guidance but I don't know how much that will impact your results.
Are you temping? That's really the only way to confirm ovulation. Otherwise, I would say to keep using the sticks.
Also, some unsolicited advice - the basic CB digitals are much easier OPK's to understand. They are either positive (smiley face) or not (open circle). The CB advanced digitals and the CB Fertility Monitor tend to lead to more confusion than they are worth.
ETA: I should also mention that the CB Fertility Monitor is programmed to give you up to 20 "high" readings if it does not detect a peak reading.
There are quite a few RE offices in my area, so I was making the (most likely incorrect) assumption that we wouldn't have to wait too long for an appointment. I guess all I can do is call when we hit the one year mark and take an appointment whenever one is available.
You can call now and ask about wait times and schedule an appointment if it is a long wait. Just cancel if you are pregnant.
There are quite a few RE offices in my area, so I was making the (most likely incorrect) assumption that we wouldn't have to wait too long for an appointment. I guess all I can do is call when we hit the one year mark and take an appointment whenever one is available.
We were offered a date the following week after calling. I ended up going three/four weeks after I called because we were in the middle of moving/closing on our houses. I think the waiting time varies greatly depending on your area. There are around 6 clinics in my town, so the waiting is not huge.
AWESOME....not!!! I forgot my OPK sticks at home. So now I can't OPK today??!?!? It's already bad enough that according to years of FF i'm out of my fertility window, I fell asleep last night so there was no sex and fertility window ended the day before, and my OPK hasn't shown a surge even though I've seen CM changes.....BAH!!! Rant/vent over!
AWESOME....not!!! I forgot my OPK sticks at home. So now I can't OPK today??!?!? It's already bad enough that according to years of FF i'm out of my fertility window, I fell asleep last night so there was no sex and fertility window ended the day before, and my OPK hasn't shown a surge even though I've seen CM changes.....BAH!!! Rant/vent over!
I know @led already mentioned this but don't rely on those stupid green boxes in FF. They are not a reliable indication of when you're in your FW.
AWESOME....not!!! I forgot my OPK sticks at home. So now I can't OPK today??!?!? It's already bad enough that according to years of FF i'm out of my fertility window, I fell asleep last night so there was no sex and fertility window ended the day before, and my OPK hasn't shown a surge even though I've seen CM changes.....BAH!!! Rant/vent over!
I know @led already mentioned this but don't rely on those stupid green boxes in FF. They are not a reliable indication of when you're in your FW.
If I trusted those silly green boxes I think I'd completely miss my FW at least 50% of the time.
AWESOME....not!!! I forgot my OPK sticks at home. So now I can't OPK today??!?!? It's already bad enough that according to years of FF i'm out of my fertility window, I fell asleep last night so there was no sex and fertility window ended the day before, and my OPK hasn't shown a surge even though I've seen CM changes.....BAH!!! Rant/vent over!
I know @led already mentioned this but don't rely on those stupid green boxes in FF. They are not a reliable indication of when you're in your FW.
Also, how many cycles have you charted since having your kid? After a pregnancy/loss cycles can change quite a bit. So comparing before/after a pregnancy/loss doesn't make much sense.
I trust my CM changes more then FF boxes, of course! I don't even know that I trust that OPK kit! I'm just venting more than anything. It feels like there are all these little things happening against our TTC efforts in the last months. I've only charted 5 cycles PP, didn't get my 1st PPP until 12.5mo PP! I'm really just complaining more than anything as I am really hoping to get KU this month otherwise we have to wait another LONG while before trying again because of my and his work! I know it's unrealistic to think I may get pregnant that easily. But one can dream! We are doing it EOD no matter what until either a BFP or my period!
I trust my CM changes more then FF boxes, of course! I don't even know that I trust that OPK kit! I'm just venting more than anything. It feels like there are all these little things happening against our TTC efforts in the last months. I've only charted 5 cycles PP, didn't get my 1st PPP until 12.5mo PP! I'm really just complaining more than anything as I am really hoping to get KU this month otherwise we have to wait another LONG while before trying again because of my and his work! I know it's unrealistic to think I may get pregnant that easily. But one can dream! We are doing it EOD no matter what until either a BFP or my period!
gabride2010 I just wanted to add, that if the pain doesn't go away, you should go to the doctor. I had cramping on my lower right side in April. I was convinced it was an ovarian cyst that ruptured so didn't think a lot of it. Eventually, my husband forced me to go to the ER and I did have some cysts, but on the other side. They did a CT scan and I had an appendix that was about to rupture and was leaking fluid, and had an emergency appendectomy. I am sure that's very unlikely that's what it is, but when you get a pain in the lower right area, just something to consider. I just assumed it was something related to TTC since I was extra aware/charting everything, not so!
This may be an incredibly dumb question, but here goes.
According to the Wondfo OPK instructions, I should use a plastic or glass container to collect urine. All I have are the paper dixie cups. Is that going to mess things up?
This may be an incredibly dumb question, but here goes.
According to the Wondfo OPK instructions, I should use a plastic or glass container to collect urine. All I have are the paper dixie cups. Is that going to mess things up?
No. In a pinch, you can even pee in to the wrapper.
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
This may be an incredibly dumb question, but here goes.
According to the Wondfo OPK instructions, I should use a plastic or glass container to collect urine. All I have are the paper dixie cups. Is that going to mess things up?
No. In a pinch, you can even pee in to the wrapper.
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
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