Somebody help me. We're getting desperate here...
Sept 9, 2015 22:07:15 GMT -5
Post by mrsdee1982 on Sept 9, 2015 22:07:15 GMT -5
I cross posted this on the breast feeding board already.
I need help. I am getting desperate.
Charlotte is 14w3d. She has always been a champion nurser. She latched within 15 minutes of being born and has been a perfect nurser since then.
On Tuesday, September 1st I went back to work. I am working 3 days a week right now (Tue-Thurs). She was fine Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. Then all of the sudden on Friday, she decided to reject my breast during one of her afternoon feedings. I figured she just wasn't hungry. Well, it got worse. Way worse.
She has now rejected my breast for pretty much all but her middle of the night feedings since Friday. She starts to scream and cry so hard it sounds like she is hyperventilating. Once she starts screaming like that, there is no calming her down and she goes on for 20-45 minutes at a time usually. She arches her back and trys to pull away from my body. This is happening multiple times a day. I cannot cut out the bottle completely because she has to be fed while I am back at work. I just don't know what to do. It has been 6 days now. How long will this last? What do I do? How do I keep myself from just saying "Ok, we're done. We're a bottle family now." ?
My DH works weird hours, so on the days that he works, he usually leaves for work around 8:30 in the am and doesn't get home until about 8:30-9 pm, which means I am on my own with her for the whole day/night.
Somebody please tell me what to do. Somebody please help me!
ETA:
She is not sick. I have not changed anything about my diet. When she gets a bottle, she gulps down 5-6 ounces at a time usually. I've tried nursing her while lying on my side. I've tried singing to her. I've tried in the rocking chair, standing up, sitting on the couch. I've tried nursing in a completely dark room.
I need help. I am getting desperate.
Charlotte is 14w3d. She has always been a champion nurser. She latched within 15 minutes of being born and has been a perfect nurser since then.
On Tuesday, September 1st I went back to work. I am working 3 days a week right now (Tue-Thurs). She was fine Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. Then all of the sudden on Friday, she decided to reject my breast during one of her afternoon feedings. I figured she just wasn't hungry. Well, it got worse. Way worse.
She has now rejected my breast for pretty much all but her middle of the night feedings since Friday. She starts to scream and cry so hard it sounds like she is hyperventilating. Once she starts screaming like that, there is no calming her down and she goes on for 20-45 minutes at a time usually. She arches her back and trys to pull away from my body. This is happening multiple times a day. I cannot cut out the bottle completely because she has to be fed while I am back at work. I just don't know what to do. It has been 6 days now. How long will this last? What do I do? How do I keep myself from just saying "Ok, we're done. We're a bottle family now." ?
My DH works weird hours, so on the days that he works, he usually leaves for work around 8:30 in the am and doesn't get home until about 8:30-9 pm, which means I am on my own with her for the whole day/night.
Somebody please tell me what to do. Somebody please help me!
ETA:
She is not sick. I have not changed anything about my diet. When she gets a bottle, she gulps down 5-6 ounces at a time usually. I've tried nursing her while lying on my side. I've tried singing to her. I've tried in the rocking chair, standing up, sitting on the couch. I've tried nursing in a completely dark room.