Vent and Question!

[luckypanda]

Like I posted in the twatwaffle thread, I took an OPK this morning and it was positive, took a second and it was negative. Called the RE at 10:30 (I took my first test at 10a) and was told the nurse would call me back...so I just called at 2p and the nurse basically said they wouldn't know if it was a true surge because I didn't come get my bloodwork done this morning (which they didn't TELL me to do). She said I could come in tomorrow and get an ultrasound to check for mature follicles and then they would give me a trigger shot and inseminate tomorrow afternoon.

So my question is, what did I do wrong? Should I just have ignored the second test? 
Am I SOL this month?
I feel so lost and my wife tells me I don't ask enough questions, but I don't know what questions TO ask!

[daisy818]

I have zero useful knowledge for you, but just wanted to give creepy internet hugs because I can only imagine how overwhelming it must be to have to jump right in with an RE and not be sure what questions to ask. I'm sorry your RE didn't give you clearer guidance this go round - good luck tomorrow though!

[sister13]

Hi luckypanda - I missed your earlier post and don't know all details, but the RE should be monitoring you, as OPKs are unreliable when it comes to fertility medications.

Monitoring via ultrasound should be used to determine that you are getting correct timing. I don't think you did anything wrong either - OPKs also may change results frequently due to concentration in the urine, or the surge may have passed, which DOES NOT NECESSARILY MEAN that you already ovulated.

Get in to see the RE tomorrow and they should monitor you via ultrasound, which may cost extra but it is the only way to get the timing for your trigger to be accurate.

[luckypanda]

Thank you for the creepies daisy818 I will take all of the internet hugs!

Thank you for the info sister13 I hope tomorrow will be more useful!