Symptoms have disappeared

[KirstenAlecia]

Im trying to stay positive. Im trying to rationalize that it doesn't necessarily mean anything but with my loss less than a year ago I just can't curb the anxiety. Also thats what happened last time. I knew it too. On the way to the Dr. I knew the news would not be good. 

My U/S is next Friday. My instincts are already telling me this isn't happening. 

Please someone who has a LO already tell me this is something you experienced and still ended up with a healthy PG.

[Deleted]

I'm no help, but I'm sending you all the positive vibes possible. Symptoms come and go. Hopefully that's all it is.

[k3am]

KirstenAlecia, symptoms come and go. With DD, other than being exhausted - most days but not all - I had no symptoms. None. And she is a happy, mostly-healthy, spunky kid.

FX that this is a sticky baby.

[ellesea]

I also didn't have many symptoms with my first pregnancy. It's hard to find reassurance when you feel and look normal. Up until my first midwife appointment at 10 weeks where I finally heard a heart beat I wondered if I was actually pregnant. I'm hoping that you're just in for a relatively symptom free pregnancy!!

[babycaps]

I had symptoms with DS and then at about 5 weeks they were G O N E GONE!!! It was odd, annoying, non-reassuring. And then 35 weeks later, right on time a day before my due date I had ALL the symptoms followed by labor and a healthy baby!
Symptoms are NOT necessary AND if you poll women, only 33% of women actually have strong symptoms like nausea and vomiting.

[kateisoptimistic]

So many hugs lady!! Symptoms can come and go, try and stay calm. Fx that everything is just fine

[KirstenAlecia]

I hate post loss PG brain. Its such an emotional roller coaster.

[kateisoptimistic]

Sept 18, 2015 16:32:33 GMT -5 KirstenAlecia said:

I hate post loss PG brain. Its such an emotional roller coaster.

It's the worst, I'm sorry you are struggling

[o2girl]

Awwww lady ((((((hugs)))))) I'm sorry you aren't feeling very secure at the moment. My PgAL brain was kicked into overdrive yesterday because my boob ache went away. My symptoms are incredibly transient. I pray that everything is ok with your little bean and that you get reassuring news next week. We both have u/s the same day. What time is yours?

[starfishy]

Sept 18, 2015 16:32:33 GMT -5 KirstenAlecia said:

I hate post loss PG brain. Its such an emotional roller coaster.

It really is. Some days my boobs hurt other days no. Some days I'm more nauseous than others, some days exhausted and some days not. I know they come go and with my DS they were gone at 10 weeks. Then I got leg cramps like a bitch for the next 30 weeks and that was it.
My loss I had NADA so I freak out every time something disappears but have to remember everything the girls have said here.

[CattyNattyRN]

I'm sorry you're feeling so anxious. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, lady!!

[mrssqueegy]

PGAL brain is the worst. I'm so sorry that you are having a rough day. Hugs!

[helloerrbody]

Lots of hugs! I am almost 8 weeks and I still don't have many noticeable symptoms. There were a few stronger ones around 4 weeks that went away. Heard the strong heartbeat 1.5 weeks ago. Two of my good friends who are far along never had symptoms. Try to stay positive!

[mrsw26]

Hugs. I had no symptoms with my loss either so I freak out when I have a good day. With DD I had hardly any either so I try to remind myself it can be totally normal. Pgal brain can suck it.

[grneyes]

(((Hugs))), PGAL brain can be so hard sometimes. Maybe you could ask to move your apt sooner so you don't have to wait so long?

[yorkielove83]

I'm not help as I'm feeling exactly how you feel. Staying busy and counting down to my apt are the only things keeping me sane. ((Hugs)) try to distract yourself. "Your past does not dictate your future."

[birch113]

I'm so sorry. It's totally normal for symptoms to come and go, but it certainly does not help pgal brain one bit. Hang in there!

[cbowl]

I'm so sorry! I am right there with you. My symptoms are coming and going much more frequently than they have with past pregnancies and it's making me nuts. Fingers crossed for a great u/s next week for you!

[singingsea]

With DS my symptoms disappeared on and off. Things like sore boobs, nausea and fatigue would come and go. Some days I felt completely normal. I hope this helps at all.

[KirstenAlecia]

Thank you ladies. My H is getting irritated at me. I am over thinking all this stuff and letting it take over.

My nausea returned with a vengeance last night. I was sort of happy and then realized that, it doesn't make me feel that much better......I had a MMC at what would have been 1 day short of 11 weeks and there had been no growth for like a month and my symptoms only disappeared like the week before........turns out there will be no reassurance for my PGAL brain. My anxiety is through the roof. I have fits of crying at least every other day.

7 more days.......I wish I could get the ultra sound moved up, but my OB has a crazy busy schedule. I don't want to be THAT patient either. Going in earlier isn't going to change the outcome........so I need to find a way to chill the heck out.

I need to focus on my foster kittens I think. They are at that fun age and I only have them for 2 more weeks.

[snoris]

I'm glad (??) your nausea came back... for reassurance of course. My symptoms are coming and going to & I just had confirmed baby is growing & has a healthy HB. Maybe that can help reassure you inconsistent symptoms and a progressing pregnancy can go together. GL with your PGAL brain. It sucks.