Man leads...women follows. Everyone wins.

[pismoduo]

You need new FB friends.

Honestly - if this were labelled something like "how to be a good spouse" or "how to treat the person you love" and didn't have "him" in every line, I'd be behind it.

[rablissful]

[mosdub]

Sept 27, 2015 17:18:52 GMT -5 pismoduo said:

You need new FB friends.

Honestly - if this were labelled something like "how to be a good spouse" or "how to treat the person you love" and didn't have "him" in every line, I'd be behind it.

Truth.  Those things should be mutual in a relationship.  Stahp trying to put people into roles.  If that works for you in your relationship then fine, but it certainly isn't something "every woman" needs to abide by to have a healthy relationship. 

This is so 1950s.  

I looked up the book.  My favorite review was this: 
"I am so glad I had time to read this book in between scrubbing the floor in my kitchen where I belong and making sandwiches for my husband. How could I not see women were inferior to men? This book is enlightening, probably the greatest book for wives. I doubt a better one will come along until at least twenty years from now in the 70's. Thank you, Ro Élori Cutno, for opening my eyes to God's truth. For man was made first, after all."

[rablissful]

Sept 27, 2015 17:23:59 GMT -5 mosdub said:

Sept 27, 2015 17:18:52 GMT -5 pismoduo said:

You need new FB friends.

Honestly - if this were labelled something like "how to be a good spouse" or "how to treat the person you love" and didn't have "him" in every line, I'd be behind it.

Truth.  Those things should be mutual in a relationship.  Stahp trying to put people into roles.  If that works for you in your relationship then fine, but it certainly isn't something "every woman" needs to abide by to have a healthy relationship. 

This is so 1950s.  

I looked up the book.  My favorite review was this: 
"I am so glad I had time to read this book in between scrubbing the floor in my kitchen where I belong and making sandwiches for my husband. How could I not see women were inferior to men? This book is enlightening, probably the greatest book for wives. I doubt a better one will come along until at least twenty years from now in the 70's. Thank you, Ro Élori Cutno, for opening my eyes to God's truth. For man was made first, after all."

[mosdub]

Sept 27, 2015 17:26:35 GMT -5 rablissful said:

Sept 27, 2015 17:23:59 GMT -5 mosdub said:

Truth.  Those things should be mutual in a relationship.  Stahp trying to put people into roles.  If that works for you in your relationship then fine, but it certainly isn't something "every woman" needs to abide by to have a healthy relationship. 

This is so 1950s.  

I looked up the book.  My favorite review was this: 
"I am so glad I had time to read this book in between scrubbing the floor in my kitchen where I belong and making sandwiches for my husband. How could I not see women were inferior to men? This book is enlightening, probably the greatest book for wives. I doubt a better one will come along until at least twenty years from now in the 70's. Thank you, Ro Élori Cutno, for opening my eyes to God's truth. For man was made first, after all."

HAHAHA
Well, she gave it 1 star so I assumed it was sarcasm font haha

[britta]

OMG.

I'm with pismoduo though. Generally good relationship advice when applied to both people.

[rablissful]

Sept 27, 2015 17:27:37 GMT -5 mosdub said:

Sept 27, 2015 17:26:35 GMT -5 rablissful said:

HAHAHA
Well, she gave it 1 star so I assumed it was sarcasm font haha

Ok. Good. It was touch and go there for a moment.

[penguin129]

Sept 27, 2015 17:28:54 GMT -5 britta said:

OMG.

I'm with pismoduo though. Generally good relationship advice when applied to both people.

Yep. Same thoughts.

[easilyunamused]

I hate the notion that men are the superior sex. It's insane to me what women follow behind this. Like pismoduo said, if it was a two way street it's just about respecting you and your realationship. Where is the mens accountability?

[ghostmonkey]

Sept 27, 2015 17:29:04 GMT -5 rablissful said:

Sept 27, 2015 17:27:37 GMT -5 mosdub said:

HAHAHA
Well, she gave it 1 star so I assumed it was sarcasm font haha

Ok. Good. It was touch and go there for a moment.

You should get your sarcasm meter serviced. 

[rablissful]

Sept 27, 2015 17:56:27 GMT -5 ghostmonkey said:

Sept 27, 2015 17:29:04 GMT -5 rablissful said:

Ok. Good. It was touch and go there for a moment.

You should get your sarcasm meter serviced. 

I assumed it was sarcasm, but without knowing how many stars and how crazy people can be you just never know.

[easilyunamused]

Sept 27, 2015 18:41:05 GMT -5 @wickedcandy said:

Wasn't there someone here or on TD that was a submissive wife ? or am I thinking CAL ?

Yes! Something about she has sex with her H no matter if she wants to or not. 7 days a week.

[thechickencoop]

Sept 27, 2015 17:18:52 GMT -5 pismoduo said:

You need new FB friends.

Honestly - if this were labelled something like "how to be a good spouse" or "how to treat the person you love" and didn't have "him" in every line, I'd be behind it.

Right? Does the next page have the opposite? Because, sure, these are things that any person in a relationship should do.

::sigh::

[thechickencoop]

<----- too lazy to google; when was this written?

ETA nevermind; I guess it has to be fairly recent to havent a texting line-item.

[ohinvrtedworld]

It's crazy how this mindset is totally still around. MH was going to a church before we got married that requires you to live in its inner city neighborhood to belong (I know, kinda cult-ish IMO) and because I wasn't into it, they said that he's the man and should make the decision without my input.

MH couldn't handle that and rebutted that I'm an intelligent person and that he deeply respects my reasons and wishes to live somewhere that has less crime and difficulties. They tried to make him feel crazy for actually listening to me and taking my needs into consideration!

To that Felicia, we said good-bye and good riddance.

[samanthasays]

Ok serious question. #11 says not to put any person before him, and the bottom says it applies to all men. What if there is more than one man in the room with me? Who do I serve??? HELP PLEASE! I need to know how to be a good woman

[fuzzylogic]

But what do I have if I don't laugh at H's mistakes?

Nothing. That's what I would have.

[samanthasays]

Sept 28, 2015 17:40:45 GMT -5 @pineappleoranges said:

Sept 28, 2015 14:23:59 GMT -5 samanthasays said:

Ok serious question. #11 says not to put any person before him, and the bottom says it applies to all men. What if there is more than one man in the room with me? Who do I serve??? HELP PLEASE! I need to know how to be a good woman

Husband
Then father
Then other male relatives
Family male friends
Strangers

This is a legit answer :-(

Of course a male stranger should have priority over my mother. She is missing 4 very important inches. I am 100% convinced all fundamentalist men have itty bitty teeny tiny penises. This bull shit is just their pathetic attempt to compensate, like a yellow hummer, but more dangerous to humanity.