readyornot, you should see one by yourself. It's a lot to process on your own with your normally busy life. You need dedicated space and time to unpack your emotions and handle them.
absolutely this. Go talk with a counselor. No need to hide that from your H. Just let him know that you're struggling and can't figure it out on your own. His response to that will maybe give you a little insight as well.
Post by bookwormama on Oct 23, 2015 12:40:46 GMT -5
cadien holding and pumping is hard as fuck! I BF 3 kids and ain't got time for that shit. I am sorry you had such a rough time and so many people were judgy ass holes. Everyone has totally different experiences sometimes it would be better to shut the mouth and give hugs
I hate spending time with my mom because she is so fucking annoying now that she is sick.
So there you have it.
I want you to know that you are not the only person who feels this way about their sick parent.
I don't want to overstep any bounds and I don't really know you, but I know the sick parent shit is some really hard and many layered complicated emotional mind fuck.
I pretty legitimately peed my pants during my 2nd ever personal training session this week. It was like 2.5 minutes in, as I was jump-roping to warm up. I had no idea WTF to do so I just....kept going (not peeing...working out).
i didn't have to go the bathroom, I thought. Fucking pelvic floor where are you?
I got home and DS said "I won't hug you. You smell like a stinky dog". ughhh
I don't feel like talk therapy did shit for me when I used to go. I hated it.
Maybe I just didn't have very good therapists but... I think the only thing I got out of it was learning to do breathing exercises. That was handled in one session.
another +1 for not finding a good therapist yet. H and I went to one sorta recently for a while....like 6 months or so. It was just a big time/financial commitment for what felt like very little progress.
I have a hard time with it because I reeeeally do think it's necessary and would greatly benefit most people, myself included, but it's long/hard work and I'm not patient. I want a quick fix, and therapy obviously is not that. I need to change my attitude before getting more out of it
Yep. Me too. Although I am pretty good about not holding stuff in & being open & honest to a fault about whats bothering me. But I could definitely use some help on the delivery. My words & thoughts get jumbled & I end up spouting off about random events that just don't make sense in the end.
Post by helenahhandbasket on Oct 23, 2015 13:18:36 GMT -5
@aditi I don't think there's anything remotely flameful in your post.
Why do you think you are headed towards addiction? It sounds like you are using your pain medication responsibly. I know it must suck to have to be on medication like that daily, but I can't see why you would deserve flames here.
I didn't actually know about the scoliosis- so I'm sorry to hear that your doc thinks you might have to be in a wheelchair. That sounds scary.
I don't feel like talk therapy did shit for me when I used to go. I hated it.
Maybe I just didn't have very good therapists but... I think the only thing I got out of it was learning to do breathing exercises. That was handled in one session.
I would say that you might need a new therapist.
I mean, this is years back... so it's been awhile and I haven't looked into it since because it just didn't leave a very positive feeling with me. It's totally possible that the therapists were just shitty, but I'm not sure how. The first one didn't even really try, so I'm confident she wasnt great...the second one was much more engaging and I did like her
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