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[bootsorhearts]

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Hi!

[therealbug]

So much cuteness!

You found me I just got back from my post-op follow-up. My polyp turned out to be a fibroid. It was right above my cervix so maybe that was why it was causing so many issues? Who knows. The doctor did let me know that I maybe do have a little bit of a septum (after saying he saw nothing) but he's not worried because I had a normal vaginal delivery. WTF! He then went on to say "unless you have a history of miscarriages, I would not worry about it." Way to look at your patient's history doc! He said he still did not think it was an issue but recommended having an RE make the call if we decide to do DE IVF.

Here's some kitties for you:

[bootsorhearts]

Well jeez that's nice of him. Way to rub salt in the wound. I hope you are cleared to TTC soon! Are you looking at donor eggs or donor embryos? We are thinking maybe donor embryos because it doesn't seem fair to be biologically related to DH but not me. I was looking at sites that let you look at profiles of embryos up for adoption, it's pretty neat.

[therealbug]

Jan 30, 2015 19:33:07 GMT -5 vigorousbabymama said:

::butting in::

therealbug - you seriously have experiences with doctors that are beyond belief. The things they say to you. Honestly, what in the actual fuck?

I know! I really need to find a new doc. Too bad that his office staff an his u/s tech are awesome. 

[therealbug]

Jan 30, 2015 19:37:15 GMT -5 bootsorhearts said:

Well jeez that's nice of him. Way to rub salt in the wound. I hope you are cleared to TTC soon! Are you looking at donor eggs or donor embryos? We are thinking maybe donor embryos because it doesn't seem fair to be biologically related to DH but not me. I was looking at sites that let you look at profiles of embryos up for adoption, it's pretty neat.

That is so exciting! What's the link to the site that you are looking at? 

I'm leaning towards donor embryos. Since it falls under the adoption umbrella we could get some of our adoption costs reimbursed from Mr. Bug's company.  I'm also waiting to see what benefits I get from my company since our current insurance is not great.

We need to just buck up and schedule an appointment with an RE and see what our options are. Luckily, we have  a couple members who live in my area and are seeing a great RE. At least I will have one doctor that's not an asshat. 

[bootsorhearts]

Jan 30, 2015 20:27:37 GMT -5 therealbug said:

Jan 30, 2015 19:37:15 GMT -5 bootsorhearts said:

Well jeez that's nice of him. Way to rub salt in the wound. I hope you are cleared to TTC soon! Are you looking at donor eggs or donor embryos? We are thinking maybe donor embryos because it doesn't seem fair to be biologically related to DH but not me. I was looking at sites that let you look at profiles of embryos up for adoption, it's pretty neat.

That is so exciting! What's the link to the site that you are looking at? 

I'm leaning towards donor embryos. Since it falls under the adoption umbrella we could get some of our adoption costs reimbursed from Mr. Bug's company.  I'm also waiting to see what benefits I get from my company since our current insurance is not great.

We need to just buck up and schedule an appointment with an RE and see what our options are. Luckily, we have  a couple members who live in my area and are seeing a great RE. At least I will have one doctor that's not an asshat. 

www.embryosalive.com/situations.htm

That's cool that it would be considered adoption and you could have some costs covered! We have an adoption credit where I work too, I will see if that's included! Geez that makes the whole thing super affordable if so right? Not that that's the only consideration but it's a nice perk.