You guys make me feel so loved. Thank you for checking in on me. So much had been going on. Will set the toddler up with some cartoons then come update, if he acts right.
"I can't fathom a reason that you'd lie. But people also inject cement and superglue in their asses, so sometimes I'm just at a loss about people's decision-making abilities."-rocksforludo
Lasso, trigger warning. But I'll get to that in my next post so you can skip if you want.
Hubby was out of town for a work conference. His mom is amazing and I was texting her, sad that I didn't think far enough ahead to invite her up. She convinced me to go to her. Which is a 5hr car drive with a toddler and a baby. But she was convincing so away we went. We got there Monday and got home last night. She doesn't have wifi
My brother and his wife told us 2 weeks ago that they were expecting, she was due late august. Then either she wasn't as pregnant as they thought, or baby stopped growing at 4weeks. She just miscarried. My brother is devastated. I didn't know this but they had been trying for a year. I may not be close to her, but you don't wish this on anyone.
When I called my mom to talk about my brother and his wife, she told me my cousins wife had ruptured an eardrum in Mexico, and it got infected. He infection spread to the lining of her brain and the bones of her skull. It isn't responding to treatment.
I know this is to be expected because my grandma is 93, but she has a DNR. I didn't know though. And because she is being moved into a home everyone is going through her things like she had died. I hate that part.
We (the kids, hubby and myself) are doing really good in comparison. I survived drive with both kids. And learned that driving 5hrs hungover really sucks. I like to learn things the hard way apparently.
"I can't fathom a reason that you'd lie. But people also inject cement and superglue in their asses, so sometimes I'm just at a loss about people's decision-making abilities."-rocksforludo
Post by daometjing on Jan 30, 2015 17:28:16 GMT -5
Hugs to you and your family. That is so much for everyone to be going through. I'm glad you are feeling a bit better, and that MIL was there for you while your husband was away.
Staying with MIL was awesome. She put DS down every night, her place is totally set up for kids, and she lets them touch everything. Plus she snuggled DS so I only had to worry about Squeaker during the night. I was able to sleep and rest.
It was a great visit. Am very thankful that I have awesome ILs
Oh my gosh, you poor thing. I'm so sorry you have all that happening to you all at once. I'm glad you checked in, and that your MIL provided you with some much-needed support. Big hugs to you.
I know this is to be expected because my grandma is 93, but she has a DNR. I didn't know though. And because she is being moved into a home everyone is going through her things like she had died. I hate that part.
We just went through this moving into assisted living. It was awful. So awful. Lots of personalities are showing themselves too. Huge hugs.
I know this is to be expected because my grandma is 93, but she has a DNR. I didn't know though. And because she is being moved into a home everyone is going through her things like she had died. I hate that part.
We just went through this moving into assisted living. It was awful. So awful. Lots of personalities are showing themselves too. Huge hugs.
That is rough. My grandma had dementia and it's gotten really, really bad lately. Partly becSue she wasn't eating. Thankfully in a home she will have care and consistent meals. And she will be clean. She had been having hygiene issues too. My mom was saying she is quite relieved. We used to go for breakfast every Sunday morning and were scared each week of finding her dead because she had fallen or just not been eating.
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