PTSD (or the like...) - who has it?
Jan 30, 2015 17:02:03 GMT -5
Post by manada on Jan 30, 2015 17:02:03 GMT -5
This is my first post on this board since I defected from TB, though I lurk there sometimes...
Does anyone want to talk about/vent/rant about the trauma they're carrying around and how it impacts their lives? I really liked the article from Still Standing about PTSD in the case of pregnancy loss, and while I am not personally rushing out for a diagnosis, I do spend a decent amount of time carrying around my trauma like a huge pink elephant on my back, and I get the sense from the loss moms that I've met locally, that I am certainly not the only one....
I have found that baby loss groups are good for talking about grief, loss, moving on to CAL, but I don't know if there's many places for people like us to discuss how trauma sits with us, and how we are dealing. I think that could be a good conversation..... Anyone else want to talk? (Am happy to move to an offline thread for privacy too if preferred)
We are 7 months out from losing our twins at 21 weeks. We lost them to pprom, IC, and a collection of other unlucky factors but it happened very quickly (we went from everything was looking up to losing them within 24 hours), so I am carrying not just grief but alot of trauma. I am back at work mostly full-time now, but my stress tolerance is way down, my anxiety is way up, and I have a hair trigger for physical stuff, anything that brings me back to a memory of pregnancy is a surefire breakdown for me. It sucks. I found a really great therapist who I see weekly, so I have some hope that things will get better slowly, but yeah -- it's alot to carry around in addition to being sad and missing our babies and dreams. It's also hard to make people understand that it's a really normal reaction to a horrible experience.... but yeah, all around it just sucks.
Does anyone want to talk about/vent/rant about the trauma they're carrying around and how it impacts their lives? I really liked the article from Still Standing about PTSD in the case of pregnancy loss, and while I am not personally rushing out for a diagnosis, I do spend a decent amount of time carrying around my trauma like a huge pink elephant on my back, and I get the sense from the loss moms that I've met locally, that I am certainly not the only one....
I have found that baby loss groups are good for talking about grief, loss, moving on to CAL, but I don't know if there's many places for people like us to discuss how trauma sits with us, and how we are dealing. I think that could be a good conversation..... Anyone else want to talk? (Am happy to move to an offline thread for privacy too if preferred)
We are 7 months out from losing our twins at 21 weeks. We lost them to pprom, IC, and a collection of other unlucky factors but it happened very quickly (we went from everything was looking up to losing them within 24 hours), so I am carrying not just grief but alot of trauma. I am back at work mostly full-time now, but my stress tolerance is way down, my anxiety is way up, and I have a hair trigger for physical stuff, anything that brings me back to a memory of pregnancy is a surefire breakdown for me. It sucks. I found a really great therapist who I see weekly, so I have some hope that things will get better slowly, but yeah -- it's alot to carry around in addition to being sad and missing our babies and dreams. It's also hard to make people understand that it's a really normal reaction to a horrible experience.... but yeah, all around it just sucks.