We are taking advantage of 70° In Texas today and are at the park! I still feel so sick and threw up last night at the grocery store, but I'm trying to take advantage before it gets really cold! Also, my DS missed so much outdoor time when he had his cast on, so it is fun to see him get to run around and play.
I'm still having pretty bad cramps. I'm going to wait for my appt on Thursday to Ask though. I want to respond to others but will do it later, hard to tag when I'm on mobile!
That's great news about the work contract titania, and nice timing with the holidays and before the end of the year.
virginiaorjohn, I agree with some of the others that it's hard to know how you will fill out through the pregnancy so I'd return for a smaller size. I actually have a pair of maternity jeans that were too big thinking I would fit into them later but they never right.
Kevinmac, if it makes you feel any better I typically go to bed around 8:30pm these days. Sleep is at the top of my priority list and as nitecheese mentioned my DH also gets full access to all of the shows I never want to watch (there is a long list) so I don't feel quite so bad.
I'm currently trying to decide what I want to eat for my second breakfast (first was peanut butter and jelly on toast).
Post by origamimommy on Dec 8, 2015 12:40:56 GMT -5
Andrea, what a jerk--hope you find an awesome new doctor.
shoogars, I know the feeling! We have had TTC, so I thought I would never ever ever have disappointment about the sex of my baby. But with DS, we were originally told he was a girl. And I grew to love that girl, and when we found out he was a boy, I freaked out. I sobbed, and yelled at the ultrasound tech and generally had a major fucking freakout. It truly was mourning for the daughter I thought I was having. Within a day or two, I was thrilled to be expecting a boy, and obviously, he is the light of my life now, but man it is hard when you think one thing and find out another. That's why I won't even speculate on what I think this baby is. You know already that you will love her no matter what, but I understand and can relate that you need that mourning process (however short it may be) before you can get there. Hugs, lady!
Also, I wanted to thank everyone for your support yesterday. I am feeling better today, and I know change is hard, so I am just trying to focus on the positive. I'm thinking of pulling DS from full time daycare during maternity leave to just go part time, but then my friends that have two say it is much better to keep them full time because they get to keep their routine. I guess I have time to think about it and decide. In any case, thank you all.
origamimommy, is it possible to keep him full time and have a special day during the week where he gets a stay home day or pick him up early (maybe a set day each week so he knows when to expect it)? I'm inclined to agree that with all of the changes going on with a new baby it's really good to try to keep a familiar routine.
I'm glad you are feeling better today, pregnancy emotions are hard enough without having to think about so many other new changes!
Post by origamimommy on Dec 8, 2015 13:12:18 GMT -5
csat, that's what was recommended. Go later than normal, pick up earlier, etc. and I am definitely considering it. I am sure once the baby comes it will be easier to want to keep him in daycare full time, knowing that it will be really boring for him at home and we won't get to do much, but now I just keep thinking about how much I miss him. We will also have days, I'm sure, when we're doing something fun and I would keep him home for that. I mean, he'll be 4 so I hope he'll be a great big helper Of course only time will tell.
virginiaorjohn , I agree with Dreaming and some of the others. We'll be in warmer weather clothing (depending on where you live, I guess) by the time we're big and huge. I barely got into some of my larger clothing during my last pregnancy and wish I'd just bought as I needed it vs. all in the first tri.
shoogars , I'm sorry you're having mixed feelings. I can totally, totally understand that. If we have another boy, I'll obviously be happy and love him to pieces, but I'll feel sad to miss out on the relationship mamas have with their daughters, because this is most definitely our last baby.
It's been kind of a crazy day here! We booked our trip to the Dominican Republic last week and then realized my passport has my maiden name on it and DH's is expired... Oops. About 6 weeks before our trip, so major cram to get them ready in time!
It's gorgeous and in the mid-50s here, so when DS wakes up from his nap, we're going for a walk no matter what craziness pops up with work. And then we're coming back, grilling this giant New York Strip I just bought, roasting potatoes and asparagus and having a little feast for dinner.
soultrane , yay for no nausea! I hope it stays away!
virginiaorjohn I'd also vote to return the larger pair, you may not need them!
shoogars YAY For another girl! I totally understand the disappointment though. I was told a "guess at 16 weeks that they were "90% sure" DS was a girl. I didn't go paint his room pink or anything (we didn't even tell anyone), but of course I had my heart set on girl. When they showed us the penis in the ultrasound and said it was a boy, I was shocked. It took me a few days to get over it, but then I was of course excited and can't imagine our life any other way. Don't feel bad if it takes you a few days to be okay with it! Yay for a health baby, and sisters will be so fun, also!
@nitcheese yay for a great appointment!!
titania That is wonderful news! I'm sure it's extra peace of mind and security with baby on the way, perfect timing!
andrea I'm so sorry about your doctor, that's crazy!!
origamimommy, Do you pay the same price regardless? Maybe you could keep him full time for the first week or two, then try out having some stay home with you so you can get some extra time with him during the day during that time, as well? I know friends who have done both! Glad today is a better day for you!
Regarding Shutterfly, I do a big "family yearbook" every year, I need to start mine, but there's no way it'll be done in time to get that coupon. Usually they have another great coupon around New Years Eve.
Post by origamimommy on Dec 8, 2015 13:44:37 GMT -5
txmommy14, I think it would be slightly cheaper to do part time, but nothing that would make an actual difference (like maybe $20 a week).
I have a stupid vent. We got pictures done on Sunday and the galleries were guaranteed within 48 hours. It has been 52 hours and no pictures yet, not even any sneak peeks on her site. Do I say something yet or wait? I am slightly annoyed and getting really impatient.
Whew, I'm wiped out. Last night we have parent-teacher conferences until 7:30. It was physically tiring, but it is also mentally exhausting to be "on" non-stop for 3 hours. I have kids coming this afternoon for extra help and I really wish I didn't. We did Hour of Code this week in school. It is really fun and it's amazing how quickly kids pick it up! Students really aren't exposed to coding and computer science as much as they should be. If anyone has kids on the older side (around 6 and up I'd say) you should check it out! The coding games are on code.org/learn. Fun for adults too if you've never tried out coding. Starting with the Star Wars game, for example, shows how really easy it is to get started understanding how it works. And that is my tech evangelizing for today!
vivela, do you know of any way to learn SQL? You may not, but your post made me wonder!
Obviously, I am doing ALL the work today. Halfway checked out with so much still to do, but oh well. I can't get motivated.
Do you want to learn SQL for yourself, or a kid? If it's for you, my husband uses SQL at work and first learned it on his own for the interview. A friend at Facebook put us on to the free tutorials he used--I can ask for the link if you like?
txmommy14, I think it would be slightly cheaper to do part time, but nothing that would make an actual difference (like maybe $20 a week).
I have a stupid vent. We got pictures done on Sunday and the galleries were guaranteed within 48 hours. It has been 52 hours and no pictures yet, not even any sneak peeks on her site. Do I say something yet or wait? I am slightly annoyed and getting really impatient.
If you can check in low key just to check they're in the works, go for it. If you're frustrated enough you think you might regret what/how you say to them, I'd hold off. You have so much stressful stuff going on right now, that if I were in your place I would shield myself from opportunities for extra frustration. Four hours doesn't seem like a biggie, unless you're up against a deadline.
Post by origamimommy on Dec 8, 2015 14:39:15 GMT -5
ArgyleEnigma for myself!! I would love those links!
And I don't think I'd be rude to her, but I'm going to wait. I just want them, I'm not annoyed necessarily at her just at waiting. I'm sure they'll come soon enough
So, just got off the phone with a geneticist. My blood work came back showing I'm a carrier for cystic fibrosis. Now DH will get checked to see if he is or not. I'm afraid to google cystic fibrosis to find out about it. I know nothing. I'm trying to remind myself that DH may not be a carrier so we may not have to worry.
Post by frecklesnbrains on Dec 8, 2015 15:03:49 GMT -5
GOmamab15, I'm sorry - that's stressful. You're correct though: there is no need to worry unless your husband is a carrier too.
If you like numbers then maybe these stats will help reassure you: if your husband is Caucasian the risk of being a carrier is about 1 in 30 (it's lower than that in other ethnic groups). Even if he is a carrier then the chance of baby being affected is 1 in 4. Therefore, overall the chance of you as a carrier having an affected child is less than 1% (or in other words, there is a greater than 99% chance of NOT having an affected child).
This morning went well. DD slept til 7 again which was great and she took a decent nap. We got out of the house and had a nice lunch. This afternoon I'm feeling lazy! I cleaned DDs room but I feel like I cleaned the whole house. It was really just books and clothes.
Andrea that's terrible! Hopefully you can find a practice you like and hope you feel better soon!
vivela, do you know of any way to learn SQL? You may not, but your post made me wonder!
Obviously, I am doing ALL the work today. Halfway checked out with so much still to do, but oh well. I can't get motivated.
I don't, I'm afraid. I'm really just a beginner at languages like Java, Python, and other languages that are basic starting points for the kids. I'm definitely no expert! The nice thing about the hour of code website is that you by no means have to really understand it yourself to use it for lessons. I pretty much give them the very basics and let them loose. The less help you give them, the better off they are, and sometimes my help just hinders them from getting it faster on their own.
ArgyleEnigma for myself!! I would love those links!
And I don't think I'd be rude to her, but I'm going to wait. I just want them, I'm not annoyed necessarily at her just at waiting. I'm sure they'll come soon enough
vivela, do you know of any way to learn SQL? You may not, but your post made me wonder!
Obviously, I am doing ALL the work today. Halfway checked out with so much still to do, but oh well. I can't get motivated.
I don't, I'm afraid. I'm really just a beginner at languages like Java, Python, and other languages that are basic starting points for the kids. I'm definitely no expert! The nice thing about the hour of code website is that you by no means have to really understand it yourself to use it for lessons. I pretty much give them the very basics and let them loose. The less help you give them, the better off they are, and sometimes my help just hinders them from getting it faster on their own.
Basic intro and then exploration is the original way to learn coding! Classic!
Post by ArgyleEnigma on Dec 8, 2015 16:14:30 GMT -5
Insurance company just called me, put me on hold, and routed me through 3 people to tell me that no action is needed from me. Thanks guys, I was on the edge of my seat.
Hugs to you, GOmamab15. We had genetic testing done on both myself and DH after our last loss and those weeks absolutely drug by. Fingers crossed your DH is not a carrier, too. Love the #s, frecklesnbrains! Those are very reassuring statistics.
I'm sitting at the car wash place right now. It's amazing how disgusting your car can get after months of toddler crumbs building up. Thankfully DS is being sweet for now and watching an iPad video in the chair next to me. We tried to get an oil change but there was a three hour wait...no thank you!!
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