Goodbye-miscarriage

[growingbelly051515]

I haven't posted a lot, just an intro and replied to people, but I felt I would let you all know. About a month ago I shared the exciting news that we were expecting our second child. Because I shared our joy with everyone, I feel it's right to share our sorrow. At 12 weeks (Tuesday evening) my husband took me into the ER due to tons of pain and we found out we had lost our baby and I had to have a D&C yesterday. We are really struggling with a lot of grief right now and are incredibly heartbroken, but find comfort in knowing our baby is is in Heaven.

My husband has been my amazing rock and my 8 month old son is one of the only ones who can put a smile on my face.

I want to wish you all a happy and smooth pregnancy these next few months and if you could spare any thoughts or prayers for my family, I would greatly appreciate it.

This picture is of our sweet baby at 10+3 and I just added some beautiful words I found.

[mladerri]

I'm very sorry for your loss and hope you can take the weekend to relax. Hoping you are surrounded by family and love this holiday and thinking many good thoughts for you b

[athn64]

I am so very sorry for your loss

[soultrane]

I'm so sorry for your loss and wish you well in the coming days, weeks and months as you work through your grief. Several of us on this board found a tremendous amount of support on the Loss after Living Children board earlier this year so know that there is a great group of women on these boards who are here to offer you support when you're ready and if you feel it will help. So sorry for your loss and please take care of yourself.

[mymilkshake]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[babyzebra]

I'm so very sorry to hear this. A couple of us posted on the Loss After Living Children board (sub-board of parenting after a loss), and I personally found that small community to be very helpful. I would encourage you to check it out when you're ready. Please take care of yourself in this extremely difficult time. ((Hugs))

ETA soultrane and I had the same idea.

[amiet79]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[GOmamab15]

I'm very sorry for your loss. hugs.

[frecklesnbrains]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Your post is beautiful. May you continue to find strength and healing.

[microworm]

I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. Beautiful picture and words.

[cattuccino]

I am so very sorry for your loss. I am so glad to read your husband being a good support and you're still able to smile with your son.
Be kind to yourself, sending you and your family love and thoughts

[virginiaorjohn]

I am so very sorry for your loss. I am praying and thinking of you and your sweet family today. Grief presents itself in so many ways, so do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself. I am sending you all of the Internet hugs today.

[nymama917]

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm wishing your family lots of strength and love to help you get through this.

[origamimommy]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[Kevinmac]

I am so sorry for your loss. Do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself.

[manybellsdown]

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

[Andrea]

Huge hugs. I am so sorry for this devastating news.

[pbandj714]

I'm so sorry for your loss. The picture you made is beautiful. Sending hugs to you and your family as you navigate this difficult time.

[sandandsea]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[nitecheese]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[jjh1119]

I am so so sorry for your loss.

[titania]

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your family.

[txmommy14]

I'm so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

[westisleflower]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[bgkc4]

Sorry for your loss and will be praying for your peace and strength during this difficult time.

[vivela]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts. Take care of yourself.

[ArgyleEnigma]

I'm so sorry. I will keep you and your family in my heart.

[littleducky]

I am very sorry for your loss. If/when you are ready, the Conceiving After a Loss board is a really supportive community. Please be kind to yourself during this difficult time.

[kittenzilla]

I'm so so sorry for your loss.

[teggy20]

I am so, so very sorry for your loss. Please take gentle care of yourself in the days to come. I ditto what babyzebra and soultrane said about the Loss After Living Children board; they're an amazing group of women over there. I found a lot of comfort after my last MC. Hugs to you.