Vent- Non PG Related
Jan 31, 2015 17:01:46 GMT -5
Post by Mom2Ms on Jan 31, 2015 17:01:46 GMT -5
Ugh. I have complained about the "sperm donor" (AKA DD's biological father) before, but he's really went to a whole new level. We were in court in September regarding child custody and visitation and his numerous contempt of court orders. At the end of the day, it was a very stressful several months. It only increased his court ordered visitation from 17% to 23%. He hired this complete shitbag, dirty attorney. At the time of the last court hearing, he asked the court for me to pay his attorney's fees. He also asked that I provide all the transportation. After a review of our incomes and expenses, the court DENIED his requests. The court said that he had enough money to pay for both of those.
Fast forward. He's now initiating more proceedings regarding child support. He wants his child support lowered. Or at least that is what I think he wants. I wasn't served properly. I wasn't served with the correct documents. All I got from him was a print out of his income and expenses and that wasn't even filled out properly. In child support, he pays $200 a month. He has NEVER paid a single red cent towards medical/dental insurance premiums, let alone any of those doctor bills. He has not contributed a red cent beyond what the garnishment is. I send over clothing so that he doesn't have to buy any during the visitations. I send over personal products, hairbrushes, soap, ect. Even on his visitation days, I make sure she has food. He quit his full time job where he made "decent" money to work part time and make barley minimum wage as a "personal trainer." Seriously dude? Are you kidding me? He lives off his wife who makes 3 times as much money as he does. The kicker is, he knows that I am out on bed rest and NOT WORKING and haven't been since November. Little does he know, the fact that my income has diminished and his has raised (slightly) since the last court ordered child support will not bode well with the courts. He will likely pay more. Not to mention that Im having another baby, which makes my expenses much different now. It's laughable that he is so dumb, but at the same time, it is so incredibly insulting. My DH (DD's step dad) pay for everything. And frankly I don't mind. I don't care, I have her 77% of the time. But how about you get off your lazy ass and start working full time, which you have the ability to do, like a grown ass adult.
Sorry. I just needed to rant. Get that off my chest. Looking for support. Positive thoughts and prayers requested.
Fast forward. He's now initiating more proceedings regarding child support. He wants his child support lowered. Or at least that is what I think he wants. I wasn't served properly. I wasn't served with the correct documents. All I got from him was a print out of his income and expenses and that wasn't even filled out properly. In child support, he pays $200 a month. He has NEVER paid a single red cent towards medical/dental insurance premiums, let alone any of those doctor bills. He has not contributed a red cent beyond what the garnishment is. I send over clothing so that he doesn't have to buy any during the visitations. I send over personal products, hairbrushes, soap, ect. Even on his visitation days, I make sure she has food. He quit his full time job where he made "decent" money to work part time and make barley minimum wage as a "personal trainer." Seriously dude? Are you kidding me? He lives off his wife who makes 3 times as much money as he does. The kicker is, he knows that I am out on bed rest and NOT WORKING and haven't been since November. Little does he know, the fact that my income has diminished and his has raised (slightly) since the last court ordered child support will not bode well with the courts. He will likely pay more. Not to mention that Im having another baby, which makes my expenses much different now. It's laughable that he is so dumb, but at the same time, it is so incredibly insulting. My DH (DD's step dad) pay for everything. And frankly I don't mind. I don't care, I have her 77% of the time. But how about you get off your lazy ass and start working full time, which you have the ability to do, like a grown ass adult.
Sorry. I just needed to rant. Get that off my chest. Looking for support. Positive thoughts and prayers requested.
