T&P for a friend - possible trigger

[gilder40]

Hey ladies. I just got a text from my little one's Godmother. A fellow bridesmaid in her wedding had to have an emergency delivery yesterday morning due to a ruptured placenta (I think). The mom is okay physically, but her little boy didn't make it. She was about 33-34 weeks along and due in early February.

I'm not sure of all the details, but the mom is having an extremely difficult time, as expected. Paige (my friend) is really struggling with how to help her friend. She's not sure what to do or say, so prayers and good thoughts for all involved would be appreciated. I've actually gotten to be friends with the mom as well...we talked a lot about pregnancy and parenting stuff. It's just a sucky, crappy situation no matter how you spin it.

[wegrowsheep]

Ohh,my heart hurts for her! Many thoughts and prayers headed up for her.

[erbear]

Oh wow, how tragic. I'll be sure to send some T&Ps her way.

[tjanca22]

Lots of T&P, that is heartbreaking to hear.

[kemdupuis]

So incredibly sad. I can't imagine the pain that family is going through. Sending Ts and Ps their way.

[alayne926]

How awful! Keeping her in my thoughts.

[tiffbot]

Oh my gosh, my stomach flipped a little reading that. My heart is with them.

[gigi3126]

This is awful. I can't imagine how she must be feeling right now, but I hope she manages to find some peace at some point in the future.

[Deleted]

Oh god. I am so sorry. I cannot even imagine.

[shahoi]

This is so heartbreaking. I'm so sorry for your friend. Sending prayers her way.

[silv3rlining]

I am so so sorry for her loss. One of my closest friends had a placental abruption and lost her daughter at 38+3 (just 3 days after I had DS). For her I know it was important to talk about her daughter. Even know it means a lot to her to hear her daughters name and be asked about her or acknowledge her daughter. It has been 2.5 years and she has a rainbow boy now. It was hard for her to see my DS knowing her daughter would be the same age/milestones but also a nice reminder for her. The biggest thing is just being there for her to talk if she wants. My friend definitely felt like she was abandoned by people because they were uncomfortable/unsure how to respond.

[mirage86]

I don't think there can be words for that kind of pain. I'm so sorry for her loss. Many thoughts and prayers for her and her family.

[gilder40]

She was right around the same point I was when I had Tins. I was put on bed rest at 34+2, delivered at 34+6, and she delivered at 34+1. It breaks my heart. I look at Tins and hold her a little closer, snuggle her a little longer, and kiss her a few extra times. It's just so sad.

[thecatsmeow]

So awful, everyone involved has my thoughts and prayers.

[musicfrk2002]

Oh my gosh. That is horrible! No advice here on coping, but many thoughts and prayers!

[clairencub]

Sending so many prayers and thoughts to your friend. What a tragic situation and I'm so very sorry your friend is having to go through this.

[stinybean]

Many many t&ps for your friend. I hope she is able to receive lots of support and is able to make it through this.

[tulips114]

Sending prayers. So heartbreaking.

[holliberry28]

Oh god, that is so devastating. Sending t & p to your friend. Can't imagine going through such a loss .

[sabrinaml]

I can't even imagine! She's in my thoughts and prayers.

[baytosa2013]

Oh my gosh, I can't even begin to imagine. I'm so sorry for your friend. Losing a child, I imagine, is the most devastating thing thinkable to me now. T&P and all the hugs for them.

[veggiemo]

That's so sad. My thoughts are with them.

[periwinkledaydreams]

Thoughts and prayers.

[mcp6286]

So sorry to hear this! My heart breaks for this family! T&Ps for them!

[Bluedaisy]

Wow, this is beyond awful. Hugs to everyone affected by this.