WWYD? Fostering 2yo and baby: UPDATE
Jan 7, 2016 19:08:46 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Jan 7, 2016 19:08:46 GMT -5
Hello!
We just received a call to foster a 2 year old boy and his newborn brother. A little background. We currently have a 13 yo foster son. H and I both work full time and I work about 30 minutes away from our home. The next three months are the busiest months for H and I at our jobs. We are simultaneously TTC but you can see my signature for the status of that. Right now, the status of the little boys is up in the air. They may find family to take them; the parents may get things figured out; they may become eligible for adoption. It is all unknown. Obviously, I want to take these little boys for so many reasons. H is thinking it is impossible because of our schedules right now. I think we could suck it up for a few months to have these boys. Part of me is thinking I am not thinking rationally because I so desperately want to be a mom to kids this young. It has been really hard for me to feel connected to our 13 yo and he's lived with us since August. What do you guys think we should do?
Update 1/11: We are going to take them! We had a great weekend doing respite care with them. And our 13 yo was so good with them. It was definitely a total change but we just fell in love with them. I cried the whole way back to dropping them off at their current foster home. So, any advice you guys have for that age group is much appreciated! The first night, I just put water in a bottle and added the formula and my mom was like... oh you can't do that! The water has to be boiled first! So yeah, I am totally a newb here.
We just received a call to foster a 2 year old boy and his newborn brother. A little background. We currently have a 13 yo foster son. H and I both work full time and I work about 30 minutes away from our home. The next three months are the busiest months for H and I at our jobs. We are simultaneously TTC but you can see my signature for the status of that. Right now, the status of the little boys is up in the air. They may find family to take them; the parents may get things figured out; they may become eligible for adoption. It is all unknown. Obviously, I want to take these little boys for so many reasons. H is thinking it is impossible because of our schedules right now. I think we could suck it up for a few months to have these boys. Part of me is thinking I am not thinking rationally because I so desperately want to be a mom to kids this young. It has been really hard for me to feel connected to our 13 yo and he's lived with us since August. What do you guys think we should do?
Update 1/11: We are going to take them! We had a great weekend doing respite care with them. And our 13 yo was so good with them. It was definitely a total change but we just fell in love with them. I cried the whole way back to dropping them off at their current foster home. So, any advice you guys have for that age group is much appreciated! The first night, I just put water in a bottle and added the formula and my mom was like... oh you can't do that! The water has to be boiled first! So yeah, I am totally a newb here.