Post by mrsmonogrammed on Jan 8, 2016 15:55:55 GMT -5
ashbash I would love to be a surrogate too! Except I'm thinking that because I had gestational diabetes I won't be allowed to:( I literally had a perfect pregnancy until that diagnosis. All the sadz about it.
Post by beersandweirs on Jan 8, 2016 16:03:15 GMT -5
Another confession: I was reading the cloth diaper check-in, even though I don't go there. It's like another language in there! Which is honestly a big reason I never seriously considered CD-ing.
The only reason I even knew this person had issue with me is because super early on - like feb/march 2015, I would direct comments to her in agreement with what she said, or I would LT things of hers and she basically never acknowledged me...so it was pretty obvious she had beef. I don't actually go through every post I make to see who "likes me."
This. I've quoted her in agreement to some smart things she's contributed to the board, especially when she's given really good advice dealing with anxiety and postpartum, and it's basically fallen on deaf ears. That's when I noticed the intentional exclusion of HDBD lovetits and noticed a pattern forming after a few weeks. I don't actively go out stalking who lovetits my pictures, I've not that much of a egolomanic (sp??). Especially when HDBD is just a nice day to see everyone's adorable LOs!
Oh! Every week I know I have a real FFFC then forget. My kid still has one arm swaddled when he sleeps.
Two weeks ago it was still two arms. Sooo, improvement? He sleeps in a swaddleup so it's more in a wing than really swaddled. We tried both arms out last week and he stayed awake playing with his hands all night so back to one in, one out.
I get notifications for tits and comments, it really boosts my self Esteem for about 2.5 seconds until I realize I could be getting called out for saying something dumb.
This would be my fear if I played on parenting too.
I am reluctant to call this person out because A. She owes me no explanation. B. We will naturally feel affinities with some posters more than others and it won't always be mutual. C. I have no beef with her really and don't want to start one. I probably shouldn't have harped on about it so much but I am curious.
I wouldn't call out. I really don't think it was an intentional diss in this case. I'm assuming I correctly guessed who it was, of course.
Phew y'all have been busy today. Now I'm curious who sammyca is referring to and I'm too lazy to investigate. Blue eyed wife doesn't like any of my posts anymore either. IDGAF. As much as I might side eye @pcrunk for amber teething necklaces, I can't judge her for anything cause she is hilarious and that Esty shop of hers is da bomb. My husband and I were totally virgins when we got together. Yeah right. FFFC: My 3 yo still sleeps in the crib so I can trap him in there at nap time and when time outs fail.
IDK where it shows on mobile. On desktop it shows under your profile pic. You have like ~247 posts and ~200 LTs.
my numbers are lame.
Maybe it's your HDBD or if you don't share pictures. A lot of people get love tits from pics and if you don't post those a lot your love tits would be low.
I wouldn't call out. I really don't think it was an intentional diss in this case. I'm assuming I correctly guessed who it was, of course.
Phew y'all have been busy today. Now I'm curious who sammyca is referring to and I'm too lazy to investigate. Blue eyed wife doesn't like any of my posts anymore either. IDGAF. As much as I might side eye @pcrunk for amber teething necklaces, I can't judge her for anything cause she is hilarious and that Esty shop of hers is da bomb. My husband and I were totally virgins when we got together. Yeah right. FFFC: My 3 yo still sleeps in the crib so I can trap him in there at nap time and when time outs fail.
Mine JUST figured out how to get out. On NYE. He was 3 in September and I milked that shit as long as I could. Sadly, it's over now.
Maybe this is too off topic, but here's another FFFC: I majorly side-eye people who use amber teething necklaces. It's petrified tree sap, and having a drooly thing around your kid's neck 24/7 is nasty.
I love you even though you side eye me. :*
FWIW, I was totally and completely anti these before I got pregnant, while I as pregnant, and for the first 4.5 months of this kid's life. But DH was all "ZOMG HE NEEDS ONE" for weeks when he got super drooley. After being sick of listening to it, I ordered one to prove they didn't do anything and were stupid. But then at 4.5 months when he shoved my finger in his mouth and bit, I was shocked. Literally had no clue he was starting to cut a tooth.. Let alone had one broken through the gum. And now I won't take this damn necklace off. I embraced the crazy.
Also. It's not drooley ever. It's purely for "decoration." They don't actually put it in their mouths. He doesn't even notice it or touch it. Which I totally acknowledge makes it even more stupid and crazy.
Definitely eating all my words on this one. Oh and we are co sleeping. Which I swore up and down I would never ever ever do.
T did the same thing, but sans necklace. I call coincidence.
Whew! I just made it through all that. I was in a training all day, and even with pumping breaks, I fell behind and couldn't post until now.
1. I feel super slutty over here after reading this. I had a roommate in college who knew me as "fun naked girl" before she knew my name. And that's just the tip of the iceberg. 2. I'm neurotic about LTs because I get notifications and I'm totally going to check to see if that poster lovetitted anything of mine. 3. I forgot my good confession, but my lame one is that I keep mixing up @jimbobcooter and wegrowsheep because of the mental image that your screen names bring up for me. But I love you both. 4. My other lame confession is that I really want to change my screen name to something more interesting, but I won't because I'm lazy and I'm worried that the bit of acceptance I have here will go out the window bc I'll seem like a complete stranger, if that makes sense.
FFFC: I have slept with 8 people and DH only slept with me. If it ever becomes really important to him to have another experience I'll definitely consider it.
So you're thinking like, threesome (I think you mentioned that before?) or that he would have his own private night with someone else? I could see possibly being on board for the latter. POSSIBLY. Just not sure I would want to mess with what we've got going, which is pretty good.
I'd think about both, but more so the latter. Him being with someone else discretely. But yes, exactly, I'd be scared of messing up a good thing. Which is why I probably wouldn't consider it unless it were a BIG deal to him, which at this point it's not. He just feels slightly disappointed sometimes! (that he didn't sow his oats so to speak)
3. I forgot my good confession, but my lame one is that I keep mixing up @jimbobcooter and wegrowsheep because of the mental image that your screen names bring up for me.
Maybe this is too off topic, but here's another FFFC: I majorly side-eye people who use amber teething necklaces. It's petrified tree sap, and having a drooly thing around your kid's neck 24/7 is nasty.
I love you even though you side eye me. :*
FWIW, I was totally and completely anti these before I got pregnant, while I as pregnant, and for the first 4.5 months of this kid's life. But DH was all "ZOMG HE NEEDS ONE" for weeks when he got super drooley. After being sick of listening to it, I ordered one to prove they didn't do anything and were stupid. But then at 4.5 months when he shoved my finger in his mouth and bit, I was shocked. Literally had no clue he was starting to cut a tooth.. Let alone had one broken through the gum. And now I won't take this damn necklace off. I embraced the crazy.
Also. It's not drooley ever. It's purely for "decoration." They don't actually put it in their mouths. He doesn't even notice it or touch it. Which I totally acknowledge makes it even more stupid and crazy.
Definitely eating all my words on this one. Oh and we are co sleeping. Which I swore up and down I would never ever ever do.
We are "trying" the amber necklace thing because my crunchy SIL bought C one for Christmas. Also how do you manage to get any sleep co sleeping? The couple times we've had to sleep with C because vacation we were all so miserable. She was like perpendicular to is in the bed.
@jimbobcooter , idk, I see it as we're both satisfied and we're open and honest about what we want. I may not have ever had sex with anyone else but those are important qualities to have in a sex life with anyone, imo. I think it's absolutely possible to say you have a great sex life without having slept with other people.
If I tried to say "my H is the best I've ever had!" Or something, now that would be silly. Of course he is; he's all I know.
FTR.. that wasn't directed specifically at you. You inspired me to ask it but it is something I've pondered for quite some time. But thanks for the response. And you're right. What truly makes a sex life "good" is both people being happy with what they have.
Now speaking of our first.... if you aren't married to him, who knows what ever happened with their first? Because when I was in my senior year of college I got a call from the FBI wanting to know if I knew where mine was and when did I last talk to him... BTW they already knew it had been four weeks prior, after a mutual friend died.... and why. Apparently he had wiped out the cash register and safe at the nightclub he was managing and skipped the state.
My 1st lives about 20ish miles from me and recently celebrating his 1st wedding anniversary with a girl who seriously side eyes me every time she sees me and acts as though I'm invisible (all the whilst butting in on conversations I am having with my friends that I've had well before she was ever in the picture). I've tried to play nice but she's just snubbish. At least I can say I'm way more attractive than she is. (Mutual circle of friends still)
2nd (and subsequent in betweener, bc FWB after the fact yo) owns a lot of acreage about 3 hours from me has a live in GF and a gun range in his property. (We communicate 2x/year to wish each other a happy birthday)
3rd is married to a pastor's daughter and about 30 miles from me
4th is in Arizona and still afraid of commitment has been living with this girl since a year after he moved cross country and basically bailed on their wedding that was supposed to happen this past June.
5th who knows and who cares. My guess is California and a druggie. He was kind of stalkerish when I tried to break things off. And has contacted me a few times over the last few years much to my and DHs dismay. I wish I could wipe any and all memory of him from me.
Post by carolyngrace on Jan 8, 2016 19:17:53 GMT -5
@jimbobcooter, I think people can say they have awesome sex lives even if they've only been with one person. My DH for example - He has me, who will pretty much try anything and loves giving BJ's. He's talked enough to other married dudes to know he has it pretty good. Plus, he has a lifetime of jacking off to compare it to, so it's all pretty exciting compared to that!
@jimbobcooter , I think people can say they have awesome sex lives even if they've only been with one person. My DH for example - He has me, who will pretty much try anything and loves giving BJ's. He's talked enough to other married dudes to know he has it pretty good. Plus, he has a lifetime of jacking off to compare it to, so it's all pretty exciting compared to that!
I am seriously choking and snorting water out my nose!
Post by carolyngrace on Jan 8, 2016 19:27:27 GMT -5
That person doesn't LT any of my shit either FWIW. I do not feel horrible about it.
FFFC: I still feel bad for naming the few people I thought of as the "regs" in the call out thread a while back. Especially since there are a lot more than I named that I really enjoy on here! For the longest time I just had a hard time keeping everyone straight so the few people who had easy name/avatar recognition made me extra happy
I have previously pooh-poohed these things but shit, I'm about ready to try anything with this guy & his tooth hell. He has been seemingly teething since before 4 months but still no peg. Boo.
@pcrunk also, finally saw a pic & your little man is a beaut. That is all.
Same here. 3 months of teething and still nothing to show for it!
Post by periwinkledaydreams on Jan 8, 2016 19:59:12 GMT -5
silv3rlining so curious, are those 5 past boyfriends or 5 people you've slept with? Like woah, you know what all the people you've slept with in the past are doing right now?! I don't know why I'm curious except that that seems impossible!
Perhaps because I have no idea what most of my past people are doing, boyfriends or sex friends or otherwise. ETA also, so sorry about the stalker asshole. Been there. Report that shit if it doesn't stop.
I'm FB friends with two of my exs so I know what they're doing. Other than them and, obviously XH, not a clue where the rest of those people are today.
silv3rlining so curious, are those 5 past boyfriends or 5 people you've slept with? Like woah, you know what all the people you've slept with in the past are doing right now?! I don't know why I'm curious except that that seems impossible!
Perhaps because I have no idea what most of my past people are doing, boyfriends or sex friends or otherwise. ETA also, so sorry about the stalker asshole. Been there. Report that shit if it doesn't stop.
1 was on again off again ex for 6 years (fiancé even at one point) 2 was a boyfriend briefly (but we were friends first and continued to be friends basically until I met DH and like I said we still send birthday greetings via text every year) 3 we dated (but no boyfriend/gf status), and we have mutual friends (and I know his wife's father) 4 best friends/sort of dated (for 6 months, stayed at his house a lot, and his brother/SIL were in my bible study so still had connections to his family) 5 dated but no official title
I'm sharing a lot of information about myself today, I don't know how I feel about it. But I'm doing it anyway.
Ditto. Especially since I am not proud of any of this past and it is not even remotely close to the person I am today. I am thankful for that. But man I'm like of anyone knows me IRL I feel like I need to go delete all I've spilled....
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