DH got home from work, didn't greet me or notice that I had cleaned the house, and immediately starting listing things for me to do tomorrow. Go to the post office and bank, paperwork for FMLA and the birth certificate or something, etc. Then when I said I didn't know if I'd have time to do all that, he suggested that I get up at 5:30am and be more productive during the boys' nap times. And this whole conversation was had while I was cooking a nice dinner. F you, dude.
Post by mmblake2008 on Feb 2, 2015 21:30:13 GMT -5
Realized I go back to work in 2 weeks! I really don't want to, 3 weeks with the baby isn't enough! I know I'll have been off for 26 weeks though so I'm sure they want me back
DH got home from work, didn't greet me or notice that I had cleaned the house, and immediately starting listing things for me to do tomorrow. Go to the post office and bank, paperwork for FMLA and the birth certificate or something, etc. Then when I said I didn't know if I'd have time to do all that, he suggested that I get up at 5:30am and be more productive during the boys' nap times. And this whole conversation was had while I was cooking a nice dinner. F you, dude.
I'd kick my husband's ass if he said something like that to me! Sorry he's being a jerk
DH got home from work, didn't greet me or notice that I had cleaned the house, and immediately starting listing things for me to do tomorrow. Go to the post office and bank, paperwork for FMLA and the birth certificate or something, etc. Then when I said I didn't know if I'd have time to do all that, he suggested that I get up at 5:30am and be more productive during the boys' nap times. And this whole conversation was had while I was cooking a nice dinner. F you, dude.
Um, wtf?! I would be divorced if my H tried that shit with me.
DH got home from work, didn't greet me or notice that I had cleaned the house, and immediately starting listing things for me to do tomorrow. Go to the post office and bank, paperwork for FMLA and the birth certificate or something, etc. Then when I said I didn't know if I'd have time to do all that, he suggested that I get up at 5:30am and be more productive during the boys' nap times. And this whole conversation was had while I was cooking a nice dinner. F you, dude.
This is not ok. DH would be sleeping outside on the front porch. And it's 10 degrees out. That shit isn't acceptable.
DH got home from work, didn't greet me or notice that I had cleaned the house, and immediately starting listing things for me to do tomorrow. Go to the post office and bank, paperwork for FMLA and the birth certificate or something, etc. Then when I said I didn't know if I'd have time to do all that, he suggested that I get up at 5:30am and be more productive during the boys' nap times. And this whole conversation was had while I was cooking a nice dinner. F you, dude.
This is not ok. DH would be sleeping outside on the front porch. And it's 10 degrees out. That shit isn't acceptable.
Yes, this is one of many reasons why I couldn't be a SAHM. Granted, DH is much more productive than I am, but he has all these expectations of me when I SAH. For me, taking care of the boys is all I can do some days.
This is not ok. DH would be sleeping outside on the front porch. And it's 10 degrees out. That shit isn't acceptable.
Yes, this is one of many reasons why I couldn't be a SAHM. Granted, DH is much more productive than I am, but he has all these expectations of me when I SAH. For me, taking care of the boys is all I can do some days.
DH was a SAHD for a while. It totally made him more understanding about what I'm able to do/get done on maternity leave. Not that there's anything helpful for anybody in that anecdote...
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