Post by ladytiffany24 on Jan 28, 2016 7:19:29 GMT -5
We had no water this morning. Water main break. Thank God I shower at night. I'll be washing my face and brushing my teeth at work. H is at home waiting to check back in at 8am for an ETA.
ladytiffany24, well that's a shitty way to start the day. I hope it gets fixed soon!
I am so tired. For some reason, DH woke up at 2:30AM and couldn't fall back asleep. I woke up to the light from his tablet screen. Grrrrr. Luckily I only have a 4 hour workday today since I'm just taking a class.
ladytiffany24 ugh that stinks! I'd be SOL bc I shower in the am and look like hell without it! Hope it comes back soon!
MH is in a terrible mood bc his dad said something that hurt his feelings yesterday. He's come a long way bc he realizes that his tendency would be to direct anger toward me but he knows that's not fair, so I'm proud he's trying to do better with dealing with it. But he's still in a foul mood. He's thinking of calling his dad to tell him that he's hurt, too, which would be huge for both of them...unless it turns into a nasty conversation, which they are both capable of. Makes me appreciate my parents so much...so so much.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Post by ladytiffany24 on Jan 28, 2016 7:59:25 GMT -5
lettricern, Ugh. No sleep sucks. FX tonight is better.
wannabmama, Sounds like your H has made some progress that's great. Even though his shitty mood sucks, probably better to have to deal with that than him taking it all out on you. Hoping it all passes quickly for you and your H and that if he decides to call his dad is remains civil.
wannabmama, hope H turns his mood around. I hate when people take their anger out on people it shouldn't be directed towards. MH does this sometimes when his brother is an asshole to him.
AFM - I just want a cocktail today. Already. Came into a shitstorm at work that erupted while I was driving in. Good times.
wannabmama I'm glad to hear he's at least improved not taking it out on you, it's easy to do I think we all may have been guilty at one time or another. It's awesome he's leaning on you for support when stuff like that happens instead of directing it toward you. Hopefully he feels better about it today after talking to his dad.
I hope your day turns around requiressnacks !!! I won't tell if you sneak to the package store and drop some baileys in your coffee
ladytiffany24, well that's a shitty way to start the day. I hope it gets fixed soon!
I am so tired. For some reason, DH woke up at 2:30AM and couldn't fall back asleep. I woke up to the light from his tablet screen. Grrrrr. Luckily I only have a 4 hour workday today since I'm just taking a class.
MH does this at night when I'm trying to go to bed. Like if he's done watching tv he'll come in the room and get on his phone.. Dude, sleeeeeping here!!! Rude.
wannabmama I'm sorry about your H's crap mood. That really sucks but it sounds like it's an improvement from how things usually are, which is a plus for you. I hope he's able to talk with his dad and sort things out.
AFM, I haven't been around much. We had a super busy weekend and then DS got sick, so it's been a busy week of catch up. DS is feeling better, the house is clean, and my to-do list is pretty much complete so I'm happy to have a little more downtime.
Thanks, ladies! He is a grumpy person and is easily set off. He's had some crap in his life that really sucks and I think it sends him spiraling. I'm working on finding someone/therapist he can talk to, but I am impressed that he's trying to be self aware. He's not always perfect but acknowledging it is the first step! I just feel bad for him when he can't deal with emotions bc he never learned how! Anyway...I'm ironically heading to a fertility therapist this morning, too bad I couldn't send him in my place!
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
I'm sofa king tired. I need a mainline of caffeine placed STAT. This whole working two jobs thing from 7:30am-9/9:30pm is not so good for my sleep. Or sanity. /sigh
#thistooshallpass
Only 16 more work days until February break though!
My mom just texted me to tell me the lady who altered my wedding dress's daughter is expecting triplet boys. I'm just sitting here on CD3 and got told this week we will probably have to wait until fall for IVF. Thanks mom.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Post by sleepymonkey on Jan 28, 2016 9:32:15 GMT -5
Hugs rooskie. That is tough. ladytiffany24, what a crappy start to the day! Hopefully they can get it fixed soon! wannabmama, that is so great that your H is becoming more self-aware and isn't taking his hurt feelings out on you. But it sucks that his father said something hurtful to him. Hopefully they can work it out.
AFM, I started feeling like I was getting a cold last night and I would up feeling like crap this morning. I think it's a sinus infection, which would explain the vertigo I've been dealing with. My head feels like it's going to explode. But today is my Friday, so I'm happy about that!
Post by kayladawn91 on Jan 28, 2016 9:37:35 GMT -5
H just texted me at work because they had to take FIL to the hospital. He has some heart issues already and he was having trouble breathing this morning. They're running tests right now because they think he has some clogged arteries. Ugh.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Post by requiressnacks on Jan 28, 2016 9:49:50 GMT -5
I have a random wedding etiquette question: My CW got invited to a wedding in March (in NY state...so Brrr...cold) that is black tie optional. CW plans to wear a floor length gown and her BF is wearing a tux. The wedding is in a church at 3 p.m. and the reception doesn't start until 6 p.m. There is no hosted cocktail hour or activity in between. Bride suggested guests go to local shops in the town or the local bar and entertain themselves.
Should CW wear her floor length gown to the church and then hang out in it for 3 hours? Should she do an outfit change?
I have a random wedding etiquette question: My CW got invited to a wedding in March (in NY state...so Brrr...cold) that is black tie optional. CW plans to wear a floor length gown and her BF is wearing a tux. The wedding is in a church at 3 p.m. and the reception doesn't start until 6 p.m. There is no hosted cocktail hour or activity in between. Bride suggested guests go to local shops in the town or the local bar and entertain themselves.
Should CW wear her floor length gown to the church and then hang out in it for 3 hours? Should she do an outfit change?
WWGKUD?
I would wear it, chances are they will end up at a bar where other guests are so they won't be the only ones dressed up. Also, if I see someone in formal attire at a bar or other informal location I just assume they are on there way somewhere else....NBD and I wouldn't think anything of it.
I have to present on a conference call at 1 I've done them before but I always get nervous. I'm ready for that part of my day to be over 1pm can't come soon enough.
I have a random wedding etiquette question: My CW got invited to a wedding in March (in NY state...so Brrr...cold) that is black tie optional. CW plans to wear a floor length gown and her BF is wearing a tux. The wedding is in a church at 3 p.m. and the reception doesn't start until 6 p.m. There is no hosted cocktail hour or activity in between. Bride suggested guests go to local shops in the town or the local bar and entertain themselves.
Should CW wear her floor length gown to the church and then hang out in it for 3 hours? Should she do an outfit change?
WWGKUD?
I would wear something less casual to the church part and then get fancy for the evening reception. A pain in butt yes, but it would be pretty uncomfortable to go to a bar or local shops in formal wear.
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