My in laws were supposed to come this weekend, and now they want to come next weekend instead. I'm furious, because I'll be even more pregnant, and my house keeper was just here and won't be back till after next weekend... And I don't want to clean at all. I'm so lazy. And grumpy.
I know that until 40+ weeks I should really be happy to keep baby girl cooking and I usually eye roll people who are all antsy at this point but here I am at 36+4 and I'm in so much pain I just want her out now.
I know that until 40+ weeks I should really be happy to keep baby girl cooking and I usually eye roll people who are all antsy at this point but here I am at 36+4 and I'm in so much pain I just want her out now.
I was the exact same way. I know she needed to stay in as long as possible but I couldn't help chant to her in private "get out, get out, get out". The last weeks were really hard and I was miserable, in pain, grumpy, and impatient. You're allowed to feel all the things even if its not what you "should" feel
I know that until 40+ weeks I should really be happy to keep baby girl cooking and I usually eye roll people who are all antsy at this point but here I am at 36+4 and I'm in so much pain I just want her out now.
Right there with you girl. Not so much on the pain part, but the discomfort. This is my last pregnancy and I just want it over now. I'm such a hypocrite for scheduling induction when I am typically so against it, but whatever. Get her out. I have 8 lber babies at 39 weeks. My doc is confident in it. So yes, I'm so done at 39 weeks if she doesn't come before.
I know that until 40+ weeks I should really be happy to keep baby girl cooking and I usually eye roll people who are all antsy at this point but here I am at 36+4 and I'm in so much pain I just want her out now.
I'm 38 weeks today and I'm like get out baby boy!!! I had BH contractions and low cramping all night, I wish it meant something....
I have 7 work days left, but I'm finding it almost impossible to even pretend to give a fuck lately. It's definitely compounded by the fact that my boss has not really seemed to look for a replacement, and keeps putting off my handover.
I'm also not excited to SAH anymore. It's probably just anxiety leading up to the birth, but I'm starting to worry I'm going to suck at it big time.
My wedding ring still fits, I just am claiming it doesn't because I hate wearing jewelry and it's a nice break.
Me too! I had one day that my hands swelled due to the super hot weather and a lot of walking and I took them off and never put them back on. It's been so nice.
My house is embarrassingly messy and borderline gross. I cannot keep up with housework and there is baby crap EVERYWHERE.
My baby isn't even here yet and I've given up.
I hear you on that one. MH offered to have his mom/cousins come and clean the house when I'm in the hospital. Although that sounds amazing, I'm super embarrassed at how much I've let the house go, and can only can only imagine what they'd be saying behind my back while scrubbing crusted peanut butter off the counters and trying to get the dried play doh out of the rugs.
My FFFC: I had sex with MH 2 nights ago and I flat out told him that it would be the last time until after the 6 week pp check up. He wasn't surprised and took the news like a champ haha. I'm SO relieved to not feel any pressure to do anything sex-related for awhile. I guess this is even more reason to convince MH to get the big V after baby is born. Once I actually want to have sex again, the LAST thing I want is baby #4!
My house is embarrassingly messy and borderline gross. I cannot keep up with housework and there is baby crap EVERYWHERE.
My baby isn't even here yet and I've given up.
I hear you on that one. MH offered to have his mom/cousins come and clean the house when I'm in the hospital. Although that sounds amazing, I'm super embarrassed at how much I've let the house go, and can only can only imagine what they'd be saying behind my back while scrubbing crusted peanut butter off the counters and trying to get the dried play doh out of the rugs.
My FFFC: I had sex with MH 2 nights ago and I flat out told him that it would be the last time until after the 6 week pp check up. He wasn't surprised and took the news like a champ haha. I'm SO relieved to not feel any pressure to do anything sex-related for awhile. I guess this is even more reason to convince MH to get the big V after baby is born. Once I actually want to have sex again, the LAST thing I want is baby #4!
I did the exact same thing. I also jokingly/not jokingly told him "Don't expect me to enjoy it".
Also, I'm still afraid I won't love Dos as much as I love the Bird. My parents had clear favorites, and I always swore that wouldn't be me. But then my son came around and he's my best friend. I just don't understand something changing that, I guess.
I hear you on that one. MH offered to have his mom/cousins come and clean the house when I'm in the hospital. Although that sounds amazing, I'm super embarrassed at how much I've let the house go, and can only can only imagine what they'd be saying behind my back while scrubbing crusted peanut butter off the counters and trying to get the dried play doh out of the rugs.
My FFFC: I had sex with MH 2 nights ago and I flat out told him that it would be the last time until after the 6 week pp check up. He wasn't surprised and took the news like a champ haha. I'm SO relieved to not feel any pressure to do anything sex-related for awhile. I guess this is even more reason to convince MH to get the big V after baby is born. Once I actually want to have sex again, the LAST thing I want is baby #4!
I did the exact same thing. I also jokingly/not jokingly told him "Don't expect me to enjoy it".
We did it yesterday, and I told him just do his thing because I'm done with sex. I feel bad, because that's so not me, but after this last ER visit, I haven't stopped being sick and in pain.
Also, I'm still afraid I won't love Dos as much as I love the Bird. My parents had clear favorites, and I always swore that wouldn't be me. But then my son came around and he's my best friend. I just don't understand something changing that, I guess.
I have the same fear about #2. I mean, I know I'll love my child of course. I just worry I won't be as bonded as I am with L.
Post by peachesncream on Feb 26, 2016 10:54:32 GMT -5
I am sort of purposefully trying to screw over my boss/group when I leave on maternity leave so they realize how valuable I am. I am pretty much the sole researcher for our company and no one knows how to do what I do so I'm not really sure how anything will get done while I'm gone.
Post by almachs0786 on Feb 26, 2016 11:26:00 GMT -5
My mom, grandma, and brother flew in last night and will be here any minute. I am so excited. I have every intention of visiting for a few minutes and then pawning the babies off on them for a solo trip to Walmart. I NEED OUT!!
Post by isolemnlyswear on Feb 26, 2016 11:32:04 GMT -5
Sex is no where on my radar. Between it feeling more swollen and also like the Mojave Desert (thanks ever changing hormones) down there sex sounds like torture.... sorry DH.
My mom, grandma, and brother flew in last night and will be here any minute. I am so excited. I have every intention of visiting for a few minutes and then pawning the babies off on them for a solo trip to Walmart. I NEED OUT!!
My plan is no more sex until I want to try to evict this baby. Even then I dunno. Since DH dislocated his shoulder I think he won't be asking anyhow.
He must have some fancy moves if a dislocated shoulder interferes.
It's more he can barely use his arm for anything. He's been sleeping in the basement because he is having problems sleeping from the pain. I mean I guess if I was on top it would solve the problem but that's not happening lol.
So yesterday I started worrying that I was maybe leaking amniotic fluid bc of the dampness down there. But it wasn't happening all day & didn't happen at home.
FFFC: I realized today that it's from my heater under my desk. It's not AF; my crotch is sweating
TTC since Sept 2012 M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13 Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/15...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14 ***BFP #3 7/4/15, LO born 3/17/16***
So yesterday I started worrying that I was maybe leaking amniotic fluid bc of the dampness down there. But it wasn't happening all day & didn't happen at home.
FFFC: I realized today that it's from my heater under my desk. It's not AF; my crotch is sweating
I read this as Aunt Flow and I was so confused for a second. "Why would it be your period?"
So yesterday I started worrying that I was maybe leaking amniotic fluid bc of the dampness down there. But it wasn't happening all day & didn't happen at home.
FFFC: I realized today that it's from my heater under my desk. It's not AF; my crotch is sweating
I read this as Aunt Flow and I was so confused for a second. "Why would it be your period?"
Haha I've done that too stalking other threads on F16, which is why I typed out amniotic fluid in the first part to hopefully clarify lol
TTC since Sept 2012 M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13 Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/15...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14 ***BFP #3 7/4/15, LO born 3/17/16***
#1 I'm excited for LO to get here and all. But I'm also REALLY excited for calving season to start. It's alot of anticipation waiting ~9 months after breeding selection to see how the calves turn out and hoping for a "great one".
#2 Originally I was hoping my Dr would induce at my 39wk appt, but now I'd prefer she stay put another week bc then I can go to the heifer show at our big statewide livestock show. I can't believe I'm actually hoping to stay this miserable for another week.
TTC since Sept 2012 M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13 Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/15...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14 ***BFP #3 7/4/15, LO born 3/17/16***
TTC since Sept 2012 M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13 Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/15...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14 ***BFP #3 7/4/15, LO born 3/17/16***
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