Post by jewel441 on Mar 8, 2016 9:45:58 GMT -5
So I have been thinking a lot about my expectations before baby was here and how it is now that she is even though we have been home all of 2 days... I feel like I knew myself pretty well.
I thought it might be fun to share some things we were right about and some things we were wrong about:
I was so right:
1. I have a high threshold for pain. Several of the nurses and doctors commented on this to me while we were in the hospital. I refused all the opioids after my C section which apparently is not something a lot of ppl do. I think it was a huge factor in why we got to leave the hospital early though and I never felt I needed anything stronger than Motrin/Tylenol.
2. I love the arms reach. It was definitely the right choice for us. I have a really hard time falling asleep if she isn't in the room with me. I like to hear her and know everything is ok. I can get her out of the arms reach without getting up, even with my limited mobility right now which is great.
3. I love BF so far. Even though it's hard and sometimes stressful I wouldn't trade it for anything.
4. I hated the spinal. I know an epidural would be a little different but idk if I would get it unless I needed another C. My reaction to the spinal was by far the worst part of the whole birth and recovery experience.
I was so wrong:
1. My biggest one here is we needed more stuff. We were not prepared with what we had in the house AT ALL. H or my mom has needed to make at least one baby store run everyday and I still feel like we don't have enough. Waiting for gifts was a mistake, we should have bought more ourselves.
2. Like most FTM I'm guessing we packed all the wrong things in our hospital bag! Definitely did not need 3/4 of what was in there and more clothes for H and more snacks would have been so much more useful. I will also definitely bring the Boppy next time (one of our emergency target run purchases).
3. Having a c section wasn't bad and i don't even feel remotely disappointed in her birth, which I am really glad about I was so worried I would be disappointed in myself for it but I really don't feel that way at all.
I thought it might be fun to share some things we were right about and some things we were wrong about:
I was so right:
1. I have a high threshold for pain. Several of the nurses and doctors commented on this to me while we were in the hospital. I refused all the opioids after my C section which apparently is not something a lot of ppl do. I think it was a huge factor in why we got to leave the hospital early though and I never felt I needed anything stronger than Motrin/Tylenol.
2. I love the arms reach. It was definitely the right choice for us. I have a really hard time falling asleep if she isn't in the room with me. I like to hear her and know everything is ok. I can get her out of the arms reach without getting up, even with my limited mobility right now which is great.
3. I love BF so far. Even though it's hard and sometimes stressful I wouldn't trade it for anything.
4. I hated the spinal. I know an epidural would be a little different but idk if I would get it unless I needed another C. My reaction to the spinal was by far the worst part of the whole birth and recovery experience.
I was so wrong:
1. My biggest one here is we needed more stuff. We were not prepared with what we had in the house AT ALL. H or my mom has needed to make at least one baby store run everyday and I still feel like we don't have enough. Waiting for gifts was a mistake, we should have bought more ourselves.
2. Like most FTM I'm guessing we packed all the wrong things in our hospital bag! Definitely did not need 3/4 of what was in there and more clothes for H and more snacks would have been so much more useful. I will also definitely bring the Boppy next time (one of our emergency target run purchases).
3. Having a c section wasn't bad and i don't even feel remotely disappointed in her birth, which I am really glad about I was so worried I would be disappointed in myself for it but I really don't feel that way at all.