I'm glad to hear we aren't the only ones that haven't had sex since FW. I have no interest whatsoever and I'm irrationally worried it may jeopardize things. H isn't that interested either so I don't feel bad. He can take care of himself as much as he wants. It was the same with DS too. I just hope we can get back on the wagon after the birth faster than we did last time. Between multiple 4th degree tears and low libido from BF, it was a slow go the first time around. We'll get to that later though..
I'm glad to hear we aren't the only ones that haven't had sex since FW. I have no interest whatsoever and I'm irrationally worried it may jeopardize things. H isn't that interested either so I don't feel bad. He can take care of himself as much as he wants. It was the same with DS too. I just hope we can get back on the wagon after the birth faster than we did last time. Between multiple 4th degree tears and low libido from BF, it was a slow go the first time around. We'll get to that later though..
I think it's an old wives tale that if you are horny, it's going to be a boy due to extra testosterone. It was true for me, but mh was weirded out by pregnant sex.
I think he learned his lesson since he didn't want to while pregnant and then I didn't like sex until about 6 months pp...so that was a long stretch.
DH is one of those that, despite knowing medically it's fine, does NOT want to have sex once my bump gets big. He's just so afraid of hurting me or the baby, it loses interest for him. We were fine last time and we'll be fine this time if we don't have much sex during pregnancy. It's nice, but it's not the primary way we are intimate - we are big cuddlers!
And when I was pregnant with DS, my sex drive was fairly high but not anything more than usual. While breastfeeding, no drive at all.
I am currently in the sex sounds like a form of torture category. Just the thought of sex makes me want to vomit besides I am likely trying to sleep. Last time around I got the 2nd tri wave and had a crazy drive (and had a girl so not true for me).
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