Post by jordanelizabeth on Jan 17, 2015 21:01:01 GMT -5
So typically mh is fantastic.. He is helpful in all the ways he knows how to be, understands that the smell of almost anything will make me gag, and is just excited as me about our first child... Tonight however, our closest couple friends came over for dinner and the husband is kind of miserable about being a father. I mean, he clearly loves their little girl but fucking LOVES to complain about the inconvenience of being a dad. (To his credit, he does get the shit end of the stick quite often but that's nonemabusiness). Anywho. It appears to have rubbed off on mh this evening because everything I said about our future human was accompanied by an eye roll or a laugh from mh. I literally had to hold back tears in front of these people because he was being such a dick. Needless to say he got a mouthful after they left then I came right to bed. I feel really disappointed in him right now.
So typically mh is fantastic.. He is helpful in all the ways he knows how to be, understands that the smell of almost anything will make me gag, and is just excited as me about our first child... Tonight however, our closest couple friends came over for dinner and the husband is kind of miserable about being a father. I mean, he clearly loves their little girl but fucking LOVES to complain about the inconvenience of being a dad. (To his credit, he does get the shit end of the stick quite often but that's nonemabusiness). Anywho. It appears to have rubbed off on mh this evening because everything I said about our future human was accompanied by an eye roll or a laugh from mh. I literally had to hold back tears in front of these people because he was being such a dick. Needless to say he got a mouthful after they left then I came right to bed. I feel really disappointed in him right now.
Oh I'm really sorry. That's causing you some unwarranted feels I hope he comes around and gives you the big fat apology you deserve.
So typically mh is fantastic.. He is helpful in all the ways he knows how to be, understands that the smell of almost anything will make me gag, and is just excited as me about our first child... Tonight however, our closest couple friends came over for dinner and the husband is kind of miserable about being a father. I mean, he clearly loves their little girl but fucking LOVES to complain about the inconvenience of being a dad. (To his credit, he does get the shit end of the stick quite often but that's nonemabusiness). Anywho. It appears to have rubbed off on mh this evening because everything I said about our future human was accompanied by an eye roll or a laugh from mh. I literally had to hold back tears in front of these people because he was being such a dick. Needless to say he got a mouthful after they left then I came right to bed. I feel really disappointed in him right now.
Oh I'm really sorry. That's causing you some unwarranted feels I hope he comes around and gives you the big fat apology you deserve.
Thanks ❤️ I'm probably overreacting because, you know, pregnancy.... But it just caught me really off guard. Idk where it came from.
I love MH, he is so supportive and loving...however...
Tonight I ordered a chicken sandwich at a restaurant (I wanted to go to a different place, but he insisted that I could find something I liked at this restaurant). I ate 4 bites of it and told him I was done with it. The thought of taking another bite made me feel sick. He told me "mind over matter". NO. NOT MIND OVER MATTER, I WANT TO BARF ON THE TABLE.
I legitimately got pissed at him the other night for the exact same comment and he apologized and said he was just trying to be supportive and motivate me through it, but COME ON, I am NOT the type of girl who milks these situations and acts like a baby. I take a lot of pride in sticking it out and being tough.
I love MH, he is so supportive and loving...however...
Tonight I ordered a chicken sandwich at a restaurant (I wanted to go to a different place, but he insisted that I could find something I liked at this restaurant). I ate 4 bites of it and told him I was done with it. The thought of taking another bite made me feel sick. He told me "mind over matter". NO. NOT MIND OVER MATTER, I WANT TO BARF ON THE TABLE.
I legitimately got pissed at him the other night for the exact same comment and he apologized and said he was just trying to be supportive and motivate me through it, but COME ON, I am NOT the type of girl who milks these situations and acts like a baby. I take a lot of pride in sticking it out and being tough.
MH used to say things like that, at the beginning of my nausea. Until he heard me gagging while brushing my teeth, every time I brush them. Now he just gives me sad eyes and rubs my back.
My H forgot/ didnt tell me that I gave myself a concussion last night. Apparently I knocked my head on the head board, and knocked myself out. He let me go to work all day with out telling me. I happen to see my regular doc whe at the store and was whining about a migrane. The doc laughed and checked for a concussion. I have a sever one.
My H forgot/ didnt tell me that I gave myself a concussion last night. Apparently I knocked my head on the head board, and knocked myself out. He let me go to work all day with out telling me. I happen to see my regular doc whe at the store and was whining about a migrane. The doc laughed and checked for a concussion. I have a sever one.
Silly question but... how did you not know you knocked yourself out? I mean I know concussions you forget things but bad enough to not remember it happened?
I've had one prior and I remember being very fuzzy after but knew I had slipped on the baseball field. It was everything AFTER that didn't make sense.
My H forgot/ didnt tell me that I gave myself a concussion last night. Apparently I knocked my head on the head board, and knocked myself out. He let me go to work all day with out telling me. I happen to see my regular doc whe at the store and was whining about a migrane. The doc laughed and checked for a concussion. I have a sever one.
Silly question but... how did you not know you knocked yourself out? I mean I know concussions you forget things but bad enough to not remember it happened?
I've had one prior and I remember being very fuzzy after but knew I had slipped on the baseball field. It was everything AFTER that didn't make sense.
My H forgot/ didnt tell me that I gave myself a concussion last night. Apparently I knocked my head on the head board, and knocked myself out. He let me go to work all day with out telling me. I happen to see my regular doc whe at the store and was whining about a migrane. The doc laughed and checked for a concussion. I have a sever one.
Silly question but... how did you not know you knocked yourself out? I mean I know concussions you forget things but bad enough to not remember it happened?
I've had one prior and I remember being very fuzzy after but knew I had slipped on the baseball field. It was everything AFTER that didn't make sense.
I didn't know I knocked my head. He actually caught it on video and I still can't remember it happening after watching the video.
Silly question but... how did you not know you knocked yourself out? I mean I know concussions you forget things but bad enough to not remember it happened?
I've had one prior and I remember being very fuzzy after but knew I had slipped on the baseball field. It was everything AFTER that didn't make sense.
I didn't know I knocked my head. He actually caught it on video and I still can't remember it happening after watching the video.
He caught you knocking your head on video? And you don't remember what was happening? Sounds like an even more serious issue; does your doctor know you don't remember anything before you got knocked out?
I didn't know I knocked my head. He actually caught it on video and I still can't remember it happening after watching the video.
He caught you knocking your head on video? And you don't remember what was happening? Sounds like an even more serious issue; does your doctor know you don't remember anything before you got knocked out?
Edited for spelling.
My reg doc knows. My OB doesn't. Buty reg doc isn't worried.
@kateyoung are you ok now? I mean a lasting migraine and all. If it was severe, he didn't seem concerned?
I'm good now. I just had problems focusing and reading all day. I have a bad headache but doc isn't worried, so I'm not worried. Just needed to vent about H not at least givinge a heads up.
@kateyoung are you ok now? I mean a lasting migraine and all. If it was severe, he didn't seem concerned?
I'm good now. I just had problems focusing and reading all day. I have a bad headache but doc isn't worried, so I'm not worried. Just needed to vent about H not at least givinge a heads up.
ok good.
Sorry for the 20 questions, but one more? ok that was one, so two more. I'm curious... was there a PG reason why he was video-taping the head bonk?
I'm good now. I just had problems focusing and reading all day. I have a bad headache but doc isn't worried, so I'm not worried. Just needed to vent about H not at least givinge a heads up.
ok good.
Sorry for the 20 questions, but one more? ok that was one, so two more. I'm curious... was there a PG reason why he was video-taping the head bonk?
I talk in my sleep. He was up watching a movie and I started talking. Like having a legislated 1 sided conversation. He likes to record them to he can try and confuse me about things I said.
Post by sunshinelady15 on Jan 20, 2015 1:00:48 GMT -5
I completely understand your frustration! My husband is the opposite of OCD! Has the nerve to throw around "needing a maid" I look at him like hell, you want me to dial one up? I shut him up real quick. The nerve. I am doing the best I can dude. He is so sweet and generous and sometimes clueless at the same time.
Fish and asparagus?! I'm offended for you, OP. This isn't a "power through" scenario...it is literally all about survival and the first tri hostage crisis is almost over...
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